Old Love Is Back
BABY'S BIRTH
While people who are outside feel relieved when they hear the sound of the baby's release.
" horse my nephew was born ". Shouted bean happily.
" we have another new nephew ". Prilly with a hug with nur.
" thank god's love ". Richard said with pleasure.
They are all very happy today to welcome the second son of elmas and sean. The second nephew of bean and prilly, as well as nur and erlan, as well as the second grandson of richand.
" lord and Nyoya this is his son, survived his son, his weight is 3.2 kg with a length of 45 cm ". Said the sister by putting the tiny baby next to Elmas.
" thank you ".
" same sir, excuse me ". Said the sister and was nodded by sean.
Elmas who was still staring at the little baby sleeping next to her did not feel touched. Sean immediately wiped away his wife's tears.
" what makes you sad baby ".
" i didn't expect that I could give birth to a child like this hubby, my second angel now born in a hubby world ".
" welcome hotshot daddy, you have to take care of your mom and your sister okay ". Sean and elmas laughed.
The doctor who helped me come there with a happy way to give birth safely.
" happy nyoya and lord for the birth of your son ".
" please thank the doctor for helping my wife also give birth ".
" it is my duty, sir, and nyoya you must rest because you must be very tired ".
" well doc ".
" i'm sorry, Mr. Sean, we'll have to talk later ".
" is there a problem ". Sean and Elmas were afraid because of the doctor's words.
" not the master of all is good, I speak of medicine only ".
" i'll be there later doc ".
" i'll excuse you, then ". Said the doctor and was nodded by sean and elmas.
" please sleep, let's recover soon and we can move the room ".
" hem, I'm going to sleep because I'm so tired of hubby ".
" excuse me for moving the baby into the box ".
" yes, thank you ".
" same as nyoya ".
When she finished, the nurse moved the baby. Elmas easily fell asleep because of his tiredness.
Sean felt his wife sleep with her slow steps approaching the doctor who was awake there.
" doctor what's going on ".
" oh mr. sean, how nyoya elmas has been sleeping ".
" already docks ".
" i will move to another room to be easy on the arch of the master ".
" good doctor ".
" i congratulate you on the birth of your first son ".
" sorry doctor but this is our second child ".
" but in this file, nyoya just gave birth to ".
" it's true doctor, for elmas it was her first time giving birth, because our first daughter from my old marriage ".
" oh, I'm sorry, sir, if this is the first for nyoya, I just want to say, ', sir, if it's the first for nyoya,, do not let nyoya with her son alone or in the room in the key, because usually the woman who first gave birth will have the baby blues,, because,, if that happens then we the medical party ask not to leave Nyoya with the little one alone ".
" wait doc, I mean how I don't understand ".
" Baby blues is a mood disorder experienced by mothers after giving birth. This condition causes the mother easily sad, tired, irritable, crying for no apparent reason, easily agitated, and difficult to concentrate. The baby blues can start as early as the first week after delivery and generally last up to 2 weeks ".
" then what should we do doc ".
" accompanied nyoya, give him spirit when he complains when later meyusui, at the beginning of the usual birth his body shape will change, his lack of sleep,, the,, if the nyoya will give breast milk to the little one then the nyoya will eat irregularly and it will change the shape of his body,, erratic mood changes sometimes that are on her mind is the fear of her husband dying when she saw the shape of his body that is in because of the baby,, so you or your family should take care of each other ".
" what's this happening to all the doc's moms ".
" 80% of women who first give birth will experience her master sean but this is not intermittent, only 2 weeks or at most 3 weeks, if it exceeds that you can check it ".
" thank you doc, I'll remember what you said ".
" same as mister sean, then we will immediately move nyoya elmas later in the morning ". Said the doctor and nodded by sean.
Sean came out of the room to meet all his family who were there waiting.
" kids how elmas ". Ask papa richand.
" he's good paa, opa's granddaughter is healthy too ". Sean said and they all felt relieved.
" when can we see it" said bean.
" in the morning they'll move her, brother, so be patient, you can also go home to rest, I'll be alone here ".
" you can go home, let me and boss Sean wait here ". Erlan.
" you're right, 'cause I'm sleepy ". Bean.
" dear you stay at papa's house ". Erlan said to nur and nur nodding his head.
All of them feel relieved because elmas nothing happened. All of her healthy mothers and little ones are also healthy.
Erlan and Sean were sitting in front of a busy room with their cell phones. Sean is still busy looking for a name for the little guy while Erlan remains busy contacting erik who still has no answer.
" a boss like her you should send erik into the distant wilds of Africa ". Erlan with annoyance.
Sean did not look at Erlan at all who was upset. "what a balloon there is an answer ".
" belt boss ".
" we'll see the expression when we see your call later ".
" do I need to punish his boss ".
" do it if he doesn't come this morning ".
" good boss ". Erlan said with a happy tone.
" you're always happy to punish Eric ".
" there's boss's own happiness ".
" you have always been hostile from the past to the present ". Sean and Erlan smiled.
Sean is still focused on his cell phone looking for the meaning of the name for his son.
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#weight of the little guy ya gaes
The ideal body weight for a baby is 2.5 to 4.0 kg.
Ideal Baby Weight 1–3 Months
In the early months after birth, the growth of the baby will take place so quickly. When the baby reaches the age of 3 months, the average ideal body weight of a baby boy is 5–7.9 kg with a length of 60–65 cm. While in baby girls, the ideal body weight ranges from 4.6–7.4 kg with a body length of 55–63 cm.
Ideal Baby Weight 4–6 Months
The growth and development of babies when they turn 4–6 months is also quite rapid. At the age of 6 months, the ideal body weight of a baby boy is 6.4–9.7 kg with a body length of about 63–71 cm. While in baby girls, the ideal body weight ranges from 5.8–9.2 kg with a body length of 61–70 cm.
Ideal Baby Weight 7–12 Months
At the age of 12 months, the baby's weight usually increases up to 3 times the birth weight. In baby boys, the ideal body weight can reach 7.8–11.8 kg with a height of 71–80 cm. As for baby girls, the ideal weight is in the range of 7.1–11.3 kg with a height of 69–79 cm.
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Baby blues is Gaes
*About 80 percent of women who have just given birth experience the baby blues. Although the symptoms sometimes seem trivial, baby blues can have a negative impact on mothers and babies and must be treated immediately.
Baby blues is a mood disorder experienced by mothers after giving birth. This condition causes the mother easily sad, tired, irritable, crying for no apparent reason, easily agitated, and difficult to concentrate.
The baby blues can start as early as the first week after delivery and generally last up to 2 weeks. Complaints are not continuously felt, but disappear. Even so, this complaint must be overcome properly so as not to develop into postpartum depression (postpartum depression).
The Causes of Baby Blues
The cause of the baby blues is not yet known. However, there are several things that can trigger the occurrence of this condition, including:
Hormonal changes
After giving birth, there is a fairly drastic change in hormone levels. The hormones estrogen and progesterone in the body will decrease. This can cause chemical changes in the brain and trigger mood changes (mood swing).
Difficulty adapting
Difficulty adapting to existing changes and new responsibilities as a mother can be the cause of the baby blues. Many new mothers feel overwhelmed to take care of everything themselves, including taking care of the needs of the Little One.
Lack of sleep
Newborns' irregular sleep cycles cause mothers to be awake at night and take up much of their sleep. Lack of continuous sleep time will make the mother tired and uncomfortable. This is what can cause the baby blues.
How to Deal with Baby Blues
Baby blues usually go away on their own. However, if you experience it, this condition needs to be managed properly. Some things you can do to overcome the baby blues are:
Don't be too proud
Do not force yourself to do everything yourself. Do what you can do. When you feel overwhelmed, whether in taking care of the Little One or homework, do not hesitate to ask for help from the closest trusted people.
Get enough sleep
Make sure your sleep time is well enough. Take advantage of the Little One's sleep time for you to sleep. If the Little One wakes up at night because of bedwetting and you still need sleep to recover power, do not hesitate to ask for help from a partner to change the Little One's diaper and keep it for a moment.
Exercise regularly and eat quality food
To help overcome the baby blues experienced, you are advised to exercise regularly. Not only can exercise distract and distract you, but it also helps improve your mood and sleep quality.
If you do not have time to exercise, food can also help control your mood. Avoid foods that are high in simple carbohydrates such as syrup, packaged pastries, and white bread. This type of food is thought to aggravate mood swing.
Share stories
You are encouraged to socialize with other new mothers in order to exchange stories about the feelings you experience. However, if this feels heavy, you can start by telling it to your husband. After all, it is your husband who is closest to you.
In addition to some of the ways above, you can also take some time for a few days to time. This may help to overcome the symptoms of baby blues that you feel.
In the midst of a happy moment welcoming the Little One, the baby blues must feel strange and unnatural to you. However, keep in mind that this is normal and experienced by many other mothers. To deal with this, you need a lot of physical as well as moral support from the people around you.
However, if the complaints you feel do not improve and still settle more than two weeks after giving birth, do not hesitate to immediately consult a psychologist so that the complaint does not get worse.
Baby blues are a mild form of postpartum depression that many new mothers experience. This mental condition usually goes away on its own after a few days. However, the baby blues can also develop into postpartum depression which is a more serious and long-lasting form of depression*.