
Hello, loyal readers "Sakura's Petals"
How are you guys doing today?
The author prays that you are now in good health!
Suddenly we started season 2 hehe
Thank you for your support to this chapter.
Unlike usual, this author will discuss the latest case, which is about Sulli and the evil of cyber-bullying
Why is this Thor?
Because according to this author is very important both for us and our friends and family.
We do not live in the past where we want to receive a letter just have to wait a week.
So information is faster and getting to know people does not have to meet each other.
But do you know that today, although more advanced, is not accompanied by ethical progress as well?
People have become easier to hurt others with disrespectful words because it is facilitated by technology.
One of the victims was Sulli
I swear when I heard the news, the author was shocked.
Indeed, Sulli had a tendency to have mental disorders, but the author did not expect that he would end his life like this.
The author initially thought it was a hoax but the reality was "no, it is REAL"
The existence of depression and cyberbullying is real, friends.
And if you do not believe, try to open IG and search one of your favorite artists, scroll the comment section and there will definitely be some hate speech in it.
And do not have to go far, the author had felt it 2 days ago in the comments column, said "g*block" and "anj*ng" by one of the reader accounts.
Have you ever been given gini either in medsos or real life?
"A little bit of a boomeran ah you!"
"She was scolded yesterday not sad, why are you crying?"
"It's just that you can't!"
"Less close to God! Try prayer!"
Believe me, for someone who is depressed comments like this make them more down because they feel that the feelings they feel are invalid and wrong.
Our feelings are real.
Make sure that you are not the one who did it to someone else.
Please make the better world for everyone.
Trust that your good deeds will be recorded and God will respond with good ones as well.
Same with bad deeds.
Let's talk about depression!
It should be emphasized that depression is not ordinary sadness.
Depression is prolonged sadness and disrupts our activities.
Even with the same problem, a normal person and depression will have different attitudes and responses.
For example, a normal person with only 1 day of crying, a depressed person can cry 1 month.
Frequently asked questions :
So, depressed people, why exactly is thor?
So obviously not because it is less close to the parents, not because of mental meme (cemen), or baperan yes.
Depression is a disease.
Just as a cold sore needs medication, depression needs medication.
Depression is experienced by people who experience a lack of a substance in the brain called Serotonin.
And anti-depressant drugs taken are drugs that will maintain/increase this serotonin in the brain.
And keep in mind that depression is a chronic disease yes friends so it can not be cured quickly.
It takes a long time at least an average of 6 months of treatment.
Yes, it can, so it must be routine control to a psychiatrist.
What is thor the picture of depressed people?
The mood is sad, often cryy, confined, aloof, usually chatty now quiet, so thin/fatty (there is stress of venting into eating), so, talk about death and suicide (if joking, be careful). From now on monitor your friends and family about these signs, and also do not forget yourself too!
I think I'm thor, but I'm ashamed that I have to go to a psychiatrist!
Now is not the time to be ashamed.
Better to be treated immediately than later to hunt too late.
Many people who go to a psychiatrist, not only people with severe mental disorders such as schizophrenia who go to a psychiatrist, people with anxiety disorders can also go to a psychiatrist.
So psychiatrists are for everyone.
The psychiatrist will guarantee your confidentiality.
Never be ashamed if it is for our good.
What happened to Sulli Thor?
So Sulli was depressed and social phobic which meant Sulli was very worried about the opinions of others about her, while as an artist she was often exposed to cyberbullying.
So depression + social phobia + cyberbullying \= DANGER once
Sulli has actually tried treatment, but in addition to treatment is actually very important to do psychotherapy (to psychologists) as well.
In addition, the support of family and close friends is also very important in healing.
Depression is complicated disease after all.
It can't be just one side of the cure.
And you could say Sulli is one of the failed examples in depression therapy. So the cure of depression should be dealt with as early as possible and requires a lot of effort in it.
CONCLUSION
So from Sulli's case, we can learn that everyone is free to argue, but no one should be dropped or insulted.
YOUR FINGER YOUR TIGER, the proverb of the present for all of us.
Remember that not everyone is mentally healthy and in a happy life.
Begin to learn to appreciate and understand the condition of others.
And for those of you who do have depressive tendencies and social phobias, it is important to immediately go to a psychologist/psychiatrist!
The author is only an observer who is interested in mental health, but the author is not an expert in this field.
So, please love yourself and take your time to seek treatment!
For Sulli, who used to be an author idol, the author prays that she is now calmer there, even though what she did was wrong.
The author also prays that no other Sulli-Sulli (or extreme, Joker) will be in the future.
The author especially prays also that the world can be more loving and understanding between fellow humans.
Happy love, friends!
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Greetings of love, dear,
La Mia Luna's