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"Post Traumatic Stress Disorder?"
Dhana was silenced, sitting opposite the figure of a middle-aged doctor, the figure of a psychiatrist who struggled in the field of mental health, staring at the pity of the figure of a man before him, occasionally focused on the paper in hand, dismissing the anxiety that comes whack, but everything is wrong. The provisional allegation of the moment since the first examination of the man's wife, now proved real.
"Yes, Mr. Dhana. Your wife has PTSD syndrome or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. According to the attached medical records, this syndrome suffered by your wife has existed since she was 13 years old, but does not last long because there is a kind of traditional medicine that may be done by her family. Is Mr Dhana unaware of this?" said a middle-aged doctor named Ali.
Dhana was stuck, looking confused by the series of explanations streak Doctor Ali, then shook his head faintly, indicating that at this time he did not know.
"Can the Doctor explain the PTSD syndrome experienced by my wife? Honestly, I don't really know it, Doctor." replied Dhana who looked unsettled.
Doctor Ali sighed heavily, fixing the location of the slumped glasses almost fell, looking at the face of the man in front of him who clearly did not understand about the illness of the wife at this time.
"All right, Mr. Dhana. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder syndrome or post-traumatic stress disorder is a mental disorder that arises after a person experiences or witnesses an unpleasant event. PTSD can also be interpreted as an anxiety disorder that makes sufferers remember the traumatic event. Traumatic events that can trigger PTSD include war, accident, natural disaster, murder, bullying to sexual harassment."
Doctor Ali breathed out again, drawing back the fresh air that came out after the first long explanation was explained. While Dhana seems teary-eyed, yet half the explanation is already making the claustrophobic, imagining the next sentence that may be more painful.
"BDSD symptoms appear after a person experiences a traumatic event. The time of occurrence can be several months or several years after the traumatic event occurred. The severity and duration of symptoms also vary in each patient. There are several symptoms that can indicate a person experiencing PTSD among which are memories of the traumatic event, tendency to avoid, negative thoughts and feelings, changes in behavior and emotions."
Dhana is still silent, eyes that are still awake look glassy, piles of crystal balloons can not be dismissed just like that after hearing other bitter facts about the wife. While Doctor Ali let out a heavy sigh, one by one the explanations began to cast a bright spot, inviting inevitable grief. Doctor Ali looks pity, not heart to Dhana but the explanation must still be stopped.
"PTSD syndrome can appear after a person experiences or witnesses a frightening or even life-threatening event. A new person can be said to suffer from PTSD, if you have a history of experiencing conditions or events that can interfere with the psychiatric." said Dr. Ali who explained at length.
"Then what should I do Doc? Is my wife's illness treatable?" dhana answered trying to toughen up.
"To make a full recovery and return to normal conditions may be difficult, sir. PTSD treatment aims to relieve the patient's emotional response and teach the patient how to control themselves properly when reminded of past events. Methods of treatment that can be done such as psychotherapy. But if the symptoms experienced by the patient are severe, the doctor will combine psychotherapy methods with drugs as a support." said Dr. Ali who explained again.
Dhana was silent, trying to brush off the increasingly tightness, as if the burden in life is now getting worse, unrelenting trials that come, rain down on his small family who really want to be happy. Sad, of course! Only one problem is solved, but other problems can't wait to test it patiently.
"How long has psychotherapy been Doc?" dhana asked, trying to shake off the anxiety.
"Depending on the progress of the patient while doing psychotherapy, Mr. Dhana. If the patient's response while undergoing therapy is very good and fast, then it can be said that the patient has improved. But some restrictions should also be avoided by patients with this syndrome, Mr. Dhana. Your wife should not think hard, should not be emotional and most importantly, do not remember the traumatic events in the past of your wife in front of her because it will be dangerous for her soul balance is less stable." doctor Ali replied, explaining back.
"If the ban happens?" ask Dhana.
"There will be complications, Mr. Dhana. PTSD can interfere with the life of the sufferer, both in the family and work. In addition, PTSD disorders are also at risk of suffering from other mental disorders, such as depression, eating disorders, anxiety disorders, sufferers are likely to have the desire to hurt themselves, can even lead to suicide." doctor Ali replied, explaining and warning.
"Is my wife's disease severe Doc?" dhana asked, fear seemed real on her trembling lips, and falling tears slowly drenched her glass face.
"According to medical records, the PTSD syndrome in your wife is severe, sir. Given that this disease has been a long time and it was treated even though it was not completed. That's the medical information about your wife's condition that I got. And it seems, the cause of your wife's stupor has something to do with a traumatic event in the past that unfolds again. Is that really Mr Dhana?" doctor Ali replied, explaining but throwing a question that cornered Dhana.
Dhana is stunned, given the traumatic past that was deleted by Gibran a few hours ago, the cause of the change in Mala's attitude. Making him stuck for a moment, remembering the words of the sister when he met her, there was Ammar and also Sadha as witnesses, that there was something in Mala that had been covered instantly.
Mala's not a bad guy, Mas. There was something hidden within him that Adek himself could not see. Something to do with his past. Kak Mala's past is not as beautiful as we think and all this will have something to do with Kak Mala's hatred for her daughter. Sister Mala does not hate Wulan from the heart, Mas. He was just trying to control his emotions. Not only that, there will be someone coming later. That person has ulterior intentions, it has to do with Kak Mala's dark past.
It seems that was the words of the late spirit of Dhina at that time, telling the twin mas something that had not been revealed, culminating in curiosity that was finally answered already. Making Dhana suspect, that Mala's attitude to Wulan so far is not on the basis of desire.
"Doctor... will this disease affect my wife's attitude in the future? I mean, if that past event still covers him, will it affect my wife's true nature?" ask Dhana who wants to make sure more.
"Not only will, Mr. Dhana. It is very influential, especially to those around you. Now I ask Mr Dhana, has your wife been okay? Does he not show a strange attitude, not even in accordance with his true nature?" doctor Ali replied, asking the question again.
"Mam Mala's attitude like that is not because of hate, Mr. Dhana. Ms. Mala seems to hate her own child not for her selfishness, but because of this syndrome. Ms. Mala seemed to see the past, where her mother once hated her, even ignoring Ms. Mala as a child. And when Miss Mala saw her daughter, it was as if she had seen herself in the past. Madam Mala seemed to be reflecting on that time, Mr. Dhana. That's called trauma! By acting like that to her daughter, Ms. Mala can vent the trauma she has been experiencing so far." said Dr. Ali who made it clear to Dhana understand.
Like the wind of heaven blowing in the middle of a thick night, giving a cool moment when hearing Doctor Ali's explanation of Mala's attitude. There is a little regret, why not from a long time ago he took the wife to the hospital? The health consultation included a psychic consultation of the wife who turned out to be unwell.
"Pak Dhana don't worry. No mother can hurt her daughter. Especially when your wife is aware of the coma, she immediately heard unpleasant news, that her daughter's physical condition is not perfect. It will definitely shake your wife's psychic, not to mention the past that she can not forget." said Doctor Ali who increasingly convinced Dhana.
"Then how do I cure my wife's syndrome Doc?" tanya Dhana is relieved and teary.
"For the time being, I as a doctor can only emotionally relieve your wife, sir. If to recover completely, depends on yourself Miss Mala herself. If Ms. Mala is able to forget the past, then the opportunity to return to normal is still there. And, the support of the most important family." said Doctor Ali who was full of confidence.
"So when can my wife do psychotherapy Doctor?" dhana asked, impatiently wanting to see the wife get well quickly.
"Fastly, Mr. Dhana. But for now, let Ms. Mala rest longer so that her emotional condition is stable again." replied Dr. Ali, also look excited if she saw her patient's family excited.
Dhana let out a long sigh, thousands of words of gratitude he left in a smiling heart, not expecting that the wife's hatred for her daughter had been caused only by illness, not from the heart.
"Thank you for the long explanation, Doctor. I am really happy and very grateful. I suspect that my wife hates her own daughter. I'm really very relieved now, Doctor." said Dhana, smiling in immeasurable relief.
"Together, Mr. Dhana. That is my job as a doctor. In addition to treating patients in the hospital, I also have to be able to give explanations along with the best solution. Good for the patient and good for his family. So Mr. Dhana don't think about it too much anymore. Ms. Mala's condition will be fine." replied Doctor Ali who was reassuring Dhana.
"Thank you again, Doc. I hope my wife's psychic condition can return to normal so that she can return to what she used to be." said Dhana, greeting the middle-aged doctor.
Doctor Ali smiled with relief, seeing one of the patient's families he handled now back excited, although it had been down in the middle of the story but it was all a spark of enthusiasm.
After a long conversation in an air-conditioned room, Dhana moves on. Out with a smile that is not ceaselessly excerpted beautifully on his hilarious face, walking passionately towards the nursery of his wife and child. The bright spot is already visible, closer to the happiness that will be greeted cheerfully by the princess.
Chequek!
The door of the room opened, not dodging the grateful smile on Dhana's constantly expanding face, carrying herself walking towards the second bed of angels present in her life, staring at them alternately, until it escaped the clear lips of his eyes that look sleepy heavy.
"Everyone at home should hear this good news. They'll be happy."
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Happy Reading All 😇😇😇
Well, answered already what exactly makes Mala hate her daughter? Not hate, but looks like hate & hate & so that's the answer 🤟 Mala suffered from PTSD syndrome because of her dark past So don't hit Mala again yes, her attitude changed because of the disease Mala suffered, not because he is evil & 👌 If Mala is evil, the proof is that Mala is still very good to the Dhana family 🤟🤟
Okay, thank you all 🖤 special this episode is deliberately made to discuss the reason why Mala changed, so do not get bored first yes 👌️ ILV 🖤