
My marriage to my husband has been going on for almost five years. But they have not yet been given offspring. Once upon a time my husband often played with friends who already had a child. Every time he plays at his friend's house he always takes me.
My husband is patient, kind and loving. When one of her friend's wives had just given birth, we went to see my husband's friend. I congratulate and hold the beautiful little baby who is very funny and worrisome. While I was holding a baby, my husband asked me to give the baby to him. Because my husband really wanted a child in our household.
Especially my mother-in-law, she was eager to have grandchildren from her first child. He often asked me how I was doing, whether I was positive or not. Always he came to the house without ceasing to ask me like that.
But I've been trying to explain what my husband and I have been trying to do to have a tiny baby. But my mother-in-law never wanted to understand my position.
Introduce my name Kia my husband is named Akbar. We got married in January 2012. Many people, such as parents, relatives and close relatives always ask WHEN YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN.
Sometimes I accept that sometimes I feel hurt by their questions. They think I don't want a baby. Wherever possible, I am a normal woman who wants the presence of a baby and wants to provide invaluable happiness for my husband.
My husband and I have controlled everything several times and checked the rag from the hospital to the usual hospital to the most expensive. We have spent a lot of money to check with a reputable doctor in Indonesia. But all the results of the examination were normal and there were no obstacles whatsoever from either me or my husband.
Maybe it's not time I had a baby. Just be patient and dedicated as I can do.
One day I only do homework while my husband is at work.
"I went to work first. " Said Akbar.
"Yes dear. Heart set out." Kissing my husband's arms.
"You take care of the house, assalammualaikum. "
" Walaikumsalam.iya mas."
As usual after my husband went to work. I was at home cleaning, ironing, and preparing lunch for my husband, because my husband always came home during the break. The distance from home to office is not too far.
I was also looking for a little extra money for my own savings. Selling online such as clothes, sandals, shoes and acesories, a decent income that I received was able to go to snacks together with my husband.
I don't have a housekeeper. My husband has offered to let me help out at home for some homework. But I do not approve it because besides I do not have children and my busy life is only selling online I can still do homework and duties of a wife.
My husband works in a textile company and he has the position of chief of staff in that company. His salary is enough to meet the needs of both of us. Since I do have a rather hard character, what I have should be from my own income. So all the things I wanted I bought from my own efforts and I was the kind of woman who was self-sufficient, never wanting to trouble anyone else. And indeed I do not like shofting, I like shopping which is what I think is important. My husband and I hate to spend money equally. What matters is what we just bought.
Monthly money given by my husband I always sort out for monthly expenses such as daily needs and needs that must come out every month. The rest is always saved and I never forget to give alms.
Thank God we got married already given a gift of a house from my parents. indeed the house is not big but enough to inhabit both of us and children later.
I am the second child and have a sister. My sister is already married. My sister and her husband and children live with my mother and father so that my parents can accompany her. My sister has a beautiful and smart daughter. Her son is named Bella. Bella is in the first grade of Elementary School.
They live with my parents because my brother-in-law works not far from the house of mom and dad.
My husband was also the first child and still has a sister named Nindi who is almost finished college. Nindi studied at one of the state universities in Jakarta. And take law school. But my father-in-law passed away after the warehouse fire. After that incident my husband's family was destroyed in bankruptcy. But his father still left four lands that are still measuring 1000m². Two of them had been sold for his sister's tuition and my mother-in-law opened a small supermarket near a Private campus to meet her daily needs. My mother-in-law's self-service already has four employees and is very busy. The swalaya was almost seven years old before I married my husband.
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