IT WAS THE WIDOW'S FAULT
19.Widows will always be looked down upon

"Alhamdulillah, but Asifa pray first yes, we will eat together."Asifa said, and went straight to the bathroom to take ablution.

"Yes there, you must be hungry" said Mr. Herman.

"Yes pa."Answer it briefly and then enter the bathroom.

after the completion of the zhuhur prayer they ate together in the room of herman sir. after finishing eating asifa also told the arrival of the family lawyer dinata on Mr. Herman.

"Papa did not expect papa's daughter to be a widow. So much love God has for you, son. One day God will send a good man of God's choice."Said mr. Herman.

"Aamiin...." Answer Hafsah and Asifa.

When do you want to get out of here, it's not what you mean, dear mama ngusir. But mama doesn't want you to keep drowning with this."Ask Bu Hafsah carefully fearing her daughter offended.

"Yes Asifa just wanted to go to Jogja." Answer Asifa.

"Are you sure the area is safe from their reach."Worried that Asifa was still bothering them.

"Partially yes want to do the family in the eye. There's no need to worry too much about what's not going on."Asifa said to her mom and dad.

"Have you forgotten our condition. Even they are easy to find us, even if we do not want to deal with them. For going to seek tranquility and away from them. They found us quickly and easily. Arya who always wanted you to be her son. Until you finally become a son-in-law. And now they don't want to just let you go. You see today until tomorrow whether they come home or not."Mr. Herman tried to give his daughter some understanding. Therefore he wanted Asifa to be completely separated from them. Because it will be difficult for Asifa to move on from Ardi.

"As long as this one week is still safe, no one comes home. But surely we are in the eyes of those we do not know. Because what you knew when you were locked up in the room. Coincidentally Ardi came to the house he looks so worried about you. And after that he found out what was the cause after mom said you came home crying. And what happened was he caught, turned out to have a mouth. The parents of Ardi's future wife work together with Sita's mother, who turns out to be Rita's father, Erna. After those who have dealt with Arya mas. moreover Papa Rita branch office employees were immediately fired. What Arya hates more is that they are still brothers away from Sita's mother. And what he did to protect and protect. But behind that also feel you are depending on him. Let your widow, if you will receive the shares, the house, the car, the money they give, then their name is still in the same great people. You will be looked down upon by others. Want to be a widow by getting 30% and other treasures. By Allah!, papa is not sincere, if you are lowly, son."Said Mr. Herman at length issued a bunch of quibbles from these few days.

"And my mother is not willing, if that happens. They love you, but not as sincere. And you need to remember around the complex you are already looked at low. And widows will always be looked down upon, especially with your status can not give offspring. Actually, this is your household test, how much your love and your patience. You can't but be difficult, in that sense you can still be with God's permission." Timpal bu Hafsah.

"You remember the story of the prophet Zechariah, how many years they had been given to their descendants. Papa knows that until now, you had a baby tube program, but it failed. It's not just because of your womb but there are other causes as well. Does the doctor explain what caused the tube baby program to fail?"ask Herman to Asifa.

"Asifa asked the doctor at the time what caused the baby tube program to fail. No time the doctor explained, mas Ardi has invited me home. And mas Ardi said, free we ask if the edges make us swish."Answer Asifa.

"That's what they are selfish, always half-and-half when faced with problems are not complete. The proof is that Arya, already know about the nature of his attitude and behavior, Sita was not dismantled. After the incident where you have a new problem is revealed. And Mr. Surya asked Arya, what do they know. And feel guilty when you and Ardi are already in the process of divorce. And you are no longer valued as the person they care about. What it called dear, it's to close their ugliness. And at Gina's request, all they care about is Gina's mom, not you. While Ardi claims to love you so much, expect what you can't give."Said mr. Herman.

But Asifa was silent, she digested every word of her papa. Everything Papa says is true.

"You remember Luciana's older sister's friend from Junior High who used to go home?"ask Mr. Herman.

"She was an obstetrician, and her husband was still her cousin Taufiq. So Taufiq asked that to Luciana. And Lusinan sends to sister what are the explanations through mobile phone. And brother sent papa one. Because there are 7 causes of baby tube failure. And according to my brother there is one that needs to be examined again. You see for yourself on your mama's phone, ma asifa love your phone."Tell me Mr. Herman

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"EMBRYO QUALITY,"

One of the most common reasons why a baby tube program fails is because of the quality of the embryo.

Many embryos cannot be implanted after being transferred to the uterus due to defects.

Embryos that look healthy in the lab may have defects that cause them to die rather than grow.

In most cases when this happens, it depends on the embryo and not the uterus. So, it does not mean the uterus has something wrong so it can not carry a baby.

Embryos do not implant because they are not healthy enough to grow.

In the Journal of Assisted Reproduction and Genetics the quality of embryos is assessed based on several parameters, namely morphology, development, genetics, and metabolism.

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"So it's possible that Asifa could still contain her meaning? does that mean that Ardi mas is also not good pa ma?"ask Asifa to her parents.

"Maybe it's because you didn't check it out completely and only at one doctor."Miss Hafsah this time replied.

"Yes you want to go home first with Asifa what with papa?"ask Herman with his wife.

"Well, baby, let papa close the shop, come on."Take Hafsah to Asifa and they immediately say goodbye.

"We're home pa." Compact mother and son. Then kissed the hand of Mr. Herman, and mr. herman kissed the forehead of his wife and child.

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