MY FORMER DARK LOVER
Offering Married

All sounded shocked at this very sudden intent and purpose. No exception to the same Jihan who can only be flabbergasted. Everyone was silent and could not say a word.

"What did you just say wasn't wrong, Satria?" Jihan curious.

"I'm a hundred percent serious."

They were more surprised, who looked at each other in confusion. Jihan breathed a rough breath, but her face remained flat and seemed calm.

"But Jihan is a widow and the child is not your flesh and blood."

As a parent will certainly be anxious, because the proposing is still single, which certainly will be increasingly scorned by people. The rumors circulating will certainly be terrible, and the story may be widened and along the highway.

"That's no problem, Mom. I sincerely accept his condition and want to love Jihan with all my body. For me that status does not matter, the most important thing is that our hearts remain united in household happiness. The problem of children will still be dear to me as my own child someday" replied steadily.

"But, Satria! I've been dirty and too despicable as a woman."

In this world all are born clean, but the behavior is dirty, so that it can plunge into the misdeeds of the world. To me you are the best and filial woman, only your husband changes things as if you are a bad and despicable woman.

"That's right, Son Satria. We are a bad family anymore. Even the citizens of Sinipun already taste that this family has been damaged."

"Father don't think strangely and go too far. Everyone only knows the outside, without researching in it first whether all the circulating osip is true. To me you are the best family. Surely I also want to be a member of you, is it possible?"

It seems they still have a lot of doubts over my wishes. It can be understood because their good family name is being tainted, so it feels bad that I will become their new member. There may be a fear of its own if this self will be dragged by a good name, which has been awake never got into trouble.

I hope what I do is good and can convince them. It's not easy to have them either.

"Islamic law, a pregnant woman should not be married before she gives birth first. You want to ask me that, what do you think?"

"That's no problem, sir. What matters is that Jihan wanted to be with me first. Marriage problems can be postponed first, until the baby contained Jihan was born first. To have it we can do the engagement first, so that the gossip does not get wider and I can protect it from any harm. But first I want to ask for Jihan's approval, does she want to be my wife?"

"Father agrees on your words and thoughts. Happy if there is a man who wants to be the husband of a woman who is now defiled by her name. You can't say yes, because all the answers are on Jihan herself."

"Yes, Satria boy. We can only provide support. It all depends on Jihan's decision."

Parents seem to be just resigned to the fate of their children now. The only way is to do a fastener (engagement) so as not to let go, because the child will know who the real father is. It can be dangerous if I marry in a two-bodied state.

"Where, Jihan? Do you want to be my wife?"

"I'm sorry, Satria. I can't give an answer yet, because it's too sudden. Still confused and too shocked,"

"All right, I'll give you a week. I hope your answer will be correct."

Although receiving a disappointment answer now, but the heart still has to hold the chest because it cannot force the same will of others while he is still in great doubt.

"I really hope you'll be my wife, Jihan! It doesn't matter what anyone says about you, because I know you're the woman I've always wanted to be. I know you are meek, unlike the hot and evil gossip that others have said."

"All this is due to Bayu. You shouldn't be treated by him. If time could turn back, I would protect you with all my body. I will sacrifice everything, including life. Today and this second, if you will accept me, I will take care of you. Don't let that man touch you let alone hurt you. Your pain is also my pain, so don't be willing if he continues to do evil to you."

"Hopefully you can make the right decision. I just want to be a priest who can guide and take care of you in every breath. I'm very much waiting for that answer, so don't let you take too long to make a decision. Hope so!"

The soul is not calm. Fear of being rejected. Understand if he did that, because he did not want me involved let alone polluted the name that had been awake.

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Women who are pregnant from either halal or non-natural relationship (zina relationship) should not be married, until she is holy or until she gives birth to her womb. It is based on the word of Allah azza wa jalla:

وَأُوْلاتُ الأَحْمَالِ أَجَلُهُنَّ أَنْ يَضَعْنَ حَمْلَهُنَّ

“While women are pregnant, their iddah time is until they give birth to their womb. “ (QS. Thalaq: 4)

And the Hadith of the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wasallam who forbade us:

من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر، فلا يسقي ماءه زرع غيره

“Who believes in Allah and the last day, let him not pour his semen on the crops of others.” (CHR. Ahmed)

What is meant by other people's plants is a fetus caused by the semen of others.

If the woman is pregnant because of the husband who divorced her, or because she was left dead by her husband then she should not marry until she gave birth. And if the woman is pregnant because of adultery, then the woman should not marry, either with a male partner or with another, until giving birth.

Because her pregnancy was mixed with semen that was not intended for men who committed adultery with her or other men, but was intended for her mother. A man who fornicates cannot be attributed to him the child of his adultery.

The Prophet sallalahu alaihi wasallam,

الْوَلَدُ لِلْفِرَاشِ وَلِلْعَاهِرِ الْحَجَرُ

“The child is entrusted to the rightful owner of the bed (husband), and to the adulterer lugal” (HR. al-Bukhari and Muslim).

A child is assigned to his mother if his mother is no longer with his father (divorce-pent). And if still together, then the child is intended to the husband of the mother (His father-pent). While male adulterers get sharia punishment.

If the woman is pregnant and she is not married, then the woman should not be married absolutely anywhere until she gives birth. After she gave birth, it was only permissible for the woman to marry after repentance, to return to God. It is permissible for a Muslim to marry her after she has repented.