THE UNMISSED PEBINOR
Chapter Nineteen. PYTDS.

After dinner, Naya tells pad Abi Hanif if there's anything Naya will talk about. Naya asks for time with her two parents-in-law.

"Sorry, Abi, Umi, there's something I want to talk to you two about. Can I have Abi and Umi's time?" ask Naya.

"Of course Abi and Umi have time. Why is it so serious?"

"Indeed a little serious what I'm going to say is Abi."

"Naya, whether to now also tell Abi and Umi. Can't it be delayed?"

"Can't, Mom. The sooner Abi and Umi know everything, the better. Why delay it again."

"Naya, I beg you. I'm sorry, " said Hanif again.

"What is this really about? You guys are fighting?" ask Abi.

"We'd better talk in the living room, Abi."

Naya takes Abi and Umi to the living room. Hanif seemed to be sitting restlessly with his head lowered.

"Tell me now, what exactly happened?" ask Abi.

"Before I continue this conversation, I want to apologize if what I will say later, will hurt Abi and Umi."

"Don't make Umi more curious. What's the matter."

"Abi, Umi, me and Mas Hanif will be separated. I beg Abi and Umi to understand this decision I made."

Abi and Umi looked shocked at Naya's words. Hanif just kept quiet.

"What did you say Naya? Can't just say goodbye."

"I'm telling you the truth, Abi. I have decided to separate from Mas Hanif."

"Hanif, can you explain this. Why did Naya decide to split up?" abi asked in a slightly high voice.

"Sorry Abi, I was wrong. I've hurt Naya's feelings."

"Tell me honestly. Don't twist!" snapped Abi.

"I married Siri to my co-star without asking permission. Naya couldn't accept any of that and decided we were apart. But believe me Abi, I still love Naya very much. I'm doing this marriage to avoid sin."

Abi Hanif immediately stood up from his seat and unexpectedly, Abi directly slapped Hanif's cheek. Naya's husband was shocked and looked at Abi's face in surprise.

"From the beginning you will plunge into this world, Abi has forbidden. But you promised not to be affected and will take care of Naya. Not yet dry the burial ground of his parents but you have hurt Naya's heart. What are you looking for in that marriage?" abi said with emotion.

Umi approached Naya and grabbed her daughter-in-law's hand.

"When exactly I don't know, Umi.I also know it these two days."

"Who is the woman you married? From the beginning Abi said, take care of Naya. Don't make excuses for fear of sin to legalize the series' marriage. If you are afraid of sin, do not approach the one called adultery. Don't approach a co-star who isn't a mahrom to you!" abi said with a still high voice.

Abi sat back down, the middle-aged man holding his chest which felt tight after getting angry.

Umi looked at Hanif, and took a breath before finally speaking.

"Aren't you thinking about Naya's feelings about lying? Umi as a fellow woman could feel Naya's heartache. If you're going to get married, be honest. If your wife does not allow and does not want honey, you must choose. First wife or second wife candidate" said Umi slowly. Back Umi breathed holding tightness in the chest.

"If polygamy is permitted in religion, but its practice is not as easy as we say."

"I'm sorry Hanif, Umi. Hanif told Naya that Hanif would try to be fair. If Hanif can't, Hanif will be separated from Citra, not Naya."

"You think a woman's heart is a test. If it is not suitable, it can be thrown away. You should think that not all women can accept polygamy. Although your marriage is valid religiously but the law is not. Naya can sue you and Citra," said Umi.

"You think polygamy is easy. You have to be really fair. Abi's sure you can't fill this, so that's Naya asking for separation."

Abi took another breath before continuing his paused speech. Naya just kept quiet, she gave her parents-in-law a chance to talk.

"Polygamy in Islam is fair. Sheikh Yusuf al-Qardhawi said that the condition placed by Islam to be polygamous is the belief of a Muslim in himself to be able to be fair among his wives, in matters of eating, drinking, dressing, and dressing, living, staying and living. Have you been fair and qualified?" ask Abi.

Hanif is only silent a thousand languages because he realizes that all of it can not be fulfilled.

"Now Abi asks Naya why you are demanding divorce. You know Naya, divorce is hated by God."

"I know Abi. But I will not sin more if I persist in this polygamy, for I am not free. I will always be suspicious if Mas Hanif is longer with his wife."

"As for the wife who asks for divorce, if the husband neglects the rights of the wife and does not fulfill it, then it is permissible for the wife to ask for divorce. As for if the husband remarried, and he has been fair to his wives and fulfilled what is mandatory for him, then the wife should not ask for divorce" said Abi.

"Sorry Abi and Umi, I feel Mas Hanif is unfair. That's why I asked for a divorce. His time is spent more with Citra than I am. And also Mas Hanif already can't give me a fair inner living."

"However, the law of the wife asking for divorce is illegal if without reason syar'i. Because, in a hadith the Prophet said: “Whoever is a woman who asks (demands) divorce to her husband without a justified reason then forbidden the smell of heaven on the woman,” (HR. Abu Dawud, Al-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah)" Abi said.

Lama Naya and Hanif's parents talk. Both of her in-laws still want Naya to be their daughter-in-law.

However, Naya remained with her initial stance if she wanted to part from Hanif.

"If indeed you have been determined to separate, we can not prohibit it. Because who will run that household is you." Abi finally resigned, because Naya was no longer persuaded.

The happiness and sadness in life will come back and forth. Every day you can meet new people and part with old people. Sometimes not all meetings can give togetherness. Some even end in painful partings.

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