Black Dove
Karma is hereditary

It did not take much longer for Nyuwan and Gavin to hold the wedding procession. The two families have met each other and have applied for Nyuwan officially, the preparation to the marriage contract has also been completed 70% at the time of Alea's birthday some time ago. And that proposal, Gavin just wanted to spice up the sweeter seasoning as memories of their relationship journey. Only just counting the second day this couple will officially become husband and wife.

But it seems Gavin must be extra patient, when his mother who still holds Javanese customs are quite thick. And one of the rituals that Gavin must do is pingitan. Already 4 days they did not greet each other directly even mama Hellen to replace Gavin's phone with a old-fashioned phone that can only receive telephone connections and sms. For the sake of realization procession pingitan Hellen to tell God to replace Gavin for a while.

"Va," suddenly Gavin enters Eva's room without knocking on the door first.

"Iiisssh brother !! Surprised to know!!" exasperated as Eva throws her giant panda pillow at Gavin.

"Va, pinjem your cell phone snapped" Gavin's pinta.

"Okay ah,"

"Nih" Gavin thrusts his blackcard as a bribe.

"This fire" Eva's eyes swelled at the card that her sister was thrusting.

"Come on Va, brother kangen Nyuwan" said Gavin looks frustrated.

"Ciiihh, bang, just another day tomorrow"

"Yes you know. but. pleaseee .."

"Yes, but not for long. I know Mama, cancel you marry me !" eva warns Gavin.

"tuuutttt.. tttuu.ttt"

"Queen, come on "

"Hi om" said Nadia.

"Nad?? Where is your mother?" gavin asked a little disappointed.

"Oh mother again extended mangir bride, tomorrow is not the same event ngaras flush, emang Om ngga?" not to mention that Gavin answered Nadia's question, mama Hellen had already shouted out to her.

"GAAVVIIIN !! Mama told you not to meet Nyuwan first ! Very stubborn if you say the same parents !" mama Hellen immediately poked while tapping Gavin's ear, Nadia laughed giggling to see her future father in pain like a child who had wanted 40 years old was scolded by grandmother Hellen.

"Nadia baby, Oma close first yes, greetings to all yes dear"

"Mam, I just want to take a look at iissh"said Gavin while following the steps of Hellen's mother who pulled him to the living room there had gathered some relatives who had deliberately arrived early because they wanted to follow the entire procession of releasing Gavin's single they've been waiting for a long time. They were all preparing to go to Bandung that day, because tomorrow Gavin will also carry out a flush event in the afternoon after representatives from the prospective family of besan hand over water flush that will have to be mixed with water flush owned by Bayuwan first. The procedure is slightly different from the siraman ceremony of the Nyuwan family, while Gavin follows the traditional mami, namely Central Java, the palace of Surakarta. While God sir, Gavin's father was just a manut. According to him any custom is the same, equally tired.

Gavin actually had fun following the entire series of customs, anyway this is the thing that he might live only once in his life. But he was quite tormented by the pingitan ritual, because he really cannot see Nyuwan at all even though he can still be patient through sms and phone but for Gavin it is not enough to complete his longing. But luckily Mama Hellen still gave him a photo of Nyuwan measuring 60 x 80 cm to display in Gavin's room.

While Nyuwan is no less busy facing his brothers and relatives who are spilled to help smooth his happy day. Since he decided to take a leave of absence since he went through the pingitan. Nayuwan began to go on a rather stricter diet than usual. It really should be enough just with a high-protein milk, a lunch with a vegetable salad, etc, eating 1 pear pakham and 3 egg whites at dinner the rest he should be satisfied with water.

"God willing, it's getting the light, added deui ieu lulur mangirnya is indeed anu pangalus na (God willing, more luminous, plus this mangir scrub is the best)" praise a relative, Najuwan only fluffed a smile on his lips accompanied by a red hue on his cheek.

All kinds of problems he lived sincerely, in order to get maximum results on the day H. Although there are some rituals that may actually be reluctant to do, but yes. After all, in a broken marriage, he did not do all the procession.

The next day, Nyuwan has been dressed and then wear plain white robe then coated with jasmine ronce for a flush. At that moment he felt his throat began to ache inflamed because of the overflow of emotions in him as soon as he saw the figure of the father was waiting for him at the door of his room to do the procession ngaraskeun.

The procession is carried out as a sign of respect for the child to parents who have educated, cared for, raised and loved him, by cleaning the legs of both parents as a symbol.

The Bridal Scratch Procession and Siraman

The procession begins with the parents of the bride-to-be carrying her daughter to the bedchairs. Then the bride-to-be on the ice uses the side by the mother, in front of the father of the bride-to-be carrying a candle. With the meaning of the father illuminates the steps of the child, while the mother nurtures and raises the child accompanied by the song Ngaras with the strains of traditional Sundanese music lute-flute. Until he reached the Ngaras chair. Then Sayuwan sungkem or apologise to both parents continued by washing the mother's feet first, with clean water that had been prepared only after to his father.

In this procession, Najuwan is no longer able to control his emotions that he has been holding back. There are feelings of pain, destruction, sadness, disappointment, sadness, but also mixed with feelings of haru, happiness, joy, and stomach that feels filled with thousands of butterflies.

Najuwan then slowly also painstakingly wash or wash the feet of his parents and then given fragrant, or a kind of perfume to be fragrant. After that, Nayuwan gathered together to his parents to ask for prayer and blessing.

"Mother Abah, haturnuhun pisan sateuacana because tos mikanyaah neng, ngajaga neng, sareng ngaduk jalan anu ku neng rambah, haturnuhun atos ngadidik and nungtun neng mesing atos paturai. (thank you very much in advance for always loving me, guarding and supporting the path that I have taken, thank you for educating and guiding me even in a separate situation)" said Nayuwan, who was not involved in the project, because indeed the parents of Nyuwan have been separated since Nyuwan SD. As many say when your parents make mistakes, their children will feel their karma. Like Raka, her father preferred to go and live with her affair which she later married. This is the reason why Najuwan fought hard to this point so that his two daughters did not feel the same way as he had to bear the karma of his cheating father.

At first glance he recalled the memories of his childhood when he was delivered early in the morning to school by his father's motorbike. It can be said that the Nyuwan family is quite distinguished besides because his father is a P*S, Jayuwan's grandfather is also a kuwu, his grandmother is an elementary school principal, who does not know the name of the Ibrahim family. The richest family. And all was exhausted because Jayuwan's grandfather took the honey, although his power and prestige were still imprinted, it was proven that Najuwan's grandfather could still re-establish himself for 2 periods at the age he should have retired.

Why is it called hereditary karma, because originally there was Grandpa Najuwan, among his 2 daughters the mother of Najuwan who bore the karma, now between the two daughters of Vina's mother, Nyuwanlah who lived the karma. And Nayuwan is trying hard to break the Karma, because in fact his children are not entitled to the karma, they are also victims of his parents.

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sarangheo...

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