
Every time we do a job in the best way, we expect a result that will be sweet. Perhaps the natural thing, when we hope that our hard work can also bring good and happy things. It's just that sometimes makes us too sad, is when our hard work is not appreciated by the closest people or people around us.
Feelings of unappreciated can make us hurt, upset, disappointed, want to shed tears, so that the fire of anger we can feel as one. However, before we get worse in uncomfortable feelings, we can still try a number of simple things to make ourselves strong again and continue to feel freshness.
"Can we talk to you for a second, Faisal!" Friends invited to sit casually at his meat stall.
Pat the bench lengthwise, so you want to sit. Work hours are over. Now it's just the two of us, his wife has gone home first which he said was exhausted.
"What's up, Ijal?" Sit back, while holding Arvin who is sleeping.
"Look, this is your job. Forgive me in advance, if I have to tell you all this. You are a hardworking man, but it is a pity that your situation while babysitting does not seem suitable to work with us," Ijal spoke as slowly as possible. He spoke still keeping this heart from falling.
"What do you mean, man?" Still don't understand the direction of his conversation.
"I'm sorry .. I'm so sorry, if we had to stop you from working here," Ijal just lowered his head, not daring to look me in the face.
From the beginning it was felt that he would lose his job, because the wife always complained and even angry unclear.
"I understand that, but can't you help me to keep working here any minute? I really need this job, "It's sad to be back unemployed.
"I'm sorry, Faisal. Actually I feel sorry for your life, but I also think about my customers, because many events that make them run away, fearing that over time they will not taste again. You know for yourself, that this stall is never deserted," Ijal said with a bad feeling.
"Hhh, it's okay, Ijal. I can understand what you're feeling,"
Although it hurts, but still Legowo must accept everything. We deny that we have no rights. He is the boss, so he can just dismiss or want to keep his employees.
No need to blame yourself for everything that has been done. Try to take a pause, to understand the effort that has been done. Let others not appreciate our hard work, because more important than that is that we can still appreciate all the things we have done as much as possible. Self-appreciation, then our mood can still improve.
"So you're not angry, are you? I'm so scared, if our friendship is ruined because of this."
"No is, man. You will forever remain my best helper."
"Well, thank you. I thought you'd be mad at me."
"Where can I be angry, because you've helped me so much."
"Yes, I'm fine."
"Good then. So accept this, "A white envelope is given.
"Eeh, what is this? You don't have to bother with this."
"It's okay, Sal. Accept this, as my gratitude that all this time you have helped sell a lot."
Between receiving is not good, but if rejected is not good because it is sustenance.
"But-is? Is this not excessive. Afraid that if you get caught by your wife, she'll get mad."
"Just calm down, it was he who told me to give you more severance."
Turns out to have been mistaken. Although he was chatty and grumpy, but in his heart there was still a good side.
"Geez, what should I say to you again. It's been good these few days to accommodate the work. Sekaramg actually gives severance."
"It's okay. Maybe you need it more than us, for example, to buy your son's milk. So accept and forgive us."
Ijal still wants to give up the money, even though I do not have the full rights.
"Thank you then." Finally giving up too
"Yes, you're welcome."
Officially tomorrow will not work again. Confused about looking for work where else, when it comes to bringing children to participate in hard work looking for money.
"Oh my God, what else is this ordeal? I have to support Arvin, but why is the road so winding. Servant, just a human being, then give your mercy so that I can work to avenge the humiliation of the in-laws, who consider me not to be good at looking for money. I want to prove that I can get up and give him money" Sadness of heart was struck again.
Don't let happiness be taken away by those who don't really care about us. We deserve to be happy and enjoy life as it is. So, try to please yourself first. Maybe choose a job that can help calm yourself and relax first, so that the mood can improve again.