
Building a household is not easy. There are a lot of big responsibilities to bear. Each husband and wife have their own rights and responsibilities. If just one of them is violated, it can shake the household nosedive.
There are times when various tests and trials come to the head. Such as tiredness, boredom meet every day, economic factors, differences in principles, and many more. When establishing a relationship, mutual support, strengthening, and comforting each other is certainly necessary. To maintain household harmony, of course, there is something that can be done by a married couple.
Although a husband acts as the head of the family, it is not appropriate that I take distance from my own wife. Communicating gently and politely will also make the relationship more harmonious husband and wife, but why is it so difficult to approach Anissa.
Tok .. tok, the door of his room I stumbled, afraid that if he had rested, because he was tired of work would even make him angry.
"Just enter, not lock," he told her from the inside.
Poked his head a little, then opened the door a little wide. Walking closer to him who was again relaxed while lying down.
"I'm sorry, if I interrupt your break."
"Hm. Quickly tell me, what's going on here? I'm very ... very tired, and want a quick break," he said while lying on his back.
"There's something I want to talk to you about, and maybe it's really important to me" as slow as I can speak.
Maybe I'm a stupid guy who's afraid of his wife. I don't mind also the scorn of the people, the important thing is Anissa can be happy living her days. In addition to meek in speaking words, the obligation of the husband to the wife according to other Islam is to always show affection to the wife.
Despite being angry, a husband is still required to be kind and show affection. The Prophet did the same to his wife.
Women are the center of kindness in households and are highly emotional beings. Its existence depends on the affection it gets.
The secret of a happy marriage lies in the expression of the affection of the husband to the wife. Perhaps in this way, I can conquer Anissa's heart and strengthen the bond of marriage, by always showing affection.
"Yes, speak quickly. Don't be flabby as a woman and rambling is not so obvious."
"Sorry, Nis. If it makes you upset."
"Hmm, speak. Before my eyes closed," he said indifferently.
It seems that he can no longer bear to sleep, which is seen from the way he covered his mouth with his hands due to yawning continuously.
"S-sactually I want to work."
"I want a job. What can?" nervous to say desire.
Fear is not allowed, but if not expressed very disturbing thoughts.
"Select, experience and expertise just don't exist. What do you want to work for? Anyway if it's work, Arvin who's gonna take care of it? I'm willing to leave my current job, because the salary is high. If being a housewife is just lazy and lazy, what do we want to eat?" ketus answer.
"So meeting a friend. It just so happens that he has a meatball stall and the others. He offered to. He said rame, so I'd like to try working there. "
"How much does Arvin go?"
"I'll work while taking care of her. Who knows if you have worked can help your finances and can be handed over to Mom."
Actually it is no longer resistant to always be insulted, because it is not good to find money. Where there are people who will stand it, if every day eat poisons.
"Yes, it's up to you, Mom. What matters is my son and the cleanliness of the house you must keep running. Don't neglect to do it, afraid to get angry with mom."
"Yes, Nis. I will definitely keep working, though. The return is not until the afternoon, maybe three o'clock has finished helping sales friends, so there is still plenty of time to take care of the house."
"Hmm, it's up to you. The important thing is not to forget your responsibilities as a janitor in this house."
"Yes, Nis."
"Then go sono, if there's nothing to talk about anymore. My eyes can't stand to sleep."
"OK, Nis. Sorry to bother."
Step away with a happy heart. Many times give thanks, when there is a way to find income. That way, surely the mother-in-law will be happy and there are no more insults from their families.
"Thank God, I can finally get some money later. Hope you won't fuss, son. When dad worked. We have to make a lot of money so that your grandmother doesn't insult you anymore" a heart that's too happy.
Must be able to rotate the brain so as not to be underestimated. Men must be strong in heart and faith. Otherwise, it would have been a long time ago to part with Anissa. Maybe a little by working hard to make a living on their own, can change all the ugliness in their eyes.