
Sometimes we need to fight harder to survive. Even when no one understands, it is still necessary to fight for life at its best, because self and precious life are very worthy to be maintained as strongly as possible.
Are there hobbies, interests, hard work, or areas of work that I can do? Is there anything that can bring a feeling of joy or happiness in this heart? So yourself must try to reconnect with it, for example, nurturing Arvin casually.
"Hhh, there's all this storyline about life. Maybe here I need to breastfeed more, face everyone in this house. Although Anissa still did not consider me to be her husband, but this conscience overgrown with love I will still fight for."
"You are the woman I have bound by the sacred promise of marriage, so I will not let you get out of this hand, even though until this moment you still do not love me," the heart remains the spirit of living life.
When no one can understand well, then it's time for yourself to try to better understand well. This method is basically helping to be able to reconnect with myself, for example looking for entertainment happiness always inside and outside the home.
"You must be so tired, every day you have to work," Nosediving wife.
He asked for help to stretch the muscles, he briefly. He said the body again crumpled dimly, due to too skilful'an work. Be happy to keep helping, rather than hiring a more expensive masseuse. Many needs to be purchased, such as diapers and Arvin milk. If the right expenditure is not useful, it will not be able to deposit money according to Mother's request. You can massage yourself, no need to bother with people.
"Yes clear. Every weekday, and no holidays at all. You're good, just taking care of the kids and doing homework."
Even if it is considered the same as the weight of doing homework. Even sometimes just sitting, there is still work to be done or not done yet. It can be said that there will be no end to cleaning the house.
"Yes, Nis. Sorry, if it makes you bother looking for money. I promise, if someday there is a lot of money, surely you do not need to be tired of looking for money like this!"
"Even, you can only talk, Mom. If you want to prove it now, do not just work at home continue. Look for a decent one and make a lot of money.
Anissa doesn't know so much about the hassle of working while carrying a child, which she knows is just fine with wages and all the houses are clean.
"Yes, Sorry. For the time being I haven't gotten a decent job."
"Hmm, forgiven. Cepetan mijitnya, I'm starting to sleepy really."
"Yes, briefly. Almost done this."
Kubaluri a little oil, so it is easy to relax stiff muscles. If only finger, fear is not strong and even wrong massage.
As slow as possible to move the fingers and slightly put a little pressure, so that Anissa did not feel tremendous pain.
"Udah, Nis. I think it's enough to get here."
"Hmm, I'm going to sleep."
Tidying up the oil bottle then closing it, and now trying to grab a blanket and cover her calves.
"Why are you still there? Is anyone still missing?."
When turning around the body. Seeing the sexy cooiness of his body, somehow grow horm*n to taste it.
"Continuously?"
"A-appa, can I ask for my rights tonight?" Stammering.
"Don't hope and dream. Did you forget that we were married because it wasn't love?" He answered rudely.
His face began to pout and indifferently. I know he must have been very upset at my request just now. Turn around, lying on your side while your whole body is covered with a blanket.
"Yes, I know. But, I've become your husband, is it wrong to ask for my rights?"
"Yes it is wrong, for you are too much into the affairs of my life. So don't be so much of a dream you can enjoy my body. It's disgusting to be touched by you."
"Sudah go there. Sleep the same, Arvin. Don't be too high-minded. Just make a mood bete." Didn't expect that Anissa could speak so loudly.
I, who did not want to argue, just left him alone. Dihati continued to say istighfar, when he knew the wife's answer was very disappointing. Already refused, plus insulting. I know I'm a poor man, but I shouldn't be so insulting. I also have feelings that could be hurt.
"Astagfirullah, why would you say that, my wife? Where is my fault, until you look at me not wanting to, let alone wanting to be touched by me? Am I indeed the man you do not want, so that your words so pierced the deepest recesses of the heart" Behind the door shed tears, when it made even more sorrowful.
*It is undeniable that the main purpose of two people who love each other is to go to the level of marriage. Binding the status of being a husband and wife, of course, is the most important thing for those who want to make a halal*.
When you are in a marriage, of course, affection will continue to strengthen the husband and wife relationship. Forms of affection also vary and one of them is to sleep together in bed.
In Islam, it is the right of the husband to ask to be served in whatever form it is, including in the case of berhub*ng*n the body. If at the time of asking, it turns out that his wife refused for various reasons, then it is illegal for her and very guilty of the wife.
*Sulullah SAW said, “For the Substance that my soul is in his grasp. No man takes his wife to Ranj*ng and the wife refuses, unless all the inhabitants of the sky will hate her until the husband gives it up.” (Bukhori*)
The wife who refuses to renew*ngan int*m with her husband will not get Ridho Allas SWT in all his affairs both world and hereafter. Therefore, fulfill the right of the husband if you want the pleasure of Allah SWT.
From Abu Hurairah, the Prophet said, ”If a man takes his wife to bed, but the wife does not want to come to him, then the husband is angry, then he will be cursed until morning.”
Islam is a religion that is quite firm about matters related to a regulation. However, that does not mean Islam does not tolerate circumstances whose nature cannot be forced.
Same with hub*ng*n husband and wife. The law of refusing the invitation not to serve the husband in bed is allowed as well, if in accordance with the following conditions:
1. Wife is on the moon.
2. My wife is pregnant.
3. My wife is in pain.
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