My True Derit

My True Derit
Episode 14 # Birth and Aqiqah


Waking up from his sleep


" a. aa wake up a, anter I'm having a bath, my stomach is not good nich.


" this baby is conceived not as strict as the usual a


" i'm afraid why napa


Then I got up and drove Tresha to the bathroom.


" aa see the urine has blood


Hearing tresha talk so, I who was still sleepy to lean against the wall, suddenly aghast to see it. It turned out to be true after his urine splashed with blood.


" what do you feel now, baby??


" i don't know what I'm used to


I was also shocked to hear Tresha's words, because I did not want anything to happen, I called my mother who was experienced in melahirka. Then I told you about the situation that just happened.


Mother told me to calm down, indeed the person who wants to give birth is a sign like that. To allay my worries, my mother and father finally invited me to go to the nearest midwife by boarding a new car that my father had just bought.


After being examined by a nearby midwife, the midwife suggested we take Tresha to the hospital. My mind travels where, I fear what will happen to the tresha or its contents.


We went to a mother and daughter hospital in Astana Anyar. On the road, Tresha began to feel pain, saw the state of Tresha I was panicking, then the mother calmed Tresha.


"You are patient and patient


" you can't wait, this is the opening


" indeed from opening one to the next opening is rather long and painful


" klo has opened seven, usually not for long


It looks like the father who drives so quietly, looks at his face is very happy, because soon the father will be a grandfather.


" ease baby girl yes mom


" our children are three, all boys, hopefully this time Allaah gives us a baby girl amiinn


Upon arrival at the hospital, Tresha was immediately taken to the ER for further examination. Then the nurse asked the family to wait for only one person. Then I also joined the maternity room following tresha and sister earlier.


Smells of alcohol, as well as other drugs. It looks like two sisters pacing back and forth there are making a bed for childbirth, some are preparing soap clothes, shampoo and others.


Then tresha rebelled against the pain of the opening, tsrdengar heard suata sister guiding tresha to hold and regulate her breathing. Pain feels like you want to crush your fingers, as a result of the grip of tresha that holds back not to cough.


Just opening five yes pa, that time I think a minute feels a year. Tresha's face turned red, as she screamed and traded. I can't even see it. The longer the pain of Tresha's hand grip. Until finally I was not strong, and came out of the delivery room and told my mother to accompany Tresha.


Outside the room I panicked, and then I was pensive and daydreaming


"how noble a mother's journey, it is fitting that Rosul said devote to your parents, the mother mentioned three times by Rosul. How great a mother's sacrifice, nine months she's been disturbed by her deep sleep" imagined all that, I'm more loving and in love with my mother and wife.


august 05, 2009 at 12:45 finally heard the cry of a baby voice, as if I was prostrating gratitude near the entrance of the birthing room. Look mom out with a funny face.


" safe ya a, aa now aa officially become a father


" what should I say to your father


" why mom??


" the baby's a boy, already there adzanin first baby


I also rushed inside, seen a naked baby on Tresha's chest with a prone position, seen he was breastfeeding, occasionally crying with a weak voice, his body still looks liquid like mucus is still attached.


Not feeling happy tears streaming down my cheeks, the sister gave the baby to me, then Kugendong and quadzankan left ear, iqomah left ear. Then I walked over to Tresha, I hugged her and kissed her forehead.


"Alhamdulillaah yes Allaah. Finally complete is our happiness a.


" can't wait to see your father's expression a


" They're outside, baby, they're not allowed in yet.


" a, didn't you see that sign at the start of the baby?? There's a rather big mole on his left cheek, he looks like you're rich!! Fingers and his body are long and tall like a rich you


" sister said, it weighs 2.7 kg and is 50cm long


" may she grow up healthy aamiin


Father, mother and mother metuakulun come in, they all look happy, except happy on the face of a different father.


" Thank God, mom, baby and mom are safe


" we are now officially grandparents and grandparents


" his grandson is a boy too! Tresha


" it's okay, want a girl want an important guy safe, you're healthy too. And what matters is that I'm a grandfather.


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That morning dad was busy, he called his friend who was a sheep farmer. It was seen that he was chatting and bargaining the price of sheep for my son's wedding.


Then Dad told me to go to Pa's house. Yayan sheep breeder, father also gave a lump of money amounting to 4,800,000 for two sheep for Aqiqah.


Judging from the legal side, the law of aqiqah is a disgusted sunnah, or sunnah that must take precedence. That is, if a Muslim is able to carry it out (because it has enough wealth) then he is encouraged to do aqiqah for his child when the child is still a baby. In the Islamic religion rules for baby boys in Aqiqahi with two sheep or goats, while for baby girls only one tail.


It looks like mother and mother-in-law want to go to the market to buy ingredients to cook. Seen some families from mother, father, and Tresha came to help the event aqiqahan, seen also close neighbors present to congratulate


My two best friends arrived.


"flood sieta ges Officially becomes uyy's father


" teu thought his uy, karek ge Age 20 years ges boga slave


" safe, sand" said Hari


" sok or maneh immediately Marikah or ri, whis kaburu doomsday said ali


" ahh maneh mah talk sok tea anywhere, pamali siah


" urangmah moal waka marital, saacan happy both parents li" said day


" ahh siamah alesan w, do not do ka women meuren siamah


" still at home ka auntu give, atawa neng image" said ali


The basis of these two temen kalaunada must be mutually bully.


Maghribpun time arrives. The aqiqahan event will be held by bada isya. Looks like my family and Tresha are chatting in the living room area.


Then I was pensive, right also said day and ali, felt like a dream, I became a father at the age of 20 years, while Tresha was 19 years old. Then


There was the sound of Adhan Isya, then I went to perform the prayer isya.


Seen the guests have come, starting from a close date, their friends and family are seen sitting on his back against the wall, seen also Mr. Utad and my teacher just came, he sat near my father.


Aqiqhan has begun. Seen my teacher as a moderator read out the arrangement of events, starting from the recitation of the holy verse of the Qur'an, alawasul, and the peak event reading Albarjanji and cutting baby hair.


The atmosphere went solemnly, and at the top of the ceremony I held the baby I gave the name Muhammad Alghiffarry. One by one from the family, community leaders took turns cutting baby hair praying frivolously, accompanied by anbarzanji prayer.


The aqiqahan event was completed, closed with prayers and a meal together.


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