OHH, No!!!
4. Basic Rights of the Child

Kana smiled broadly, revealing her row of clean, white teeth. Really he was tired if he had to talk about marriage, many problems that Kana worried about.

"The child's rights are basic rights that must be given and obtained by a child from his parents. Among them children are entitled to education, the right of children to happiness, the right to happiness, protection, obtaining a name, the right to get food, health, recreation, and the same role in development."

Nodding Mufi's head allowed Kana to breathe again, "That's what's in the parenting psychology pdf?"

"Yes, brother."

"Hm. The conclusion of the child's rights is. Children are entitled to their survival, namely the right of children to maintain life, get a good name, and worship according to the religion adopted. The second right to grow and develop children according to the potential to get a decent standard of living such as shelter, education, playing, getting along and adequate rest. Third, the right of protection that every child is entitled to protection from acts of discrimination, exploitation, neglect, violence and other mistreatment. Finally, the right to participate is the right of the child to express and be heard his opinion, seek and receive information in accordance with his life as a child." Imbuh Mufi explained in detail.

"But many out there men do not think about the basic rights of children that must be fulfilled" said Kana with emphasis on each sentence. Cana's heart rumbles with hatred and his mind cannot accept tolerance, for a man who thinks only of lust, without taking responsibility for his actions.

"I don't think you can classify the kind, Kana. Except humans. Because everything depends on the person. Indeed there are some men like that but do not rule out the possibility if there are also women who do not think about the basic rights of their children."

"But brother, why are many men not responsible for his actions, they are mostly busy working and think if that is only his duty as a husband. Just work without wanting to know the state of the house and his baby. Why and what is their reason, do they think the responsibility in their household is only work to meet financial material needs, without thinking of outside material needs such as the basic needs of children and wives?"

"Again Kana, you cannot classify it as sex but human. Not 'why men' but 'why men' because the impression of your question makes it seem like only men are like that," Mufi explained do not accept if Kana only mentions men only, not a few women do it too.

Kana pinched her lips, clucking bitterly with Mufi. After all what is wrong if he calls men, because he thinks many men are like that. The point is Kana just needs an answer from Mufi to his question."Yes, man, brother. Then what is the answer from Mufi's brother to that?"

"Talking from a male point of view, there may be some men who live in an environment that prioritizes the role of men as the main breadwinner, causing them to focus excessively on their work. They feel that their responsibility in the household is only to make a living sufficient to meet the material needs of the family, which leads to their main priority being to get engaged. They assume if the child and wife are fulfilled well then he has managed to account for his household as a husband, so that their energy is spent all out on work, but rest assured that their thoughts are only on the family. Jams-"

"But a lot of people are cheating. So their minds are not on his family." Cut Kana off before Mufi finished his answer. But who would have thought Mufi only smiled for his actions that were less Mufi like it.

"Listen to me first, okay. Jagan cut because later would be a misunderstanding. Maybe there will be cons later, but listen to my explanation first until it is finished. In addition, the thing that you are less aware of is that many men are under pressure and job demands, if in their work requires a lot of time and energy, they said, then it would be very difficult for him to allocate time for his personal life. Moreover, if past experiences are also involved in those who change their point of view, one of them is their own family experiences that affect their views and behavior towards their role as a father and husband. For example, in his family's life, maybe he felt less fulfilled as a child so that now he focused on work so that his son did not feel deprived like what he felt first. Already, you can ask."

"It is with the darkening of the night sky, if you do not consider the moon and the stars to exist. Then it will be difficult for you to stare at your own happiness in the shadow of the world of marriage. All you know and imagine about the world of marriage is only dark without light, but realize the problems that arise in the household are temporary trials that produce light, so that a better relationship is formed and increasingly tied to the strong trust between the two. A human being is different they are not the same, nor are they the way they form a household. Most of their minds are men who are equal to women in terms of household, even much more than you might imagine. They are the same as you who want a household life much more harmonious than the relationship of the household life of his parents. So also with those who have perspectives and dreams who want to treat future generations of successors is much better than what their parents gave and treated him first." Clearly Mufi was long, high times with a light sentence arrangement that Kana could understand.

"But many men cheat, many of them workaholics, and many of them do domestic violence. I fear that it will be a threat to me and the mental health of the child. I don't want my son to have a mental breakdown like I used to, "

Mufi exhaled violently, she felt back at herself first when convincing Vina to marry him. The questions that Vina asked were quite draining and her mind and now Mufi felt it again.

"I understand what you're worried about and you think, so look for a man who can manage his emotions and manage his time."

With the back that Cana stood looking at Mufi accompanied by a bland laugh, accompanied by a night wind blowing blew Mufi's last sentence. "Where should I look for him?"

"He does not need you to seek, for he will come to you alone. Wait and be patient a little more, this won't take long to believe in me."

The sentence that Mufi had just uttered made him dizzy. I don't know if he is lazy to talk about marriage especially with a Mufi.

"I wait for Sis," With the corners of her lips to her side, Kana smiled faintly at Mufi.

"I beg you to be patient in a moment, I will finish everything immediately and tomorrow I will go out of town to meet Vina's parents, please take Vina's gynaecological check tomorrow,"

"Will Vina's parents agree and accept?"

"Of course they'll agree, I have what power did you forget?" The witty laughter from Mufi's lips made Kana carry the atmosphere tonight, until she was lulled by the sentence that Mufi had thrown at her.