ONE LOVE, TWO CONTINENTS
What is the Meaning of a Name

On-campus activities take up almost all of his time. The Chancellor's student is completing video and editing assignments and media comparison papers, making her rarely get together with family. At six o'clock in the morning he must have left for campus, the afternoon continued his duties outside the campus with his team until late at night.

This has received approval from parents although sometimes mama is a little worried if her daughter's daughter is almost midnight has not yet returned home.

All the employees were made to panic by Mrs Rosdiana because Dita had not yet arrived home. One by one campus friends Dita contacted one by one by Mamah.

Super-tight attention was given to Dita given her concerns about teenage promiscuity and crime outside the home.

Maybe because mama often watches criminal news so various possibilities it continues to interfere with his mind. She always feared that her daughter might be the victim of a crime; kidnapped, snatched or raped. In addition to worrying about Dita's safety, he was also afraid that his son was tired and fell ill.

 Spelled out the girl who often pampered mama. Beauty and ideal height once brought Dita to the entertainment business but mom forbade on the grounds Dita had to finish her education first. Dita was also proposed by the son of a coworker papa, a textile exporter. The application was not necessarily welcomed because mama was afraid of children as smart and beautiful as Dita one owned a man.

Dita grew up in a family that always cared for, loved and cared for her because she was an only child. The mother waited long enough for momongan, almost ten years of family then the family of Pak Anggoro was blessed with children.

Age factors may affect fertility. Mr. Anggoro and Mrs Rosdiana got married when they were close to three heads. They met during college while being active in a political party.

Many say, if the husband and wife have been married for a long time but not also blessed with children, it is recommended to take care of children as a lure and a prayer of blessing.

With the intention of treating the longing of Mr. Anggoro and Mrs Rosdiana for the presence of a child in their household,

Lady Rosdiana decided to take care of the niece of her sister, Maria Sicilian. Inge Nirmala the name of the trinker. Thanks to God's power, they finally had a child.

In addition to foster children, Inge also acted as informant Mrs Rosdiana to report on Dita's activities on campus because Inge also studied at Chancellor University, just different majors with Dita.

Mr. Anggoro, a member of the House of Representatives Commission I who is currently being recommended as an official staff of the Indonesian embassy for Germany, may start concentrating there next year. Pak Anggoro is firm and always emphasizes to Dita and Inge to pay attention to education.

When it comes to education, the Anggoro family really pays attention to it. Anything is done for education because according to Pak Anggoro the social stratification level is assessed from the title lined up behind the name.

Although born in an environment that in fact is sufficient, but for the freedom to do what Dita wants is quite limited by the intervention of parents, so what Dita expects to be Dita completely is very difficult.

All activities throughout the day should be known by mom, when to enter and finish college, friends with whom, whose children and from what class, you should know.

Until Mamah was willing to hire a private driver and bodyguard to guard Dita. But this of course was not approved by Dita because he felt his life was quite confined without any bodyguards.

The strict rules have been applied by Mama when Dita sat on the Junior High School bench. This college period is still quite given freedom. In the past, Dita could not play with her peers because after school Dita had to run additional routines such as extracurricular, private lessons from musical instruments to subjects.

Dita's life was like in a golden cage but she never denied or against the rules set by her mother. Batak culture is full of dominating the Sirait family, while the one who dominates Dita is a mama. Pak Anggoro born in Sulawesi, now he is almost Fifty years old but still looks dashing and energetic.

For people his age, Pak Anggoro is still very healthy. Mr. Anggoro's career is quite brilliant and his performance is recognized by all political elites, his loyalty to the party should be thumbs up.

Everything that Pak Angoro and Ms. Rosdiana Sirait strive is solely for Dita. It is the foundation of hope because it will continue the ideals of the family. Dita also realized this because what her parents did was the best for her daughter.

No parent wants his child to fail in life, in addition Dita the only child of the Anggoro family. Where else should the hope of the family be restrained if not to his biological children? It's impossible for Inge to be just a foster child.

All hope is on Dita therefore many things mama prepared for Dita, ranging from education insurance for a period of ten years, health insurance, health insurance, until other insurance related to negative things may occur and be experienced by Dita in the future.

Although it looks excessive, Dita tries to understand the concerns of parents and the expectations that are focused on her. What can a child do to repay a parent? The trick is simply to follow what they want even though the freedom is lost.

Dita also tried to be able to understand the psychological condition of her parents are very excessive in protecting her.

There are several policies in school that make Dita feel limited, and, like if you go home late at night first Dita has to tell mama in advance and hand over the mobile number of college friends who are with Dita later.

If Dita does not comply then mom will send Inge to follow Dita and of course Inge does not want to be invited to compromise with Dita. If Inge does not comply with the wishes of the mother, then Inge must be ready to leave the Anggoro family residence.

If Inge is returned to Mamah Maria's house, it feels lonely Dita at home, only Bi Darsih and Mang Karman house employees who usually accompany Dita just talk nonsense, ngalor-ngidul, just to hear the story of life in their hometown.

If I hear the story of their lives in the hometown so unpretentious, living in simplicity, free to determine the direction of life. Eating potluck but able to sleep well, another case with me.

Although the facilities provided by parents are more than enough but have the freedom is very expensive for me when compared to their money that is willing to be spent just to support things that are far from human plans.

Life is full of different things. Could this be the meaning of the diverse differences as the color of life that God gave to his servant, the outpouring of hearts Dita whenever Bi Darsih and Mang Karman told him about the hometown, the village friends, the village, their childhood up to the playground that can not be found in Jakarta.

“Eat in what village Bi Darsih?” ask Dita.

 “Wah much Neng Dita, but Bibi usually eat ketela, a kind of cassava or young jackfruit. We ate it with sambel and rice liwet, "balas Bi Darsih with the thrill.

“Keep Aunt what school first?”

“Neng Dita, Bibi era there is only People's School.” The atmosphere became warm, there was no distance between the mistress and the employer because the talk and the joke was usually done Dita when the house was quiet.

If it is found out, Mamah must be reprimanded. Another case with the mother, usually the mother comes every two days, it was only to wash clothes and clean the house because the employees at home are only Bi Darsih and Mang Karman, as a personal driver Papah, as well as Pak Sukir, the family driver. When the housework piles up usually Mamah told Mommy to help Bi Darsih.

 Mother rarely speaks because she is quite polite personality. Mother is also afraid of later mispronunciation and Non Dita offended or others offended. For this reason the mother came there only limited to work, if asked he just answered, it also answered as necessary. Dita once asked the mother about her son because it was late but the mother had not yet returned home. Mother did not give much information, only answered briefly.

 “Who often picks up Mom who?” ask Dita

 With a downcast face mother replied, “Child Mother, Non.”

  “Oh...”.

That's all their talk. Although Dita looks still want to continue her conversation with Mother, Mother prefers to continue her work because Mother thinks she is paid to work not to chat.

In addition, if caught talking to Dita while working, surely Mrs Ros is angry and Dita will be reprimanded as well. In order to maintain the source of his livelihood, Mommy often avoids when he has crossed paths with Dita, afraid to be spoken to until he forgets time later.

We are lonely and lack freedom, both freedom determines the direction of life and attitudes, paranoid rules, speech and so on.

Papah did not hesitate to lighten his hands to justify the wrong thing and contrary to what papa wants. Dita never get it, it was Dita's fault. One day he was late to go home because he forgot permission when there was a task outside campus hours plus the phone battery was weak.

The family was made agitated by Dita because it was almost eleven o'clock at night Dita had not yet arrived home. Seeing the panicked mama papa was riding apitam. Upon arrival at the house of the stamp Five fingers were imprinted on Dita's cheeks.

Papa once yelled at Dita so hard and burned her diary because it told her about feelings and closeness with some men who were interested in her. As a father, Papah had a different view of it. Before finishing academia, none of the men

may near.

For papa, love can derail hope for an ideal as well as weaken common sense. Concentration must be one to the ideals and courtship only waste valuable time. When the academic level has been completed many things that can be done, then arrange a bond like a normal girl in general.

If everything is prepared well, it will reap a good harvest and failure in the household will not exist. That is the view of Mr. Anggoro about love and household, everything must be planned carefully.