Quarter Century Duda
What If I Were Pregnant?

Presumably the question from Anaya just became a consideration for Mother Dianti. However, what Anaya said was completely logical. She is not yet in menopause, so there is still a possibility to get pregnant. However, there is a separate consideration for Mother Dianti, considering the age that is no longer young.

In the evening, Mother Dianti spoke to her husband. Just simply, want to talk or maybe be able to consult with her husband. At least her husband is a doctor, so can give her advice

"Mas Dean, just been busy?" ask Mother Dianti.

"No, Mother ... why?"

"You can talk for a minute" Dianti replied.

Tendean's father then closed the book about the neurological disease he was now reading, then shifted his attention to his wife. However, sometimes at night they use to talk together. After all, age is also no longer young, at home is also just the two. So it is comfortable as possible to find activities together.

The mindset of young couples and middle-aged couples. Sometimes when it is already middle-aged also more chatting together, sharing, and also sometimes making love. Focus on filling the day together.

"Mas, Anaya was here this afternoon, we kept talking. Anaya asked if I was menopausal, I was still menstruating, Mas. I mean, I haven't gone through menopause. After that, Anaya again asked, if menopause had not stopped there is a possibility of being able to get pregnant as well. Well, what do you think of Mas Dean?"

It feels like after the conversation with Anaya just teased Mother Dianti. He only thought about the age factor that was no longer young.

"What Anaya said was right, Mother. If you can still menstruate, it should still be possible to get pregnant. How do you, yourself, ready not to get pregnant at this age?"

"The risk is high?"

Trying to explain from the medical side. Indeed, pregnant women at the age of 40 years tend to be less fit. Therefore, it is usually recommended to walk, yoga, and swim, to maintain fitness. In addition, pregnant women at the age of 40 years are also at risk of developing chronic diseases such as diabetes, high blood pressure, and thyroid disease.

Listening to the explanation of her husband, seems to be a separate consideration for Mother Dianti. Moreover, Mother Dianti had read an article that became pregnant at the age of 40 years and above to risk the child experiencing Down syndrome. It is better to share with her husband first.

"Some of that risk I've read about before. However, there is still a chance of getting pregnant. So, how'd it go?" ask Mother Dianti again.

This time Tendean's father approached, holding the hand of his wife who he thought was upset. "I don't care, but I'm all giving it back to you. Your body and the entire reproductive system are yours. Women have the choice to get pregnant or not. If, the risk is too high. No, it's okay. However, if until you get pregnant, for sure I will always accompany you, Mother."

Yes, getting pregnant and not getting pregnant is an option. However, Tendean's father promised one thing that he would always accompany Mother Dianti. Won't leave it alone.

"Wait for God's blessing, Mas. If trusted with God, yes I will accept it with a spacious chest," replied Mother Dianti.

"Yes, Mother .. thank you very much. Don'tbeafraid. I will always accompany you. So, how's ... sedikasihnya?"

"Yes, just relax. The child is a blessing from God. Although I also have many children, not biological children, but children in the orphanage" Dianti replied.

"Yes .. thanks yeah. Age is not young. His mind is different too, Mother. Not just about pleasure alone, but also thinking about other risks."

What Tendean's father said is true. That they are no longer young, need to think about the risks that might occur. Hopefully, God will give the best for both of them.