
The day before the marriage contract, Dita underwent pre-marital treatment from the salon that will decorate it tomorrow. Starting from creambath, facials, body scrubs, scrubs, manicure, pedicure even hundred. He said let manglingi tomorrow (make pangling) during the marriage contract and reception. Actually he did not ask for all the treatment, but it turned out that his mother asked because she knew her daughter was rarely willing to do the treatment in the salon.
Almost half a day he did the treatment until he did not have time to hold the device. After the treatment, he was busy chatting with his brothers who had started to arrive at Pak Wijaya's house. He can only hold and check his clothes when he wants to sleep in the room.
When entering the room, it turns out that the room has been decorated like a bridal room. With shades of green, her favorite color, her room so look more fresh and beautiful. Moreover, plus the decoration of the flowers on the top wall of the bed and headboard and two tall flower vases on both sides of the bed.
Dita lay down on the bed while checking her dress. There were dozens of missed calls and messages, from whom else if not from Rendra. When it will start to open the message, suddenly there is an incoming call from Rendra, just immediately Dita received it.
"Didngapain anyway all day long on the phone not lifted, sent a message not dibales?" Omel Rendra as soon as Dita gets her call.
"Assalamu'alaikum, Mas." Greetings Dita while holding back her laughter.
"Wa'alaikumsalam, where are you, dear, hard to contact?"
"I'm home all day, Mom. I got treatment from the salon, kept talking to the brothers who came."
"Can't really hold the phone?"
"Not polite Mas, the chat time is left playing hp. Mas, how are you? Have you eaten yet?"
"I'm sick again."
"Huh ... What pain does Mas?" Dita immediately woke up from her position.
"Malarindu tropicangen, dear."
"Astagfirullah Mas, don't joke like that. My heart almost fell, hear me sick."
"I'm serious, honey. I'm so miss. Are you not the same as me?"
"Yes, miss Mas."
"We're video calling."
"Eh .. No, we can't see you until tomorrow."
"It's a video call, we don't meet."
"Same as it is, you can see each other if the video call."
"Nasty you are! Look out tomorrow if I see you, I won't let you go."
Dita laughs amusedly. "Udahan then Mas, it's late at night. Do not sleep too."
"My wife is evil. I still miss you, just talked for a while already want to be closed."
"We'll meet Mas tomorrow, can talk as much as possible. It's yes Mas, assalamu'alaikum."
"Wa'alaikumsalam."
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Friday morning before the marriage contract, a lecture was held at Pak Wijaya's house. They invited mosque worshipers, families and also orphaned children from nearby orphanages.
While at the lecture event, Dita did sungkem on both her parents and also Adi. He apologized to the three of them if they had often done wrong and asked for blessings so that the marriage was blessed.
Dita also asked permission and sincerity Adi to be skipped to marry first. Adi also gave permission and sincere to be stepped over. Tita thanked and prayed that Adi soon find his soul mate. Dita then handed over a set of prayer tools for Adi as a step forward and asked for Adi's willingness to continue to guide him in living life.
During the procession of the bowkeman and the passage, they could not hold haru. Even the worshipers also shed tears.
At the house of Mother Goddess, that morning they also held a lecture as well as sungkeman and Langkahan, because Rendra also stepped over Shasha. Rendra gave jewelry and a set of prayer tools to Shasha as a stepmaker.
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At around 13:30 WIB, Rendra's family group came. They used 5 cars parked on the side of the road near Pak Wijaya's house, because the home page was filled with tents and all knick knacks for wedding events and receptions.
Rendra wore a white cocoa suit with embroidered accents on the front, matching the peci and her trousers. Rendra walked with his mother and Shasha. While Nisa behind him carries a dowry that will later be given to Dita.
They walked in through a gate decorated with bleketepe (1) and also some plants and fruit on the left and right side of the gate. Relatives and guests stood in rows to welcome their arrival, and they were immediately welcome to sit where the wedding ceremony would take place.
After the officers from KUA came, the event immediately began. The host opened the event by reading the basmalah followed by a prayer that the wedding ceremony will run smoothly until the end. Then the event continued with the recitation of the holy verse of the Qur’an. After that, the ruler gave a marriage sermon that aims as a reminder and debriefing the two brides on the importance of maintaining the integrity of the household. The marriage sermon begins by saying hamdalah, istigfar, and shahadah. Then, followed by the recitation of the verses of the Qur’an, the delivery of the wishes and the core of the sermon of marriage.
The next event is ijab kabul. Although Rendra had done it before, but he was still a little nervous. After the ruler asked for the dowry he would give, Rendra sat in front of Mr. Wijaya. He prepares to recite Ar-Rahman's letter.
“A’udzubillahi minasysyaithonir rojiim, bismi-llahir-ramanir-simi, ar-ra man, 'allamal-qur`an, khalaqal-insatan, ...”
Rendra heaved a sigh of relief after he finished reciting Ar-Rahman's letter without anything wrong and forgot, as he recited it without reading the Qur’an. Dita who was still in the living room and heard the melodious voice of Rendra became moved until she shed tears. He felt proud and happy because Rendra had fulfilled his wish.
Pak Wijaya then shook hands with Rendra, ready to start the procession ijab kabul.
"Ananda Narendra Daneswara Bin Indra Jayanegara. I marry and marry you to the father's biological son named Anindita Kusuma with a gold precious metal dowry weighing 25 grams and Ar-Rahman's letter, paid in cash.”
“I received the marriage and marriage of Anindita Kusuma Binti Wijaya Kusuma with the dowry, cash.”
"Well," said both witnesses and the audience.
"Alhamdulillah." Everyone was relieved and happy everything went well.
Mr. Wijaya then recited a prayer that was made by everyone.
بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي الْخَيْرِ
Dita was then taken out by Mother Hasna and Jingga, her cousin's sister, to the ijab kabul procession. Dita wears a white robe with lace accents and sequins on the edges, equipped with a long white hood that knocks. Dita then sat down next to Rendra to sign the marriage book and some other documents. After completing the signature, Rendra read the sighat taklik (2) located at the back of the marriage book.
Then Dita and Rendra stood face to face. Rendra gave Dowry gold precious metal that had been beautifully framed on Dita. Then Rendra pairs the ring on Dita's right ring finger, as well as Dita pairing the ring on Rendra's right ring finger. Then Dita kissed the back of her husband's hand which was answered by Rendra holding the crown of Dita and then he again said a prayer.
اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أَسْأَلُك خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتهَا عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِك مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتهَا عَلَيْهِ
[O Allah, I ask You for my wife's kindness and what good she brings to marriage. And I take refuge in you from the ugliness of my wife and the ugliness of what she brings up at marriage. (History of Imam Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah)]
After praying, Rendra kissed Dita's crown and forehead. “I miss you,” his successful whisper makes Dita's cheeks blush.
Penghulu then handed the marriage book to Dita and Rendra. After that they took pictures with the ruler and witnesses. The next event is to listen to the marriage advice of an uztad invited by Pak Wijaya, as well as to pray for the marriage of Dita and Rendra.
The event was then concluded with a prayer led by the uztad. As soon as the wedding ceremony was closed, everyone present congratulated Rendra and Dita before they began to enjoy the dishes that had been provided. While everyone was enjoying the meal, Rendra and Dita had a photo session together.
“You're so pretty, honey. Absolutely manglingi.” Praise Rendra while looking at Dita's face.
“So usually I'm not pretty?” Tita pretended to pout.
“Cantik dong, bidadari surgaku not beautiful. But today you are even more beautiful. Can't wait to get you into the room.” Whisper Rendra in the last sentence.
“Mas, ih.” Dita again blushed while hitting Rendra's chest because they were posing opposite each other.
“I told you I won't let you go tonight, hummmm.”
Dita did not respond to Rendra's temptation anymore, because the more he responded to her words.
Even though the wedding ceremony was over and the Rendra family group had also returned home, they both still looked busy meeting the guests who came. It is a tradition in the village, the neighbors and invited guests who can not come at the reception, they will come before the reception. So they also want to not have to meet the guests.
They can only really rest at around 10 p.m. After cleaning and changing into their sleep clothes, they went into the room. Rendra immediately locked the door as soon as they entered. He turned off the main light and pulled Dita, who was about to remove the hijab, to make them stand face to face.
Rendra cupped Dita's face, he immediately kissed her sweet lips to channel their longing. With their lips intertwined they walked slowly closer to Dita's bed, which was filled with rose petals forming a large heart.
As they took a breath, Rendra simultaneously removed Dita's hijab and threw it into any place. Slowly she laid Dita down, she did not care about the rose petals on the bed. All he had in mind was to complete his longing for his wife.
After being satisfied to enjoy the sweet lips of his wife, Rendra began to descend through the chin and then the neck of Dita. He kissed gently and bit in some places to make a sign that made Dita sigh resignedly.
While finishing the kiss on the neck, his hands began to touch da da Dita. As if his hands had eyes, one by one the buttons of Dita's clothes were released to see the beauty in front of his eyes. Dita tried to close her da danya by hand because she was embarrassed.
Rendra smile. He kissed Dita's lips again and then pulled his wife's hands until their hands were tied to each other beside Dita's head. After Dita re-collapsed, Rendra began to smell his wife's collarbone and then slowly descended down. One hand Rendra snuck into Dita's back and began to take off the hook cover da danya.
Accept this song from ordinary people, but my love for you is amazing ...
Suddenly Rendra's device rang. He forgot to turn off his gawai or change it in silent mode. "Shit!!!" he swore in his heart.
At first she ignored him, but Dita asked him to check who was calling because it kept ringing repeatedly. Rendra ruffled her hair violently in frustration.
Rendra moved from the top of Dita's body and looked for her salary. Apparently the Goddess Mother who called, she immediately accepted it.
Mother Dewi wanted to make sure what time she had to get there for her before the reception. After chatting with his mother for a while, he then turned off his gawai so as not to be disturbed again.
Rendra again approached Dita, apparently his wife was seen already asleep. Today's event is tiring, so it's natural Dita feels exhausted. Rendra again ruffled his hair rough with a smile. It was not like waking Dita up again. He then put on another button Dita nightgown and enveloped his wife's body. Finally that night they just slept with Rendra hugging Dita.
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Note:
(1) Bleketepe: woven coconut leaves installed in front of the house as a sign of a wedding party.
(2) Tactical sighat is a covenant that is pronounced by the bridegroom after the marriage contract stated in the marriage book in the form of a talaq promise that is hung to a certain situation that may occur in the future come by.
Contents of taklik sighat :
I Fulan bin Fulan, promised with great heart that I will take care of my wife named Fulanah bint Fulan well (mu’arah bil ma’ruf) according to Islamic teachings.
To my wife, I declare the taklik sighat as follows :
When I :
Leaving my wife for 2 (two) consecutive years;
2. Not to give him a mandatory living for 3 (three) months;
Hurt my wife's body or body;
4. Letting (doesn't care) my wife for 6 (six) months or more,
And because of my actions, my wife did not want to and filed a lawsuit with the Religious Court, then if the lawsuit was accepted by the Court then my wife paid Rp. 10,000, then she said,- (ten thousand rupiahs) as ‘iwadl (substitute) to me, then my talaq fell one to him.
To the Religious Court I gave the power to receive the money ‘iwadl (substitute) and handed it to the local National Amil Zakat Agency for social worship purposes.
Reference: https://konsultasisyariah.com/26206-hukum-shighat-taklik-talak.html
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