HIJRAH LOVE ANNISA
97. Intimacy

...The Bad Intentionally Allah Let go, so that the good may have a chance to come ...

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Annisa felt better after Emran brought her a cup of honey tea.

"Where are you, baby ?" emran asked Annisa, looking at Annisa who wanted to get up and get out of bed.

"I want to prepare clothes for the mas to the office" said Annisa. But soon Emran shook his head, rejecting Annisa's remark.

"Rest, I'll do it myself" Emran said softly.

Honestly hearing Emran say it, not happy Annisa actually felt sad, what should be her obligation now Emran must do it alone.

Somehow Annisa's body felt so weak and tired, not as usual who would always be alert in everything.

"Hoekkk"

Annisa felt an unpleasant sensation in her stomach.

Even now it feels like Annisa feels her head is so dizzy, so Annisa must hold the head that feels pain, massage gently to reduce the pain.

"Are you okay, baby ?" emran asked worriedly. Annisa answered with a nod of her head.

After drinking warm tea mixed with honey, Annisa again felt more relieved.

Emran comes with a plate of food, and prepares to feed Annisa, but Annisa refuses, feeling condolences to the husband who serves her.

"Don't refuse, I want to do it" Emran said

Hearing that finally Annisa can only obey what was said by her husband.

Annisa's memory returns to a story narrated by Rasullullah's wife Aisyah Ra. with His Majesty the Prophet in building his household.

First is , Maintaining a marriage relationship in order to remain romantic is a mandatory thing that must be done husband and wife. A good relationship will create a comfortable home atmosphere so that both parties can support each other and remind in kindness.

In Islam itself, marriage is the longest worship of a servant and its position is very sacred.

The Quran also explains that marriage is like a 'mistaqan ghalizha' - a firm and strong covenant. Allah SWT gives many rewards to his people who do good to their partners. This is in accordance with the letter of An-Nisa verse 19 which means:

" Remember them (your wife) the way they should. Then if you do not like them, (then be patient) because you may not like something, but Allah has made him a lot of good."

Second, the romanticization in husband-wife relations is also exemplified by the example of mankind, the Prophet PBUH. In various hadiths and narrations, he gives examples of his romance to his wives.

One of the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad in order to remain romantic and harmonious is to exemplify sleeping on the lap of the wife. This activity will add to the intimacy of the couple even though the wife is menstruating.

Aisha RA said: "The Messenger of Allah once lay on my lap, when I was menstruating, then he read the Qur`an." (CHR. Muslim).

Point' to the next three that the Prophet taught is to sleep in one blanket with a partner. This has also been exemplified by the Prophet on his wife, Aisha RA. 

When the Apostle was in a blanket with Aisha, Aisha suddenly rose up. The apostle then asked, "Why did you rise?" .

Aisha replied "For I am menstruating, O Messenger of Allah. Then the Prophet said, "Then go, then dress up and come back with me." Aisha entered and covered with her, " (HR Sa'id bin Manshur).

Aisha RA said: "I bathed with the Prophet from a vessel. Then the Messenger of Allah preceded me until I said, ‘Leave it for me. Leave it for me." (CHR. Muslim)

Point' To five Husbands have the responsibility to provide a living to his wife and family with a halal living. Allah SWT will give alms to husbands who give a living, including when feeding his wife with affection.

From Saad bin Abi Waqosh RA said, that the Prophet said: "And indeed if you give a living, then it is alms, until the rice you put in your wife's mouth." (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim).

Point Sixth In relationships, jokes become one way to improve harmony in Islam. Jokes and jokes can add comfort and warmth in the household.

From Zaid bin Tsabit, he said of the Prophet SAW: "He is a man who likes to joke with his wife." (Sukhari).

Aisha and Saudah once smeared each other with food. And the Prophet SAW laughing at the behavior of both. (JR Nasa'i).

Point to seven Women will be destroyed if called with a friendly greeting by his partner. The Prophet also gave an example by calling Aisha with a Humaira.

In the narration of Nasai, Ibn Majah, and Baihaqi, the Prophet gave the call of Aisha with affection namely 'ya Humaira', which means reddish. The call as an expression of the Prophet's admiration for the beauty of Aisyah who blushed her cheeks.

It feels like what Rasullullah did to his wife, even Emran did to him at this time.

The heart of a woman who will not feel happy if the husband is so pampering and privileging himself.

A few moments passed, a plate of food that the two enjoyed together finally finished unnoticed, the two fed each other with each other with a joking and tickling laughter, as if the world only belonged to two.

After finishing breakfast, or rather a bad breakfast, Emran memapah slim body Annisa who is still wrapped in a sleeping dress.

"Where are you going ?" Annisa asked curiously

"Mandi "Answer Emran briefly.

"Mas Annisa can be alone"

"But I want us to be together, baby"

Hearing the husband's answer, finally again Annisa can only obey and do not want any objection.

Long enough the two together in the bathroom, and no matter what they do, until almost an hour passed both of them came out of the bathroom wrapped in kimono towels.

Annisa looks fresher than before, just add a little makeup, then her pale face will not look.

The two together change clothes, Annisa still prioritizes Emran, by preparing a shirt and suit for the husband, preparing all the needs of Emran to go to the office. Only then did he himself prepare the clothes he was going to wear.

Of course because today is the day that Annisa has to do gladi, before her graduation especially make sure the bench where she will sit tomorrow.

"Do I need to be with you ?" bargain Emran on the wife.

Annisa also replied by shaking her head "No need to mas, Annisa can be alone, besides Mas is very busy"

Of course what Annisa said is true, some days Emran is very busy and even not infrequently home until late at night.

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