Hijrah The Love
29.The Assembly of the Model of Love

Whatever draws near to Allah, follow.

whatever makes us better, do it. Because God will record all the efforts we do, from the intention to every step we swing.

Early in the morning, the three Muslim students who were in the spirit of learning were already in front of the Istiqoma Mosque. The Assembly of the Model of Love is a routine study carried out every month with alternating talks, but with the same topic, which is about love, marriage, and family according to the Islamic perspective.

There were nearly a thousand worshippers present. Dominated by young people aged 20-25 years. Dusk, Resti, and Yulia are now on saf akhwat for the front.The first filler of this study is ustadz Handy Bonny, a young dai Bandung city that is loved by young people. He stood at the front in his signature suit: wearing a hat, a white T-shirt in a long levee shirt, and jeans. Ustadz Handy Bonny saluted, then opened his talk with mukodimah and sholawat.

"Wiiiih, the ustadz is cool, the gaoool.

"Hussssshhhhhh..,.,," replied Resti briefly.

Dusk smiled seeing Yulia misbehaving.

"Cing, who here is dating?" ustadz Handy Bonny.

Most of the congregation was silent, only a few dared to groan.

"Geura!!!!!! ustadz Bonny

The pilgrims are seen rumbling while looking right and left.

"Well, euy's word is broken." said the congregation beside the twilight while laughing.

"Nanaonan Ari maneh.' Then, he continued his talk.

"So brother and sister Fillah, rather than focus on dating mending focus on reaching for God's love now, mah. Yuklah all mending hijrah, Penance love now. Look, if love is cut off as human beings, must be upset and regretted at last. mending love Sam God alone, deh, who really love us. The fear that we have because of love, the medicine prostrates and draws near to God.The person who repents always gets a plus from God. because every day he is made istighfar. because every day he tries to get closer to God.kalu friends deketi God, God runs near us. believe, deh, God does not want us, but often we are left behind

God, brother and sister....Who feels his life in sadness is calm, brother end sister.in fact we are never alone. always accompanied and with Allah SWT. Inallaha ma'ashabirin, verily Allah is with those who are patient.Patient in his own kal with rest his love problems. Patience when it comes to resisting longing, patient stalking and IG former geus sohan deui, patient.....But, it turns out that our enjoyment in solitude bears very beautiful fruit, right? because we are approaching the Mahacinta, we are approaching the Maharomantis.we are approaching the Elector of All Longs. And we have the Most Merciful and Merciful. Only God, and let God regulate the extent of our love for man.bCapek chases after creatures.mending pursues who belong to creatures, because He is the one who has everything."

Dusk nodded at ustaZ Bonny's explanation. So also with Resti and Yulia.vKetiganya seen enjoying the study today.

"Ngomongi love, talking marriage, brothers and sisters, Gimana now we prepare towards marriage in a good way not in a bad way.Let's rest easy, In a good way insyaallah more blessings. Remember, yes, brothers and sisters, in the last days, men versus women are 1 in 9. Approaching the apocalypse 1 in 40 later, that's normal male tea. Well, if the pious man often to the mosque, often participate in the study will be more limited edition means, then the Brotherhood.." ustadz Bonny was silent for a few seconds,".....Hey, dengerin, Ikhwat, Kita, mah, so the scramble." he continued by whispering through the mic held by him.

"Women are always talking about us. We, ma'am, captured by kalem aja, sure, the newspaper is 9 to 1 against ikhwat.so, must immediately search process from now on, so as not to run out....."

The majority of the audience smiled again.Takiraknya, one hour of material ustadz Handy Bonny finally finished.the pilgrims have not left because this suit will be there a second speaker, namely kang Athar, who will be the second speaker, a book writer and regular speaker at the Assembly of the Goodness of Love. After opening with greetings, preamble, and sholawat, Kang Athar delivered his material.

"I want to convey material about how to pick up a mate.But, before let me ask first to the audience......

"Get the date here who's ready to get married? Cing...." Kang Athar was seen puffing up the response aloft.

Many of the ikhwat and akhwat pilgrims raised their hands. Resti refrained from raising the levee, he was not ready to menika.Yulia raised her own ladder.

"Aye has married, wants young marriage, but still confused caranyeee.

While Dusk? He looks haunted. Is Sudan ready to get married or not?bAh, marriage is a sentence that she really thought of today.

Some of the congregation looked bitter. Yulia also so He immediately whispered to his two best friends," Kalo aye is not single, but pi single tired.aye was tired of being single." Resti and Dusk closed their mouths, almost powerless to hold a laugh. Then, they again pay attention to the material conveyed.

"Part of perfecting the effort to pick a mate and prepare for marriage is to determine the target when to get married.But, do not forget to add insyaallah in our target that.after the target si set, the target, leave the plan and the target to God in prayer, let God govern our affairs. Then, we do the next phases in picking up a mate. Whatisit?

"Well, there is material to pick up a mate with the formula 3M. please if anyone wants to be noted," said Khang Athar. Some of the worshippers were seen taking out stationery.

"M the first is heart. the soul mate is invited with prayer and effort. his efforts can be by way of ta'aruf, but. before to serious endeavors, but,we must make heart first from the beginning by learning to love in sincerity.love in sincerity even though each has the inclination of the heart, But never save the expectations must he. when we like or are having fun with someone, that is, if not with him is fine because loving it learns to love, not have. All that we love is God's, can be separated, can be separated, united by the permission and the service of Allah.....

"The idea will be two, we are united with someone we hope, or we will be shown someone better.The two options are God's best according to him. if it turns out that we are not united with what is expected then learn to classify.There are many things that we can have to explain to God when the process to our marriage is lived.for example, loss, failure, rejection, etc, betrayal, or too much hope for a creature.

"Then, what if you're not ready to get married, but already have a cemceman from now on? Option, marry or affirmation.if not ready to marry then learn to let go. convey to him, there is no need for any bond between us, we do not need to wait for each other, we do not need to wait for each other, we only need to learn to let go of each other and accept God's provisions later when we are ready, so the time and never bring together also unite. Or, maybe the scenario says we should meet someone better....

"Okay, the second M is self-reflecting.self-reasoning is every activity that is done to make the quality and capacity of ourselves increase.why do we have to strengthen ourselves? Because, undergoing marriage requires knowledge.Marriage is a lot of testing. So, we have to learn, not enough capital of spirit and desire alone.so, after the target is set, after the heart surrenders to God. make a program to strengthen themselves.how can participate in the study of science, read books, read books, ask more experienced people, attend seminars or workshops and who

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"And the last one, is the third M. The third M is God willing the friends will all get a mate at the right time and time. Can be in accordance with the target we write, can be faster or even we are asked to be patient.the class, the soul mate will come from God.the way can be old friends who are rediscovered, the old friend, childhood friends, school friends, college students, close neighbors, distant relatives, coworkers, community friends, in friends, in teachers, in the same match of salary teachers, in parents' matchmaking, in teachers' matchmaking, in the soul mate, or meet in the medsos. clearly, from the origin of the man came the soul mate, which is important to invite the soul mate with the effort that God is pleased so that our marriage is blessed.....

Khan Athar was silent for a moment, Dusk looked more enthusiastic with the material presented by Kang Athar. And so did Resti and Yulia. Kang Athar continued.

"And, do not forget after marriage, continue to strengthen ourselves until we die, until God is pleased, because we hope with our partner later, we are not just living, we are living, not only a soul mate in the world, but also in the hereafter....."

Finish Sudan material that was up to Kang Athar. returned an hour passed by imperceptibly. Dusk, Resti, and Yulia get enlightenment related to love, marriage, and marriage.Topic that so far often makes them upset, often even misinterpreted also actualize it.

And, for the first time in the life of Dusk, the word mate and marriage crossed over seriously, even imprinted on his head.

Suddenly in his mind there were many questions.

When did I get married?

Who's soul mate?

Where is he now?

How do I pick him up?

The questions raised a sweet smile on her beautiful face, until then the beautiful azan zhuhur reverberated.

Meanwhile, at the far end of the Brotherhood saf the back of a young man had noticed the material presented by Khang Athar and Ustad Handy Bonny. In fact, the, he had accidentally passed in front of Istiqomah Mosque and stopped by to perform Dhuha prayers. However, seeing the study, he decided to stay in the mosque. He took the time to listen to the material for the sake of the material conveyed. And, she was so grateful, many times her chest trembled and her eyes sparkled as material about soul mate and marriage was conveyed and filled her mind. In his heart began to grow and the desire to immediately perfect the religion.

During this time Dawn always prayed to be reunited with the twilight, Dan, two friendly people as a child was now in the same room, learning the same knowledge, in the same mosque, and the same, and pray zhuhur together.

How small the earth of God draws near to the far, how great is the power of God to keep away the near.