Hijrah The Love
39. Pillars of Civilization

There is no place more beautiful than home. There is no smile more beautiful than your smile. There is no gaze most electrifying than the gaze of a father who is loving and caring to his children.if that all happens then the family is a form of the beauty of love in the world, the, and heaven has been beautifully grounded in a space called home.

Not all families are like that. Many have families, but lack of china. So, mushroom hate Dan caci maki. Many also build households with foundations that easily collapse.so that the house in some ways, feels like hell to understand.

At 22:30, the men arrived at the hospital. He walked quickly to the ICU room and found Mama was downcast, crying.

"Fitri Why, Ma?" ask Satria. My mother did not answer at all.

Satria approached, then crouched down in front of Mama while holding Mama's hand, she said, "Ma, forgive Satria....."

Mama looked at Satria, her eye bags were tired of tears. Very clingy Mama looked at Satria, the eldest whom she had long forgotten so much fun working. A moment later a warm hug was felt on Satria's body. And Mam cried out, making the men melt the tears.

Moments later, after her condition calmed down, Mama finally explained the state of Fitria.

"Your sister miscarried, exactly aborted her womb. She had a bleeding infection, "mama whispered to Satria, there was sadness in every word she said.

"Fitria's pregnant, Ma?" ask Satria not to believe it.

Mama nodded, though,

"Astagfirullah......" Lirih Satria covered both of her faces with her stairs.

Suddenly a million regrets were felt by him. All his sins and mistakes in the past. She blames herself for the fate that befell her only sister.

"O Allah, do not punish my brother for my sins and wrongs" he prayed in his heart.

However, it was too late, Destiny had already happened. Satria could only reflect on all the events that happened in her life.

At midnight Satria's father arrived at the hospital from a business trip outside the city. He saw his rapid steps from a distance. He came straight to Mama and poured all his anger.

"Everything because of Mama. why not be watched? how, could Fitria get pregnant.ok, could, Ma? why, can our child get pregnant and miscarry?" said Father upset.

"Mama continues to be blamed. Where have you been? how long have you cared about children?"

"You fight on, Ma!"

"Because you keep going!"

"You dare, huh?"

He took root of his hand, would hit Mama. soon after the hand of satria directly holding the hand of the Father.

"You dare to fight Father?" the Father said to Satria.The gaze of the Father was full of anger. My mom is crying.

Then, the knight gathered in front of his parents.

"It's not Mama and Dad's fault. It's Satria's fault. Forgive satria, sir..... Ma...don't fight anymore, don't ......"

A few seconds later Satria prostrated herself before her parents.

Mom crying. Father's eyes glazed. both then sat on a chair and bowed lethargic with a tormented mind. There are various bitterness that they now feel.the feelings of failure, anger, annoyance, sadness, and shame, all become one and attack simultaneously.

A week passed quickly. Fitria returned home with the condition improved, said the doctor, his psychological condition which now must be strengthened. Full support from the family is needed.

Mama's vacation from work. Father is also. He handed over his business to his employees. During this one Week, they took turns caring for Fitria with Satria.

Satria became the main character of the positive changes that gradually occurred in the house. Mama and Dad looked amazed by the deratical changes that occurred in his eldest son. To the point of not understanding what has happened to Satria's life for some time.

"What happened to Satria?" so said Mr. Head Mama.

During his stay at home, Satria always prayed at the beginning of time and went to the mosque to congregate. Even the dawn prayer. From his room there is no sound of hard seasons, but shahdu lantunah al-Qur'an. His words are always positive and strengthen both his parents, as well as his sister.

"Even though we have committed a great sin, Allah is the Acceptor of Penance. Sorry brother yah. Brother will accompany you change. You can definitely change. Your future is still bright" Satria told Fitria.

Mama and I are embarrassed myself, although it has not improved communication, but at least, Mama and I are committed to focus on caring for Fitria until it recovers. They try to hold back the anger so as not to fight anymore.

Satria conveys her family's problems to Bang Mirza. On Bang Mirza's information, Satria suggested his parents attend an event at the mosque hall near the campus on Ganesha Street. There is an Islamic parenting class, how to be a good parent according to Islam. Tampa allegedly, Satria's parents agreed to attend the event.

"Family is a pillar of Civilization. One of the most effective ways of destroying civilization is by destroying households. How-to? By changing the role of the mother. Make him shy housewife status.bus him with activities that make him forget his nature and obligations as a wife and mother," said Coach Sodik, who is also a mother, islamic parenting experts to hundreds of seminar participants, the majority of whom are parents.

Mama and Father looked serious listening to the material presented.

"Mother is an education for her children. Dad was the principal of his school. So, the role of father here is also very important. Indonesia, said Ustadz Ajobendri, like the land of Tampa Ayah, that is many families that actually his father still exists, but like the loss of the role of Father. He only works as an ATM machine. It takes only to take money. Act only as a money provider.

"If such a household, the mother forgets her role as an educator, the father only as an ATM machine, the children become victims. And get ready, this is the beginning of the destruction of civilization.

"Being an old man is not easy.stakes the world of the afterlife. Do not just fill them with the needs of the world. Give them religious education. Teach them tawhid. Build their character. Teach them adab and akhlaq. Give attention and affection so that they will not look for the wrong way to get attention and affection outside the home that actually plunges them into error and ugliness."

Mom and Dad get a lot of slaps from the materials presented by Coach Sodik. Not felt until almost two hours long they both attended the event. There is a lot of parenting knowledge they have.

In their minds, the faces of Fitri and Satria. How guilty they have been for neglecting the duty of being good parents.