One Love, One Heart
7. Private tutor
"Now Lo story Lo must have known the same name mas Nanda?santi asked me as Santi drove me home.
" When I was still living in Malang Mas Nanda once boarding near my house" I said.
"Yakin ko seems very close yes, do not lie watch out Lo lie" said Santi.
" Mas Nanda was a high school student and he used to play chess with his dad and play with my sisters, how can you still not believe ?"my many.
"Bring long enough dong y'all close?" santi asked, still curious.
"When I was in 7th grade it wasn't too close just my sisters who were close to him, but when I was in 9th grade he was in 12th grade we were more familiar because Nanda often went to the chess house with my father" I said.
"You guys should be as close as the sisters "say Santi made me dumb.
"Why you are right my guess" said Santi
"Yes, we are like brothers" I said.
"Berati Lo knows her whole family dong ?" ask Santi.
"Not at all when he lived near the house, he said deliberately stay away from parents to learn independently" I said as I knew.
"Okay for now I believe, the reason said Eki mas Nanda was rarely invite his friends to play at his house, even though his parents still live in Jakarta "santi said.
"Why never take a friend to his house ?"my many.
"Say mas Eki is yes, as long as friends from the maba has been 10 years more he is often invited to his apartment and to the hospital where the mother works," said Santi.
"Berati mas Eki have met his family,dong?"my many.
"Only the mother and her father so far have met Eki" said Santi.
"Mysterious means "my word.
" That's what makes me curious "santi said.
" Ok, thank you for coming home, see you soon" I said as the car reached my front and I was ready to get out of Santi's car.
"See you "reply with Santi while waving as a farewell greeting. Because I have decided to accept Santi's challenge so tonight I spend my time reading a book about Parenting children approaching adolescence to increase my insight and knowledge in approaching Vina tomorrow.
"What did you read, brother?" ask the mother while picking up one of the books.
"Parenting to babysit" said Mama.
"I was challenged with Riri to become a private teacher of a famous 6th grade elementary school student even though she was a girl" I said.
"If you want to approach the child use your heart ask him what he wants to do well, if you do it the hard way, he will be more violent and rebellious or he may be more closed to you out of fear" said the mother, as an elementary school teacher from the time before marriage to my father until I was 25 years old, of course, the experience of facing more children.
"From the story of Riri, the father of widows divorced, is it possible that the victim was broken home, Mom?" my many.
"It could be because the signs of a broken home child is one of them Emotional High. Being a Superior Child becomes smarter, Usually this kind of child has a very high sensitivity and also intelligence than others, not infrequently children actually look at adults about the problems faced by both parents. But there are also bad children, so quiet children are always sad to feel unexpected or grow into children who do not have manners".
"How can I approach him?" my many.
"Use your heart, don't you do because of the lure of something, 'I should be able to do it because I want to win a bet with Riri' it's not good means you are not sincere" said the mother. "That's so bun" I said.
"Do it with a sincere heart if you manage to consider it a bonus, do not be too you expect if you have hoped that when you fail you will be disappointed" said the mother.
Today is the first day I teach private Vina, I thought I would teach at the bimbel gaunya we teach at the home of her parents mbak Risa.
"My 3 siblings Vina my sister's first child my sister married when she was 24, but their marriage only lasted until 4 years at the age of 3-year-old Vina Mama Vina was tempted with a career that she thought was more important than taking care of children. My brother made him choose if he wants a career he will let go but if he wants to take care of the child let go of his career" said Risa Mbak.
"Why should you choose why not go hand in hand, many out there career women who can still take care of their children even though working" I said because I think the way is too narrow to prohibit his wife's career.
"Because of my sister-in-law's profession that makes her unable to divide her time, sister-in-law a flight attendant she likes to fly throughout Indonesia, being a flight attendant is the embodiment of her traveling hobby. That's why when my sister-in-law accepted the offer to be an international flight attendant without asking my sister's permission my sister was furious, being a National Stewardess only her child and husband are not taken care of especially International whose scope of work is more worldwide".
"Because Vina's father gave her a choice?" my many.
"Yes, even though my brother was bluffing at the time so that his wife changed and realized, it turns out his wife even chose to leave her child and husband for her hobby and professional".
" That Vina never knew her mother?" my many.
"Every time there is a flight that stops in Indonesia, he must have taken the time to meet Vina even if only briefly, but the name is separated from the age of 3 years when he was still not very familiar with his mother yes kayak impression meet foreigners aja no familiarity between mother and child". We talked a lot about the family of Mbak Risa and Vina his ponakannya, who was so according to his grandfather's grandmother and his father.
"Come in . Assalamualaikum bun's".
"Walaikumsalam" said the middle-aged woman.
"This Aya will be Vina's private teacher, Bun" said mbak Risa introduced us.
"Greetings to know me Risa's mother as well as her grandmother Vina, hopefully can be patient to face her naughty granddaughter a little special" he said.
"Where is Vina bun?" ask Risa.
"Covered by his father in the room".
"Bikin' her what's more?"ask Risa.
"Hanging with his boyfriend until his boyfriend bled his life" said the mother.
"The wrong part of the girl herself was taught to play cooking dolls not in taekwondo, pencak silat, basketball" said mbak Risa .
"Let's go to his room" he asked.
After saying goodbye I was immediately taken to the 2nd floor where Vina's room was located.
"What's the vina again ?" asked Mbak Risa, Vina who was cool in painting immediately looked at us.
"There's a pack of te"asked without looking at us.
"Tante brought you a new private tutor Aunty hope that this time you do not work anymore so that someone guides you to learn, if this time you make a Aunt raise your hands and let your own papa directly teach you" said mbak Risa.
"Yes I just try you guys to get to know each other " said Risa while hitting my shoulder.
Since I saw that she did not consider my whereabouts, I acted the same as I took my phone I played my phone without caring about Vina for 30 minutes Vina ahkirnya facing me.
"Tante told us to get to know each other why are you quiet?" tanyakanya.
"Your daughter asked us to get to know each other, but I already know you your name is 12-year-old Vina in 6th grade Elementary your mom is a papa flight attendant an office worker, so for what" I said.
"Aunts should be like other teachers being nice to me according to my will" he said.
" I'm your teacher here so you have to follow the rules of my game not me who follows you" I said.
"The teacher is now fiercely pretentious in front of me later if you have met my papa will definitely turn 180 degrees sweeter and softer" he said cynically, so all this time his teachers always seek the attention of his father, so that his teachers always seek the attention of his father, perhaps that was what made him act nosy to the previous teachers.
"What is your papa artist?" my many.
"My father is more handsome than an artist" he said.
"The most handsome man for me is my father" I said proudly.
"Oyes then let's meet my papa" he said.
"And here his student you are not your father, why mother despite getting acquainted with your father" I said.
"Most certainly the new teacher has never met my papa, if it is certainly fascinated" he said.
"What's wrong if those teachers are fascinated with your papa, why do you work with them ?" my many.
"Because if they're fascinated and interested in papa, they'll definitely try to take papa away from me" he said.
"If you're sure your papa has a charm why your papa can't keep your mama" I whispered, because I realized my speech was a little rough. In fact, I guess Vina immediately looked sharply at me with a face with restraining emotions.
"Knew Mom, the teacher of everything can not be measured by a handsome or beautiful physique, maybe other teachers are just fascinated by your papa does not mean they want your papa and want to take from you" I said right in front of him.
"Sok knew the teacher that they were not fascinated there was no way they would have changed since meeting my papa and there was no way they would have been looking for papa's attention if they weren't interested" he said.
"As you said they were just fascinated no more proof they went away as soon as you did no one survived" I said.
" Because they've been deterred by me" he said.
"People who are interested will try to get what they want, like you who are interested in the sport of basketball you will certainly learn it so that you can ,but not everything that makes us interested will we force it to be ours. Likewise, the teachers were only interested but there was no intention to take your papa "i said while rubbing the back of his hand that was in my grasp.