Pledge of Love Ustadz Irsyad
meaning of life partner (extra part 2)

"Often, my first wife calls me while I'm in the shower, and is deliberately turned off by my second wife, even Chatting sent my first wife was intentionally on the phone."

"Astaghfirullahalazim, until like that sir?" ask Irsyad. The man nodded.

"Until one day? I saw from his short message he scolded my first wife, fooling her who still wanted to hang on with me. And asked him to separate from me."

Irsyad bobbing head.

"This is my first wife's patience. He was not even angry with me because of the treatment of my second wife, even though I very rarely went home and only paid her off after a month. He stays with me Ustadz, for the sake of my children." The man's voice began to crackle.

Irsyad was touched. He also felt what he was feeling. I can't imagine if he's in his position.

"I'm sorry to have cheated on Ustadz. I decided to separate from my second wife but she didn't want to. She stayed put to be my wife. But I can't stand his bad attitude Ustadz. I was no longer with my first wife. I have to how Ustadz?" The man sobbed. Irsyad rubbed his back, trying to calm him down.

"I'm tired of this Ustadz, very tired. I want to get rid of this problem really Ustadz. I can't take it anymore." Mumbled the man.

"sir Ruslan? Sorry, everyone must have felt tired in living life, after all this is the path that Mr. Ruslan chose,"

"Hiks, I'm wrong Ustadz, I've seduced love at first sight."

Irsyad sighed for a moment. It felt like he wanted to speak giving advice but as if stuck in his tongue. He remembers himself the same. The temptation to look first.

More precisely. A view after a long time no see.

"Ustadz I should how?" ask again. The Ustadz Irsyad.

"Truly, I would like to advise you Ruslan sir. But it seems I'm afraid of getting hit on myself."

"Ma..I mean Ustadz?"

"There is no love at first sight sir, there is only lust, the real love is in the first wife of the father, while the second wife of the father is the test and temptation of the previous father. If you resist temptation, it will never happen. But in reality. He was tempted, and marrying her under the pretext of polygamy was not haram. Honestly, I myself will not be able to do it, no hypocrite sir I have ever felt tempted by women other than my wife. But as hard as I can bear the desire to have it. Look at the faces of my wife and children. I don't want to hurt them for a moment because of the ego." Irsyad said, saying it was as if opening his black record back.

The man still sobbed "apparently Very heavy Ustadz taste. I regret it, I regret having done polygamy."

Irsyad murmured that he was saying something, he did not know what he wanted to say. "Do you know Surah Annisa? The law of polygamy? 'A man is allowed to marry more than one wife but on condition that the polygamist must be fair to his wives, ' But there are still more channels sir? 'And verily, yourselves will never be able to be fair.' That's all I know."

The man was still silent in his tears. Listening to the postulates of Ustadz Irsyad.

"Calm down, ask for forgiveness. If you have to give talak to him eat give it. If the woman still refuses to ask Allah for help sir, Allah SWT will surely give way."

"Hiks.. Hicks..."

"Prophey sir, this is a test for you because Imam Shafi'i has also said 'There is no stability before passing through suffering, God has tested His rosettes, and when they are patient, then, God has tested His rosettes, Allah gave them security.' Then never think that we will never feel the pain of the test" said Irsyad.

"I'm sure after this. You will better understand the meaning of loyalty, especially now you know, how the woman who became our first mate is the best choice from God. The angel of heaven we must love. That's why women are created from the ribs of a man close to the heart, so that our partner can get love and protection from us."

Irsyad smiles. "Already sir, you should go back to your first wife's house first. So that you can be calmer."

Irsyad smiles. "I'm sorry sir, do you have a child with your second wife?" ask Irsyad. The man shook his head.

"Yet?"

"Yes not yet Ustadz."

"Yes, you just think about everything carefully, when I honestly do not dare to suggest anything, other than giving the father advice to increase the night prayer to be guided."

"Yes Ustadz I'll try."

Irsyad took his notebooks, wrote something, and ripped it off.

Irsyad held out the piece of paper to Mr. Ruslan "This sir. Practice this remembrance I wrote, every father finished the tahajud prayer. Or at least dawn prayer. Thank you for praying in the third night. Read that thought a hundred times. Just routine sir. Hopefully in ijabah and you can immediately be separated from the problems you are facing." said Irsyad.

The man also received it and kissed Irsyad's hand many times.

"Sir, don't be like this sir, this is very inappropriate for me."

"I just feel so grateful to Ustadz. For having given me enlightenment and good practice."

Irsyad smiles. Both are still soluble in stale chatter until it does not feel the time is getting late the guest was saying goodbye to go home, with a quieter heart.

Irsyad was still standing at the door raising one hand greeting the car of Mr. Ruslan who was honking his horn before continuing his journey.

"Mas." Call Rahma suddenly, making Irsyad gasp.

He looked back. "Astaghfirullah, just ngagetin mas. Kirain is asleep."

Rahma chuckles "Not yet to sleep mas."

"Well that's it. I'm tired of taking care of the twins all day."

Rahma wrapped her hands around Irsyad's waist. "Entah mas. Just like a habit. Sleep should be in the arms of Irsyad. In love humming sholawat Nariyah from the lips mas, not to mention the hand mas who rubbed Rahma's back. It feels so comfortable. If it wasn't like that, Rahma would have a hard time sleeping."

"Hmmmm just say you want to touch it. Ask this story again? Almost every day in the love of Rahma. Still less?" Irsyad Ledek.

"Isssshh mas what the hell is this talking about?"

"Hehe, but no papa anyway, mas also love him, with pleasure even."

Rahma chuckles. "Mas, O God, what are you talking about."

"Speaking love.yuk enter not outside later seen people" said Irsyad whispered. The two laughed together as they entered their home.

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