System: Best School Development
Chapter 30: Laskar Pelangi

Family education is more important than any type of education because it is the education that children first receive.

In school education, the most important thing is to impart knowledge and knowledge only so that children have excellent test scores to be accepted at the University. University education is to train students to better integrate into society. And focused on getting a better job.

And it is family education that teaches children how to behave and be educated in attitudes.

The influence of parents on children is subtle, profound, and long-lasting. Parents are the first role models of children and the first "heroes" known to children. The type of behavior that parents do, will mostly affect the child's life and create shadows in their subconscious mind.

Recently, the state has advocated "family style", which is actually an important expression of family education. In a social phenomenon where society generally dislikes "Teaching children", family education becomes very important. To prevent children themselves from becoming rebellious children, therefore being a parent is not as easy as it seems.

Juvenile delinquency in our country is mainly concentrated on three types of families: one is a family with single parents or divorced and cannot get enough care from his parents.

The second is a very harmonious family relationship, the father often becomes an alcoholic committing domestic violence, the mother is too weak in due to family situations that ultimately can not do anything.

Third, parents or other families are too loving and pampering children which makes him develop an arrogant attitude and underestimate everything.

As the saying goes: "The filial son is born of suffering." But in fact, the perception is wrong, the premise of this sentence depends on what his parents are like. Take for example father, if the father is a man with good manners, good nature, dare to carry family responsibilities and love the family, he said, so when children make mistakes he will give the right punishment for children to play a good role in the future. "The happiness and prosperity of having a son" often comes from a family that has such a father. Even if the family is poor, the father should set a positive example for his children.

At the same time, beat up the child who has the goal of telling him why he was beaten and how to avoid being beaten later on. This way, the child will get better under the influence of his father.

On the other hand, if the father is a man who does not perform his duties properly, stigmatized, alcoholic, or domestic violence, he returns angry due to something outside the home, to vent his anger he beat his wife and scolded his children, and used violence to increase his majesty and strengthen the status in his family. So beating and scolding a child will make the child more rebellious and hate the family, and the father-son relationship will remain tense after growing up.

In addition, light physical punishment of the child is allowed, but do not scold the child. It is meaningless to scold a child, and it is easier to disturb and injure the child than physical punishment.

Again, most of us will eventually become parents, and for the sake of our children, we too must become better selves.

Adam and his father confront with anger, and Handi is caught between the two.

Handi held Adam's father's wrist and slowly lowered his hand, saying, "I know you are very concerned about your child and are concerned about your child's safety. But you can be sure of me as a teacher, except for her parents, For God's sake no one cares more about the safety of children than I do now. I invited them to swim and was fully prepared to choose the safest place. I also have certain swimming skills that can protect children effectively. "

Adam's father looked at Handi but did not speak.

Handi continued: "I'm sure you also know the story of water management by Mr. Sutisna. Sutisna's father, had managed the water for many years but ultimately failed, as he adopted the 'blocking' method, and the flood restraint was only effective for a while. More and more collected would eventually break through the river embankment, while Sutisna learned from his father's failed experience and used methods of beam dredging, river dredging and new river excavations to guide the flood flow. And these children are like flood waters. It will not succeed only through blockages instead they will rebel, and they will walk down the river secretly from their parents. It's even more dangerous. You also have experienced the age of Adam. Remember your youth, I think you should be able to understand. "

Adam's father looked at Handi, then shook his head and said, "You people in this city can only babble and not experience it. You're educated, but you're not experiencing the real thing."

After speaking, Adam's father put on his shoes and turned and left.

Looking at his father's back, Handi shouted: "Don't blame Adam. Communication is the best way to get education. If you want to blame, you can blame me. You can go to school to talk to me in the future."

Adam's father bowed and condemned: "Children ********."

After Adam's father left, Handi and the children were not in the mood to continue swimming, they came out of the water and put on clothes.

Handi looked at Adam and said, "Adam, you really don't give face to your father right now. Don't be so reckless in the future, it'll make your relationship stiffer."

Adam looked down and said, "Teacher, you are a good man. I don't want to hear my dad say you like that I can't hear my dad say bad about you."

Looking at the sad Adam, Handi smiled and embraced his shoulder. Not far from there, the autumn leaves fall and fall to the roots of the tree. Handi heaved a sigh of relief: "It was the greatest fortune of my life to meet you."

"No, Master, this is our greatest blessing to meet you," said Word flatly.

Handi laughed out loud, then embraced the Word again, and then some other students joined in. Everyone is shoulder to shoulder, and the seven men merge into a long, happy shared "one" form.

Handi and these six students currently did not seem to be teachers and students, but closest friends.

"can dong."

"Of course!" The children said in a mess.

"Oh what song?" Ask Handi.

"Of course the national anthem!" Adam said proudly.

"The national anthem is too solemn and does not fit into our current atmosphere. Is there anything else?" Sandy kept asking.

"The sun will come out to climb the hillside!" Word said naughty, and then continued singing.

"You can stop now. From now on, you are allowed to sing another song and learn a good thing. Don't put these messy things in your mind." Handi patted the head of the Word with his head.

"Do you know the music "Rainbow Warriors "?" Sandy asked again.

"Yes!" The six children answered in unison.

"Okay, let's sing along, okay!"

"it's good!"

Handi cleared his throat: "Come on, let me start, 1! 2! 3! Prepare, sing!"

"Dreams are the key

For us to conquer the world

Run without getting tired

Until you reach for it

Rainbow warriors

Not bound by time

Release your dreams in space

Color the stars in the soul

Dance and keep laughing

Although the world is not as beautiful as heaven

Be Thankful to the Powerful

Our love in the world

Forever ..."

The autumn wind brought a little coolness, blew out some leaves in this fall and the sky was very clear. The song of Handi and the children echoed up into the sky, echoing among these bitter mountain ranges.

Years later, each child will remember the day when he "hooked his shoulders and leaned against each other's backs" and sang "The Rainbow Warrior". this is an unforgettable memory in this mountain village.