After Married

After Married
RETURN TO INDONESIA


A few days later, they returned to their homeland. Nisa feels uncomfortable if she leaves her son too long, therefore they also speed up their vacation.


"I'm sorry, 'cause I'm all gonna have to speed up."


"Dear, it's nothing. Everything I'll do as long as you're happy."


"Thank you dear."


"Together."


This is the first time Nisa has called him dear. Fadhil's heart was very happy. It means Nisa has already started to open her heart for him.


"Can't you wait to get home?"


Nisa nodded.


"But if later after I get home I get busy working, you don't get angry baby."


"Dear, I promise you."


"Remember my message, if you ever start working again, don't forget to keep Zi and I united, I'll let you work just as a boredom repellent, not to burden you." Fadhil said earnestly."


"Yes, baby, thank you."


Nisa digested each of her husband's words carefully. Although she knows she is not as free as she once was, she is sure to be able to carry all the trust her husband has given her.


Actually, Nisa also wants to be at home, but seeing the development of her husband's business that is increasingly developing wings. He does not want to stay home. He will help as much as possible to handle one of these companies. Although maybe the time spent is not like it used to be.


Now her main responsibilities are to take care of her son and her husband. Therefore she will follow all her husband's will and desires.


Nisa rests her head on her husband's shoulder. Now she can share the burden of her life with her husband. He also felt comfortable when he was on Fadhil's side. Fadhil also felt very happy because from now on he had begun to be able to control the heart of Nisa.


"I love you my wife, I love you forever."


"Love you to my husband."


They passed the day's journey smoothly.


...***...


A few hours later, they arrived at Soekarno Hatta airport. Zi and Yo had already stood by there to pick up their arrival. Zi was already impatient to meet her mother and father.


Although they were honeymoon but if it was a long time like this Zi would of course feel envious. He never separated from his mother. Because since childhood, Nisa has always been by Zi's side since she was a baby.


The plan was for Zi to be cared for by Zein's parents, but because Nisa could not part with her child, she insisted on taking care of her own child without involving her parents or in-laws.


...***...


Leaving children to parents is not the right action let alone parenting and caring for grandchildren, is not a light job then if this is done it becomes injustice to parents.


Is it wise to burden aging parents with responsibilities that require such physical and mental strength?


Older people should be treated well and softly.


As Allah has commanded subhanahu wa ta’ala in His word:


“And your Lord has commanded that you worship none but him, and that you should do your best to your parents. if either one of the two or both of them is to a ripe old age in your care, Then never say to them the words of “ah”, and do not shout at them, and speak to them noble words.” (QS. Al Israel’: 23)


This verse affirms that elderly parents need special treatment, words must be careful not to hurt their feelings.


The responsibility of parenting and education of children should be on the shoulders of their parents, not their grandparents or teachers at school.


This is what Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:


“You are all leaders and you will be asked about your leadership. Leader among men he will be asked about his leadership. The man is the leader for his family and he will be asked about his leadership. The wife is the leader in the household as well as the children of her husband and she will be asked about them. The slave is the leader of his master's treasure and he will be asked about it. Know that you are the leader and you will be asked about his leadership.” (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim)


What is meant by the leader in this hadith is a person who is trusted to take care of what is under his leadership and will also do good things for those he leads.


If a parent neglects what is his responsibility which results in things that are not good for his child then the parents will be held accountable especially if the reason for neglecting the responsibility is only because you want to pursue a career or personal ambition.


The importance of parents in the education of children.


Described Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam in his words:


“Every child is born in a state of holiness. It was his father and mother who would make him a Jew, a Christian and a Magusi.” (CHR. Bukhari)


...***...


Although he was tired, in fact he could prove he could take care of Zi himself even though Zein had long since abandoned him. Fortunately Zi Tumhuh became a good and obedient child. It's just that he also inherited Nisa's ugly attitude which is always at his own will and sometimes selfish.


Zi was as stubborn as her mother, but her heart was also as gentle as Zein's. Zi was the perfect fusion between Nisa and Zein. Besides being handsome, he is also sweet. Had Zein been alive maybe their lives would have been better than this.


...***...


"Honey .. we've arrived lo..."


"Oh yes, thank God we have arrived." Ucao Nisa happy.


Nisa and Fadhil walked out of the airport hand in hand. From a distance, Zi waved her hand at her parents.


"Mas, it's Zi.." show Nisa to her husband.


"Yes, let's go there."


They immediately headed to where Zi and Yo picked them up. After reaching Zi then hugged her mother tightly. The pent-up longing is now poured out on her mother.


Although they had only been separated for five days, but it felt like a long time for Zi.


"Honey, Mommy's hugged, Daddy's time hugged."


Zi's eyes moved to her father. He also let go of his embrace of his mother.


"I miss Daddy, too" he said, stretching his hands to his father.


Then Fadhil raised his son and carried him to the parking lot. Then the car that picked them up immediately drove home.


Nisa and Zi are in the back seat, while Fadhil and Yo are in the front. They chatted warmly on the way home. There are no restrictions on superiors and subordinates there. Everything is integrated in the togetherness that is created.


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