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While waiting for his wife to breastfeed, there was a call from Yo. He told me that Fadhil and Nisa's family had arrived in the city. Fadhil told them to wait at his house. It just so happened that some of the rooms had been cleaned when his mother called when they had left the village.


 


When he came home last night, he also told me that some rooms were prepared as much as possible. Because his big family is coming. Some servants immediately tidied up the house for the extended family of his master. Even Fadhil brought some servants from the wife's house.


 


Fortunately, he did not go straight to Nisa's house. If not, he will meet with Fajar and Zein. Some of the servants had also been informed by Mang Dede to keep their whereabouts a secret. Of course, everything was according to him because Nisa had previously given direct orders to them via telephone.


 


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The house of Fadhil.


 


“Pak I want to see you soon when I can?”


 


“Inter to Bu, we clean first, yes time want to meet the first grandchild kok kusem kucel, later can-can our granddaughter sawanen.”


 


“Oalah yes also yes sir, yes I want to clean first.”


 


“Hu um.”


 


While Zi who had just woken up was shocked there was her grandmother and grandfather.


 


“Assalamu’alaikum nek, kek ..” saya on both parents Fadhil.


 


“Wa’alaikumsalam darling.”


 


The three people finally hugged each other to let go of their longing.


 


“Buwn ya babe?” she said gently as she stroked the hair of Zi who was already growing children.


 


“Iya nek, grandma grandpa just came?”


 


“Iya darling.”


 


“Ya already you are also ready for school first yes, grandma and grandpa also want to clean first.”


 


“Iyanek.”


 


Then they both finished their morning activities, only after that they gathered at the dinner table. Just as they were about to eat their breakfast, Nisa's parents had just arrived at the courtyard of the house.


 


“It looks like new besan come Sir.”


 


“It looks so Bu.”


 


“Ya I've seen first to the front.”


 


“Iya.”


 


Then Mother Fadhil walked towards the front, opened the main door and then appeared their besan. Their smiles rose on their lips. After saying hello, they were invited to have breakfast together.


 


The car that drove them was parked as well. The driver waited beside the house. The waiter who was in the house gave him breakfast and a temporary place to rest in a gazebo next to the house.


 


 


Though Fadhil has prepared everything including a bedroom for the driver from his family or Nisa's family.


 


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After breakfast, Zi said goodbye to the two pairs of grandmothers and grandfathers to go to school. The butler called Fadhil to come home soon. But because he could not leave his wife, rather he was afraid of anything happening to his wife and child.


 


After all, just a few hours ago, his wife had just given birth.


 


At Fadhil's house, the two pairs of grandmothers and grandfathers were getting ready to go to the hospital to pick up Nisa and the baby. Some time ago, Fadhil told me that later in the afternoon Nisa and the baby could be brought home.


 


Thank God Nisa's baby is very healthy especially Nisa's condition is quite recovered and healthy. Mother and baby can be brought home immediately.


 


But in fact he really wants to go home because Nisa hates the smell of drugs from the hospital. Hospitals are not as comfortable as they are at home.


 


A scene ensued when the big family gathered. Everyone was very happy and excited to welcome the new family. Moreover, Aaron's dark eyes and his round face with puffed cheeks increasingly makes anyone who sees it.


"Who do you look like, handsome boy?"


"Yes looks like his mother's father to Bu-ne."


"Hush diem, lawong baby lo herds wae kok pean sek noisily to Pak."


"That's it. sacarep you sir."


Then there was laughter in the room Nisa because of the behavior of both parents Fadhil. The thick Javanese language they use sometimes sounds comforting to them. Luckily though they had lived in the capital for a long time, but they could still use the language of their region.


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...Australiian...


"Are you serious about that Indonesian?" ask Alexa's dad.


"Of course dad? why?"


"Dad just wanted to make sure you didn't pick the wrong life partner."


"Thank you for your trust."


"Together my dear."


He gently stroked the head of his only daughter. The happiness of the princess must be assured. Moreover, she is the only daughter, because for a father, a daughter is like a diamond that must be guarded and should not be scratched in the slightest.


A great responsibility is always on the shoulders of a father if he has a daughter. 


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One of the roles of fathers according to Islam for girls is to be a role model who has affection. Father and mother do have an important role in the growth and development of their children.


If you show the world, you will give way to how to live in the world. If the mother appears with a gentle figure, the father will usually appear to have a wise and loving character.


In Islam, fathers have a special role for girls. This is where it takes spiritual, emotional, and physical closeness with a father.


Ideally, the father is always close to the daughter so that the child feels safe, comfortable, and can communicate in harmony. A girl will be directed to the afterlife and her world when her father is always near her heart.


The most important thing that must be considered by the father to his daughter is to meet his emotional needs by way of giving affection and attention, so that he does not feel that this one need is not met.


This becomes the main element in educating children, especially girls, because sensitivity and sentimental have indeed become the habits of girls.


A father also has a great responsibility in shaping the pattern and color of the child in the future. Daughter who is accustomed to being close and familiar with his father, God willing he will be easily directed his father, have a sense of trust and positive personality, not easily stressed/frustrated, responsible and optimistic.


Alexa's father was not a Muslim, but he loved Muslim culture and traditions. He also felt lucky when his daughter found a Muslim soul mate.


Hopefully his daughter will find the happiness of the world and ahirat later. Aamiins.


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Hopefully Yo and Alexa really match so that they can be a sakinah family, mawadah, warohmah.


Help prayer yes readers beloved Fany 😘.. Assalamu'alaikum