After Married
CHAPTER 222. GO ON VACATION
Nisa and Fadhil's household situation has improved a little. Now they are even getting ready to go on vacation to Bali for four days.
Fadhil even sought permission for Zi's absence from school due to a family event. A classic reason given by parents if children are invited to vacation while still learning activities at school.
"Is everything ready?" fadhil asked his housekeeper.
"Already, Master. All the items in my suitcase were already in my second car" the chief servant reported.
"Okay, thank you."
Then Fadhil immediately held Baby Aaron, and took Nisa's hand.
"Let's go baby, get up soon," pinta Nisa gently on her son.
After that, Zi immediately climbed in the back seat sitting with the nanny Aaron who was invited to participate.
"Okay, sir, walk!" the order was on the driver.
"Ready."
The two black cars immediately left Fadhil's house to go to the airport. It only takes about thirty minutes, then they will arrive at the airport at a moderate speed.
Aaron seemed happy and comfortable when he was in his father's arms. Moreover, they have blood ties, so maybe, Aaron is happier if he is with his father. Luckily, Zi who was currently sitting in the back did not protest at that at all.
Before this, Nisa had indeed given an education about what if Zi had a sister. Growing up as a first child, Zi was already able to become a good sister to her sister.
Show a Good Example
Tips to educate children first is to show a good example. Indeed, no parent is perfect, but you and your partner should set a good example for children in everyday life. If you want your child to speak soft and kind words and be polite, then you should always behave the same as a role model. Remember that parents are examples that children will follow until they grow up.
Call the Child's Name
When calling children should also say his name, so that the child feels considered and appreciated by parents. When you look around and pay attention to you, say well what you want from your little one. Avoid yelling because this is not a good way to educate children. When this habit is done, it makes the Little One feel annoyed and afraid of You and do not listen to Your words.
Build a Habit to Listen
How to educate a good child needs to get used to listening to whatever the child says. Even if you give him orders, it doesn't mean you don't hear their excuses. It could be that the child is feeling tired, is upset with the school atmosphere, or has problems with his friends, and others. When you show an attitude of wanting to hear their complaints, will make children hear your orders. By listening to the child will also make him accustomed to express his opinion.
Recognize Emotional Triggers in Children
Parents should know when and why the child is upset or angry about something. If you want to give orders or teach children something do not at those times yes. If your child is angry, try to give him time to calm down and let him explain what is causing him anger. It is only after the child feels calm, you can talk to him, for example giving orders or teaching something.
Always Consistent
A parenting pattern that is applied regularly and consistently will make children feel safer. Children become aware of what you want as a parent so they can behave more calmly when given orders. For example, you forbid the Little One not to spend their food repeatedly every day consistently, the child will be more understanding and calm to spend their food.
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