After Married
WEDDING PARTY
After that, they went through "Installation"
The fabric used is red and white, is expected to give courage for both brides to live their marriage with passion and passion. In this ritual, the two will be wrapped by a sindur cloth while being escorted to the pelaminan by Nisa's father.
After that they went to pelaminan.lalu they underwent "Weigh weight"
After Zein and Nisa sit in the chair, will be held the ritual of weighing their own child and daughter-in-law by Nisa's father by holding the bride and groom.
Then, Nisa's mother would go up on stage to ask Nisa's father, who was heavier among them. Then, Nisa's father would answer her if both of them were equally heavy. With this conversation, it is expected that the two children know that there is no difference in affection for them.
After that they 'Zein and Nisa do "Minum rujak degan"
Literally, rujak degan is a drink made from young coconut shavings. The tradition of drinking coconut water is done in turns in one glass for one family. Starting from Nisa's father and then passed to Nisa's mother and then given to Zein and Nisa. This coconut water is symbolized as holy water that can cleanse the spiritual whole family.
After both Nisa's parents got off the leash..Zein and Nisa go through a procession of "Baggots"
This ritual was performed by Zein who poured coins along with basic necessities such as rice and grains to Nisa as a symbol that He would be responsible in providing a living to the family.
In every ritual they go through, they smile at each other.
Then the next ritual is "Retance"
The ritual is to feed each other three times as a symbol that both partners will always help each other and also combine love to old age.
Next up is "Sungkeman "
The entire ceremony procession in Javanese customs will be ended with a sungkeman event, kneeling in front of the parents of each bride as a form of respect for having raised them until finally able to live a new life with a partner.
Nisa who could not help her sense of urgency shed tears while resting on her parents' legs. His mother also felt overwhelmed by it.
Then the two brides sat back in the bridal seat..
Shy Nisa - shy at times looking at the invited guests. So too with Zein. They were still listening to the advice brought by the elders.
Sometimes there is also talk that says that the bride is still small. It is true that their words because Nisa's body is small and cute. Zein is high.
After the day is over. They are getting ready to change clothes for the evening event.
Zein wears a blue after and Nisa wears a blue white evening dress and her hair is beautifully seared with a ribbon accent behind her hair.
What a matching couple, right? Tonight they were able to hypnotize all the invited guests with their presence.
Tonight they became a pair of queens and kings overnight. Minimalist makeup actually adds to the beauty of Nisa more radiated.
Then they occasionally mingled with the invited guests while chatting with them. Because tonight they held a standing party at a place that Zein's family had hired
🌱 Fadhil pov -
Meanwhile somewhere else. Fadhil is lamenting his fate .
All her love ran aground in the middle of the road. He was married 2 times. " MYRIS" is the proper word to express Fadhil's current state.
A few days ago.he got the news that Nisa is getting married to Zein . Yogi has been getting an invitation from the Nisa family since a few days ago.
While Fadhil did not get an invitation from Nisa at all on the grounds that he was in a distant place.so Nisa did not invite him.
But at least Fadhil felt appreciated when he was told by him, at least he could give the best prayer for both brides.
But it turns out that his existence is not very important to Nisa. So from now on he doesn't really expect more about their relationship.
From this moment on, he promised that he would be even more successful. And when he is successful, he will definitely get his true soul mate.
He believes God will send the true person to love and accept himself as he is.
🌱 Nisa pov -
" Sister.when is this show done ?"
" A minute now.are you tired ? "
Nisa also nodded slowly. "sitting there first yuk.then if you uda g tired we return to greet guests." said Zein while calming Nisa.
His face was tired. And Zein couldn't see the sadness on his little wife's pretty face.
Zein invites Nisa to sit on a bench around flowers . They took drinks and some pastry cakes there.
They did not expect the end of their long journey from friendship to marriage.
The current Zein is much different from the previous Zein. Similarly, Nisa, who was once very tough, is now weak when there is no Zein on her side. They can complement each other.
The trials before them had strengthened the bond of love between them. Only one they ask for.happy until the end of life later and until the end of death that separates.
Then Zein asked Nisa for permission to go back to see her co-workers. Zein actually wants to present a special song to Nisa tonight.
Zein has been training for a few months and tonight he has to make Nisa the most special woman in his heart.
Nisa who was sitting did not know that Zein was giving a surprise to her.
Sayup - sayup heard the voice of Zein who sang a song, Nisa who is very familiar with the sound.soon turned her eyes towards the source of the sound.
Zein appears with a spotlight that leads to him and by singing a song of memory of the two of them, with a song titled :
"Holy Promise" by Yovie & Nuno.
listen to my lady
I'll tell you tonight
holy desire for you my goddess
listen to this earnestness
I want to impeach you
the first and last
don't you refuse and make me broken
I won't repeat to ask
this one belief in my heart
I'm the best for you
listen to the woman of my dreams
I'll tell you tonight
the sacred promise of one forever
listen to this earnestness
I want to impeach you
the first and last
don't you refuse and make me broken
I won't repeat to ask
this one belief in my heart
I'm the best for you
don't you refuse and make me broken
I won't repeat to ask
this one belief in my heart
I'm the best for you
don't you refuse and make me broken
I won't repeat to ask
this one belief in my heart
I'm the best for you
I'm the best for you
Right in the song..Zein takes one of Nisa's hands and kisses her.