Drunk Duda (Ceria Skalane Time)
MD180S. Feeding the ego
"What tactics? You think that's a tactic? Where are the parents letting their children commit adultery? You're wearing your brain, Ken!" Mamah Dinda's eyes were already glaring.
"I know, Mah." The old boy was not very polite, he glared also to mamah Dinda.
"You're a boy, right? You have to be firm for yourself and your partner. Gavin's problem goes into Ria's room, because it was Gavin's room. We're old, sorry we forgot that. Gavin went into the room at that time, Ria's position was not in the room, right? In a sense, he just went into the same room right? We take the positives, maybe Gavin took his needs in that room. It's against our will, we don't know. But Papah told Gavin after we realized it, Papah said he'd take some of his equipment and clothes from Ria's room. Because he's not here long, so he better use the other room. You don't pull your problems, with mistakes that Ria doesn't know. If it's Gavin's problem, you ask Gavin. Don't be as if Ria added guilty here. You are permission to Papah, to try to approach Ria again so that your household can be intact and can be an official agreement. But, the impression you came here to find Ria's fault continues. You talk about it and pull the problem still there. Actually, is your desire to make Ria confess all the mistakes you accuse, or make Ria seem guilty of all the events in your household? If you want to, make Ria confess her mistake. Are you going to finish your household when Ria confesses to it all? You're in such a mess, Ken. I've drawn an example, how to approach the wife again. But you rejected the suggestion, you're muddy with your unguided plan. Not Papah you want to split, but Papah kasian same you who are too protracted gini. Your sins grow longer, your problems are not solved. Though, religiously Ria is not your wife anymore. But you claim yourself that you're not divorced yet. Talak kinayah is valid, if not mixed husband and wife again and refer verbally back up to three months after talak. You've been separated for a long time, Ken. Let alone husband and wife, right? Even verbally referring doesn't come down, right? Tuh, seen where you are still husband and wife? Papah support, not support you, campuri Ria back. But support for you to improve your household, keep you officially re-accorded in KUA. You remarry, not verbal citation. You understand me?" Tumben, papah Adi said softly.
What is it like to convey good intentions to a hard person?
"Bah, but I didn't say I divorced Ria." Stridently crybaby, Kirei's father has been melek only.
"There is the name of talak kinayah, talak indirectly and the law is valid. So, you indirectly divorced her with that line. Cake, go you there, go home to the old man, if you go we split, if the split is want you yaudah we split, then, coupled with you I'm a widower and you're ugly your wife in front of other women, that includes her too. Why should the man's mouth be guarded. You come to Ria every time, noisier, noisier again. Approach, re-pedekate. Don't fuss over this matter, this plan and that plan. Let what be so? Does it make you satisfied that all the fault problems are in Ria?" Papah Adi explained slowly and in a subtle voice.
Bang Ken lacks understanding.
"Yes, Pah. We're asking for three more months of approaches." Bang Ken bowed his head and bowed.
Mouth again time.
"Not for too long, your mind is rigid. A month if there is no progress, then Ria. Poor Hala too, she is also a hearted woman and wishes more on you." Mamah Dinda patted Kirei's thigh. Kirei was as sleepy, he let out a spoiled humming sound.
"I need time to do that, Mah." Bang Ken pressed his voice.
"That's why it takes a month. If there is no progress, leave it. What do you hope for a month of effort but no results? That's not to build a company, Ken." Mamah Dinda positioned Kirei's face towards her armpit. Her thing again, Kirei felt at home and until well in that position.
"That's the same as me, Bang. I want plong, I want to be free." I let out my breath.
I don't know, if all eyes are on me.
It's usually just a gimmick, but I don't know.
"Not restrained, tired. How huh? The cake seemed to be unhappy, nothing. I am this from a long time ago, have been sincerely separated. I can control my stress while humming Kirei, I can control my thoughts from about Brother. Continues, since the old pregnancy until now brother as if terror me again. What's that for, Bang? I was injured, already sick. Worried, if we go back even I am less filial and less devoted to Brother. I was afraid my respect would diminish, because of events. Moreover, I feel the period of pregnancy and childbirth without the role of husband and support brother. I felt so hurt, I lost my devotion to Brother." The point is, I'm worried about getting brave with her. Until later, our household had no blessing at all.
It's not because of the third person. At all, this is not the reason I have a feeling with Gavin.
"Kan Abang try to fix it all, Ria." He moved the place closer to me.
"Indeed it can be fixed, but aren't you afraid that my heart for you isn't back to how it was?" I must have remembered that wound a lot.
"Fear," he answered softly.
"Well, I said, it's good we hope. If indeed in the future we have a feeling again and we can fix the difference between us, yes we can be together again." It was like persuading a child.
Mamah Dinda and Papah Adi really did not speak. They're parents, enough respect for the young.
"If you think we can be together later on, you're wrong, Dek. If you don't want to be together now, you'll regret it because we can't go back."
I felt his arrogance. Vanity that b*** blind! Sure enough, that I will regret it.
"Yes means congratulations to you, because it means you have found the right woman. If it's not me, I don't care if it's important you find the right partner." I tried to feed his ego.
He seemed to be thinking hard, I wish he had really decided to let me go.
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