For the Sake of Heart
Why choose Pakistan

Hi ladies mbak mbak or who is busy nih nyari jadi pakistani. It's good that you keep following this story. Here I as a writer do not want to discriminate against any party. And the storyline is pure advice. Overall the author wants to present the real life in Pakistan. Not only adat that is biased.

There is a positive side that the author wants to tell. Which is all expressed and realized in everyday life. If viewers want to know what life is like in Pakistan, lose if not read it to completion. From the beginning the author has explained a little reality here. But this episode will be the author exposes why and why it can happen.

Like a powerful brother-in-law. The in-laws who mistreat the daughters-in-law. And the husband is more inclined to defend the rights of the sister on the appeal of the wife. Even if you are married. Shock culture experienced by Indonesian women who married Pakistani men.

Actually living in Pakistan women are very spoiled. Here the women are very taboo to go out on their own. If there is a need then the male members go shopping. To term a crush on a neighbor's house is taboo. To go to the market yourself do not try. What else to bring a motorbike can be in the pelototin people sekampung. Eit wait here. Neither in the city nor in the village are there women who do not close the aurat. Come on this is a positive point ok. Neither the rich nor the poor wear bikinis.

Ladies mbak mbak mother let's gather huddle first. This is what should be an example. Pakistani women shut down her aura.

"There are no women here who wear sexy clothes. Everyone here is wearing a slwar dupata gamiz. The length of the dupata is two meters. And if there is a male guest in the guest room, the women must wear the dupata" explained Aini . Because today in the group there was a question about Pakistani women.

"Oh yes, she said women should take Jehez. Jehez what's that?" ask the other participants.

"Jehez is the bride's luggage. The contents of the house depend on what family is loved," replied Aini.

"Bak why Pakistani women really like to interfere in the household affairs of her brother. And the in-laws also interfere in the household affairs of his sons. There are friends also say what to ask permission first with the in-laws," asked the participants one more.

"Actually in said meddle not also well. There was a friend even her in-laws never arranged for her. And of course I don't deny there is something arranged as well. Here the women are restricted. Therefore anything must be the agreement of their in-laws or grandmothers" replied Aini.

Looks like the group's getting better. More questions came in. And even more exciting there is an immediate interest in joining the promo tour to Pakistan.

Sorry about all. For a while my question stopped first because it was more than the quato provided. To maximize the answer then my group key.

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"Mbak Ratna is unusual in the group today. Tumben many mbak mbak nimbung. What's up, dad?" ask Aini curiously. As usual, Aini discussed after the work was done. And that's through watsapp too.

"Entahlah mbak! I wasn't too focused on their questions. Well maybe they are interested in Pakistani culture" Ratna replied casually.

"I think you're interested in Pakistani men" replied Aini.

"Hahaha, maybe. Where do you know while diving drinking water," replied Ratna.

"Hahaha, I think so too, but I just stay focused on work. I can't serve if someone asks for a soul mate. If they ask about promos and how customary here it is okay. No problem" replied Aini.

"Mbak Aini actually I have long wanted to confide in mbak. But I'm still not sure. Sometimes I just want to break up" said Ratna frankly with Aini.

"Come on.... Curious about what? Don't tell me about the Pakistani guy? Don't let there be a bustle mbak Ratna!" aini was suspicious.

"I'm married to a Pakistani man. She is now pregnant four times. Hopefully this one is okay," replied Ratna expectantly.

" Maa shaa Allah. The fourth child. Mubarakh ho mbak Ratna" said Aini.

Mubarakh ho if we want to congratulate someone. The answer is khair mubarakh.

"Khair mubarakhs. I don't have a baby yet. Three times pregnant two miscarriages and one died while in the womb. May this one be born and come to greatness" replied Ratna expectantly.

"Oh sorry . I misunderstood. I hope this pregnancy is safe until big. I'm sorry I asked what was the problem of pregnancy first?" ask Aini.

"Bak himself knows what Pakistan is like. And when I first lived there, I was always treated unnaturally. Snaps at this tell it. And my husband also does erratic work. It just so happened that after giving birth to my son died in the stomach, I got this job. Now I plan to go home and get pregnant again" replied Ratna at length.

"Oh" answered Aini roundly. Poor thing turns out he's also a custom victim. "But I know my husband. You should know how the word goes?" cecar Aini with a few questions.

"Bak knew the first time when the tour to Singapore. And return to the land. But he was very persistent in chasing me. And I'm also devastated. Finally we got married in Pakistan" Ratna replied reassuring Aini.

"My question is why would I go to Pakistan?" ask Aini like a detective. Finding hidden information on someone.

"The story is long! If you tell me not enough a day. And we took it anyway" replied Ratna witty.

"Well, long for the episode. It will continue until the final chapter. Remember to run so you can get a salary. Hehehe," replied Aini laughing amusedly. It's starting to confuse this guy. I want to tell you not to the point.

"Mr. I already have a candidate in Indonesia. Friends from small. My neighbor in the village. So when he went on tour to Singapore when he came home, it turned out that he was caught wet with a widow. And the villagers, as well as family, and close friends forbid me from meeting him," Ratna said with a deep sigh.

"Trus. how's it going?" ask Aini.

"And then I knew I was in a deep shock. Because our marriage is just a week away. Everything is prepared. Just an invitation not yet. So my husband calls every day, even many times. I'm in a state of severe stress. So I don't care about it. Apparently my family told him to come. Exactly three days since my family told me to come, right there he came. I want to refuse it is impossible. As soon as the story reached Pakistan," replied Ratna at length.

"And now what's the problem?" ask Aini still wants to know.

"Well, when I went to Pakistan, I found out that my husband was an ordinary man. Even my gold I sold to cover my expenses there. My ex's story he's married to the widow. While I was stranded in this barren country. The husband's family treatment was very bad. That's what made me three times pregnant not succeeding in having children" confided Ratna sadly.

"That's lyrical. What about husband? Did he not try anything for your marriage?" ask Aini.

"So I said to split up. What does that mean? I really feel weird with your husband, like reluctant to take responsibility," said Aini.

"Bak I didn't think it either. My husband has been a slacker since he returned home. Even as long as I stay at the in-laws' house. He often blames me. Their language often says //mera beta tumhari wajase barbad hogia// yeah I'm starting to not understand. But I understood for a long time. He said it was because I had his son's life ruined" Ratna said sadly.

"That's perfectly natural. You were blamed. But it is not natural that your husband is stupid. At least he's trying on cake. Don't worry," replied Aini protesting.

"My husband's sister wants to marry his fiancee, that's what makes me want to split up" Ratna said. I'm surprised Aini.

"What??????? Married married????? With her fiance?????

"Yes Ma'am. And I often see the woman talking to her husband. Either on the phone or in person. I was depressed there. Influence on my fetus. I also saw the husband text if it turns out he still loves the woman. This is what makes me strong enough to part," Ratna explained at length.

"Trus did your husband know that you were pregnant," asked Aini suspiciously.

"No. Because I knew I was pregnant when I returned home. I also did not tell my husband. Since I remember the husband going back to his fiancee, I had to how Mommy," Ratna asked Aini sobbing.

"Well, don't cry. I follow her sadly hearing it. But if you want advice, I think you know what is best for you. My question please answer, do you love your husband? Because according to the story you are your ex-fiancee also had an affair," said Aini .

"If I'm honest, I love him. What's more now that I'm pregnant is already the fourth," replied Ratna sadly.

Ratna stopped for a while. Because there are many burdens that want to be lacking. And of course want to win his mind. "Bak I said goodbye first. I want to continue the work is still a mess. Maybe I'll quit my job in this group" Ratna said.

"Why? Do you have any other backup?" ask Aini curiously. Indeed, listen to the salary Ratna not how much. His name is a worker who is very profitable, of course, the boss. The men are not.

"I have duck cattle. Good result. Later while taking care of my son. My parents got divorced and married again. I live in Grandpa's house. The house is a grandfather's legacy. And my parents already have their own home" replied Ratna.

"Trus who's keeping you from giving birth?" ask Aini.

"There are ponakan, who are still smp, high school they also help me take care of my duck. They are orphans" replied Ratna.

"When do we connect again" continued Aini.

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Handsome face sharp nose high athletic body. Who is not tempted by the sharp gaze of the Pakistani man. What else if fellow Muslims and polite.

Pakistani man is royal with family. And have great respect for mom. And take care of his sister. Women to them are an honor.

Abstinence for them tarnishes the honor of another woman. Including neighbors and women in their village. Because the women here are not free either.

"Someone asked why the custom is so upheld." Well the custom is set so that the rules do not change. The manners have not changed.

If you are married to a Pakistani man, of course you will also be appreciated and treated honorably. Well, there is a problem of envy between brother-in-law and brother's wife. Between in-laws and daughters-in-law. They are the same women. Who feel defeated. So it's a natural thing.

Like Aini buying clothes. Yasmin also wanted to. Because Furqan had been pampering Yasmin. Once married Yasmin's nature did not change to Furqan, because in her father-in-law's place she did not get what she got with the family.

Kring........

"Mbak Aini how are you? I've reached Pakistan again" replied Aisha, a friend who used to cry crying also confided in her problem.

"Yes Pardon. When's? How come you're bale again? I remember you will never come back again" replied Aini in surprise.

"How else. I still love my husband Ma'am! And I already have a child. Pity my son if he has to part with his father" replied Aisha.

"Haha. Honestly why mbak. Can't stand that you. His name child over time will be ordinary. It's just you who have a hard time forgetting him" Aini said.

"Mbak is right. I actually can't stand it. And I chose bale again" replied Aisha.

"Yes. But I want to know your reasons for staying. Padhal you're home. And bring the child. How can I go back again. I used to think about Balek. And the in-laws' treatment is also stressful?" tanya Aini at length.

"the reason. My husband is a loyal type. Not smoking. Not playing girls. And must love the child. Rarely do I meet such a simple type of man in my homeland. The most I can't stand the former because I like to play women. I used to have no children. Now with this husband I have a son. Even children are closer to their father. Not afraid to take care of children. Mandiin, ceboin, sleepy ngajak. If the face well clearly lost far the old husband. Hehehe" replied Aisha.

"Ouch.... Yes indeed. Now it is your heart that must be careful. For the sake of your child, you must be strong. And you learn the language here" replied Aini.

"Mother I want to learn the same language here" replied Aisha.

"Pay" answered Aini.

"How much?" ask Aisha.

"You're looking for the least five members. Then I will create a group through watsapp only. A thousand rupees a month. Pay at the beginning of the month. How agreed? If you agree call me later," replied Aini again.