For the Sake of Heart
Third year

It's entering its third year in the middle of nowhere. Well it's exactly this country in the nicknamed the middle of nowhere. Because everything is upside-down and all-round weird magic bin. For example, they know that Aini is a stranger but instead they discriminate. As the oldest child and the oldest son-in-law of course his son became the successor of this family generation. But what happens is their custom which actually makes the attitude and decisions that are taken side by side.

The oldest brother is responsible. All including adek affairs. Well the youngest is not responsible even the youngest or adek others can be preferential treatment. Reasoning custom they do not hesitate to reverse the facts. For example, the brother's wife buys clothes even if the sister is married as a good brother must buy also adeknya. Well if not pout. Then the question that brother does not money while adek who has been married is there a husband what still needs to be customary to give clothes. Well here lies the injustice in the stampede.

"Whose clothes are you wearing?" ask her husband.

"This is Aini's shirt, replied Aini's husband." Seeing that her husband pouted.

"Bhai just for your chant why I'm not bought, mhhh yeah just think of bini just don't want to remember sister," said adeknya.

Hearing that Aini got fed up. Even though just last night his brother-in-law bought a two-stole shirt and two-pair shoes. But as soon as I saw Aini's got still jealous.

And her husband feels guilty for just buying his wife. Today her husband went with her brother-in-law. Aini didn't ask where she was going.

Then after coming home from traveling Aini saw her in-laws carrying branded plastic bags. Well without being clear, Aini knew that it was plastic from a clothing store. He saw his brother-in-law smiling very happily. And look at Aini. Aini doesn't know what it means.

Morning as usual Aini routine work housewives. Preparing the food and getting it sorted out while her sister-in-law was still sleeping. Aini didn't wake him up just let it go.

"Honey the sugar runs out, buy it?" aini said to her husband.

"Fast run out, if the sugar makai frugal lah," answered her husband.

"You're how the hell did we end how many people are here?" answer Aini.

"But I don't have any more money" her husband replied.

"Trus what should I be looking for money," said Aini annoyed.

"It wasn't so last night that I asked for clothes so I forgot to buy," replied the Husband without shame.

"Oh Allah, it's just to buy her clothes you forget our needs" said Aini wonder and disbelief.

"Why are you talking about that? He's my brother he's got the same right as me." Without guilt her husband remained a sister himself.

"Not about rights or adak, you should think about what else she needs you to give clothes on a new thing two days ago her husband bought two services of clothes, and two pairs of shoes, she said, uh now see you buy me a shirt she wants anyway."

"That's why you're so angry."

"Trus why hasn't he left here yet? She's married and why are you still in charge?"

"How many times have I said! My business and my adek you don't interfere with this our custom."

"You're so outrageous that my position is yours that you're holding?"

With a fit of annoyance Aini left. It wasn't just one time his brother-in-law did it. Well, once he got what he wanted his brother-in-law to go to her husband's house.

It's sad that's all the two-child women feel. Since coming here once her husband's family never worshiped her but she was forced to worship them.

This means that what is the right of women they can arbitrarily obey while what is the right according to them according to custom, they do not hesitate to discriminate on the grounds of custom and they are entitled. While if in the family of her husband-in-law she was also treated the same.

It means their customs with each other also menzholimi. Only now Aini blum can speak fluently in this language. Try if he is fluent in their language just answer.

O Allah, it is so hard to live in this land of nowhere. Well more often if his brother-in-law is sick even come here and then all gather. Well mean cost all Aini's husbands. They are happy to have a big brother.

"Bhi I am sick please pick me up," Aini's in-laws told her husband.

"What pain?" ask brother.

"Bhi I have my fever... Bhai's sick." Her crying made Aini's husband unbearable.

"Why do you love who's calling?"

"My grandfather he had a fever" answered her husband.

"Trus why didn't her husband drop her off?"

"I'll pick her up her husband's busy"

"Oh.."

Disappointed that woman left her husband. Well that's how it is. If the pain comes the trouble to come back home. The name of the married man is the responsibility of her husband. Eh mentang mentang no brother even acted. It's getting more troublesome.

"Where's my grandpa going?" ask Aini's husband.

"Where do I know he didn't tell me where to go" replied Aini again.

"Try to find" her husband ordered again.

"Are you still sane he said he was sick but went out, isn't that a sham name?" aini replied annoyed.

"Why are you talking like that."

"I'm speaking the truth, he said he was sick but the road is here and there."

Aini tried to hold back the anger. Not dislike or don't want his brother-in-law to come but he's not a child and he's married. Here taboo women if they like to crawl. Eh if the husband is not what is the reason he is sick to seek treatment.

Actually the attitude of the husband because of the upbringing of popo also he was adobsi by the poponya who lived next door Aini's house. From little popo very pampering her. Imagine having a household still served like a child no matter what popo work does. For example, want to bathe in all available even trussed clothes in masage. Yes dear, but for her after marriage it is not good. That is why she was so married not at home in her husband's house.

Now the same is real because she was distressed by her husband's family customs. He had to do all the homework. While the other brother-in-law relaxed, it was natural that he was stressed. So his impingement he did to Aini.

Aini is not a matter of brother-in-law alone comes in a month can be three or four times. But the problem is Aini also has children will not Aini can help.

"aduuuhhhh popo sick."

"Badness has never been taught manners with your mother". While hitting Aini's son.

"A.duuuuuhhhhh sakiiettt amiiiii, wander Aini's son."

"Hey why did you hit him?"

"Your brash son why don't you teach manners."

"My husband no brash popo told me to go shopping earlier on the road there are children bothering me if I go home, I didn't buy that truss thing the kid came to complain about popo and angry popo angry."

With language that can be understood Aini. He knew his son would not cheat people unless he was disturbed.

How hard Aini is to defend her own child. How much more I want Aini to be able to fluent language here soon. To be able to answer words that like to reverse the facts.

But her husband, who is expected to understand, blames Aini too much about the child.

"Try you told them. If my son was told by someone to disturb our child they should help instead of even participating in the offense," said Aini at that time to her husband.

"You're the one who taught your son, you're his mother. She should have followed your words, "the husband replied again without a care for Aini's anxiety.

"Test your family home your language eh you blame me, I used to be banned from speaking my language now my son just forgot my language while I do not fluent here."

"Who forbid you speak your language" her husband denied.

"You are indeed the same as they like to turn the facts back how often I say to you eh.even you take it lightly," Aini again did not want to lose.

"That used to be the thought now. If you keep in mind it will not change. Understood?"

"Yes you're good to just say it's over then I'm the same child has become a victim," replied Aini increasingly upset.

"Who hit you? Who hit your son?"

"What???? My wonder is that you're clear I'm the same your son in the same evil your family eh instead of conscious."

Today it is painful to see the behavior of her husband-in-law's family and pox and pox like deliberately making Aini more depressed. And that's all if Aini fluent language here just answer to them.

And they, if answered, must be ashamed. Only problem is Aini is very depressed all in her own pendam. Finally his body was thin. He sent a photo to his mother. And his mother immediately cried.

Unexplained even her mother knew that Aini was depressed. But what power is Aini's choice. And Aini still believes that everything will be fine. Even though Aini himself was not sure of his words.

For the sake of his son Aini chose to survive rather than give up on fate. Even so depressed Aini often woke up in the middle of the night. Plus taking care of the baby.

Even the sadness in his nature did not make his tears fall. Never did she cry anything else wailing wail. Eating less, less clothes, but again he is faced with the customs in this country. Actually, custom is not a problem for Aini. But the forced had to customary their kemereka while they were not even a little.

"Here you must understand our customs" said her husband at that time."Here it must follow the custom, only to be able to live well" explained her husband many times.

It's our custom this is our country we have a family while you don't have who you are a stranger. Well often it's talk like that when reported that her husband who has a husband says they just talk normally. In fact, they deliberately made Aini depressed.

Indeed this is their country but the Suratan taqdir who brought Aini here. If she is not the wife of her husband, she also comes to her husband's country. Here actually her woman is locked up. So his mindset is kampung all. Many who do not go to school, even men rarely go to high school.

Among the adek adek her husband is only Anak Aini who was schooled in another standad school there is not even school. Added another daughter. So their thoughts for what to school girls later also work to take care of home.

It is not a matter of taking care of the house how they think is fairly colossal village. And envy each other. More on my brother's family. Until their clothes and food were envious.

Married to their oldest child, they always do. If a younger child is treated otherwise.

Try if parents educate in the same way weight on the same light shoulder in the tote. Their children's lives are not difficult.

This is not even a parent who lures his child the lack of disagreement. Older people are more burdened by old people. Even the old ones have dependents. If anyone's money is no problem. This is already poor and even boasts custom.

"Today we go khatam to my sister's house. Her mother-in-law died" said Aini's husband.

"When did he die?"

"Two days ago."

"What are you carrying? Like a pack of clothes?" ask Aini.

"It's for a gift to my sister. Because he's sad again. We have to give a pair of clothes. You'll give it up."

"What ? So that means he's sad? In-laws dead?" What a custom this is.

Even what her husband should be responsible for eh remains the responsibility of her brother. Naturally after marrying later their children will also treat the same thing .

So the parents who educate are wrong. Well this Aini is what makes him sick. We Indonesians are used to being independent even once married parents have no more dependents to daughters. What else is his brother. Then their husbands have no shame.

Already in love with household goods once there is a problem still bothering his brother. Can't solve problems on your own. Naturally their custom with anyone stabbing each other. For reasons custom made.

There is also a brother who does not care about his sister being bullied by his family. But he is independent not spoiled.

"Our neighbor even his brother does not care about his sister" Aini told her husband at the time.

"Who?" ask Aini's husband.

"The one who lives behind our house. But he is independent. His son even has a job. Two of his daughters are mute. Married, a normal life. This is your sister too spoiled," replied Aini.