FRIEND BUT MARRIED
part3
If it is brutal automatically can be wrong association. Then they started to look at the one called Cigarette. Initially only once suction, long – long so many times. After smoking, they started trying drugs. Waduw, it's getting messy…
First just a little, over time the dose is increasing. Not to mention the booze. If so, who is to blame ? Parents are not to blame completely but the child is also not to blame 100%. The mistake of parents is that they are too busy with their problems until they forget that they have a child that must be considered. Then sometimes they also assume that children do not need to know their problems. Though at least they must explain about their problems to the child so as not to misunderstand. Then for the child, let's think logically and not nyleneh.
Sometimes we think that we are the cause of our parents' divorce. But there are a lot of things we don't know about adult problems. Why don't we think about bringing them together in a fun way. Yet if we have tried to unite them but to no avail, what can we do ? Sometimes parents decide to divorce because they feel they do not fit anymore, then they find people who understand them better and they decide to live together. We as children can only understand them. As long as they are still communicating with each other well, it will definitely be fine in the future. Maybe we feel not ready to accept reality, but that does not mean we have to be forever slumped in that problem, right. We can look for – positive things that can build our spirit back. Like following the exkul in school, developing our hobbies and talents, and many more things that can be done.Remember one thing that everything will not end just because of divorce.
Being an adult figure that many people expect is difficult.being a child is also an option, being the best it is the desire of us all. The question becomes whether it is appropriate for children who are in a situation outside the grasp of a pair of parents "broken home"My habit of writing this is not to complain but the desire to run a hobby and published that I am one of the millions of broken home children in the earth nature of Allah SWT. Too many insult us, issuing words of wisdom is said to be only a mode and alibi alone to impress wise in front of everyone. this is to motivate all of us specifically for those of you who often judge people without reflecting. "Broken Home" is not the beginning of failure to destroy the future of children, many are stressed, frustrated to "sorry before" Crazy due to the treatment of parents who do not think about the Victims and the events in the future.Many vent to Drugs and Free association. "Broken home" is not the bleak beginning of the future, for those of you who are victims like me, "divorce" in the household is not illegal but still not liked by Allah swt for Muslims. We are born without being asked, we know nothing about the world that has existed for a long time.
A thing that does not normally happen, will obviously cause negative impacts that can not be avoided anymore. Broken home is also so, it certainly has a negative influence on the growth and completion of the task of adolescence.
Adolescence is a time when a person is experiencing a critical moment, so that he is able to step into adulthood, thus teenagers are in transition. During the transition period, teenagers are looking for their identity. In the process of searching for himself, the teenager must have a supervisor or guide so that he is able to move forward well, to follow the process of higher development. Therefore, in the process of adolescent development that is difficult and confusing times, teenagers need understanding and help from loved ones and close to them, especially parents or family.
Broken home, is one of the triggers of children to do negative things, because as mentioned above that the child who lives in a family that only has a mother or father or child who lives in prolonged parental quarrels, the, will not get a good example or good guidance in his life