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She can feel some differences between being a wife of a state servant and a wife of a civilian in the context of responsibilities other than taking care of the household and the experience gained. He felt the experience of being a wife of a state servant was much more in life, culture, organization, to connect with the surrounding community because the wife of the state servant must maintain good name and family status, maintain ethics to how to dress, accompany the husband wherever he is on duty and must live in several different areas of customs and culture. “As the wife of POLRI members there are likes and sorrows, but many likes. Depending on how we live our lives sincerely, serving the duties of wife and mother sincerely as well. In addition I can get valuable memories and life experiences, more varied and more than others who have not experienced this kind of experience. Can hang out with many people, add friends, get to know various cultures, as well as a lot of sisu”, said the mother who hobbies gardening. In his tiredness he had to divide time between organizational activities and taking care of children. He has an important principle that what is assigned by the leadership must be completed, he said, if there is any business with the family or child he remains responsible by asking for permission briefly and then return to his obligations in the office.From the story shared by Ms. Retno, we can feel the bitter and sweet that he felt during his time as a wife of the state servant. He advised the younger generation to use the opportunity at a young age to explore more knowledge and seek experience and do something that is beneficial to others and the country, especially for themselves and others the family. Achievements achieved in youth will be provision in the future, because life when young will be very different if it has entered the family stage. He also hopes that he will always be given health, longevity, can see his children succeed and can still accompany his husband in achieving a good position and career in the police until the time to retire.

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The battalion is a government defense agency that houses the TNI AD. Having a reliable soldier is the ideals of the TNI, so in order to achieve these ideals, the role of the wife as a companion of TNI AD is absolutely necessary. The presence of women as wives in the battalion, then requires women to obey the various rules in it. The three rules that became the focus of this study were the ability of the wife to follow the Family Planning program, follow the Kartika Kartika Kartika Kartika Kirana Persit Organization and follow the husband living in a military dormitory. Using theories and research methods from a female perspective, the study sought to uncover the lives of women in military cultures that adhere to a hierarchical system. This research is descriptive qualitative. The research was conducted at the Batlyon Infantry 403 dormitory in Yogyakarta with a case study on the Persit Organization LIX Branch Infantry Battalion 403. The data collection technique was conducted by in-depth interviews with six informants, observation and documentation of data related to battalion regulations.

403 Yogyakarta Infantry with case study at Persit Organization LIX Branch 403 Infantry Battalion. The data collection technique was conducted by in-depth interviews with six informants, observation and documentation of data related to battalion regulations. Informants chosen are from three social layers of the rank of husband, starting from Officers, Bintara and the lowest is Tammama. The key informant of this research was the wife of an Officer who served as the Mother Commander of the Rifle Company/Mother of the Rifle Company Branch. Data analysis conducted by researchers is using a. Reducing the data, b. Data display, c. Conclusions from the beginning to the end of the study.. The results of this study show that (1) the application of regulations to follow the KB program, the, following the Perit Kartika Chandra Kirana Organization and following the husband living in the dormitory has been well implemented (2) Battalion regulations affect the life of the wife of the soldier, and the, for example, the existence of social coating and the division of domestic roles in households that cannot be separated from the existence of social systems and structures in battalions (3) The consequences are, namely, wives of soldiers are required to accept the change by carrying out the process

The role of a wife of the Indonesian National Army is very important in determining the success of the husband in carrying out duties. The wife is always ready to support her husband. Indirect military life pressures can cause mental or psychological problems in the families of soldiers. This study explores the meaning of the experience of soldiers' wives (TNI-AD) who live in battalions when the husband is serving in conflict-prone areas. Research design uses qualitative methods with an interpretive phenomenology approach. The data collection was conducted with in-depth interviews on 6 participants, namely the wife of the army in accordance with the research criteria. The results of the study were analyzed using IPA (Interpretive Phenomenological Analysis). This study produces 7 themes, namely Gundah hear the husband assigned, understand the assignment of the husband, Feel proud but worried when the husband is on duty, Facing the suffering of his father as a soldier's wife, Difficulty replacing the role of the father in caring for children, and, Obtained security protection from the Battalion, and adapted to difficult conditions. Providing facilities for the fulfillment of psychological or psychiatric needs, which can improve the inner well-being of the wives by providing guidance and motivation on how to strive for a healthy soul

Such is a glimpse of the story about abdinegara.and great responsibility to the state and wife.Disquisition of other countries more entitled to have time of the state servant, under any circumstances must be ready, in any case,sprightly and assertive.even though many task forces died children and wives in the battalion.sadly of course especially for a long time, but that's the fate can not be exchanged or regretted.all will be strong to deal with it while being able to be patient, but that's what destiny can not be exchanged or regretted,only a wife of a country man knows how much it means to be loyal to a spouse, and to have an independent attitude guided by quay, in all matters.

But here I also learned how important the duty of the country, all charged if you are not strong you will not be able to carry it alone.living in the battalion is the dream of women, she said,it's just that the chosen people can settle there.such as the story of sister and lettu ardi whose accidental meeting and lettu also end their relationship with marriage, with marriage,for him married only once in a lifetime.adinda is an orphan whose life is always under pressure from his sister-in-law.setial day he worked and money was taken by his brother-in-law to gamble and get drunk.