Halal Love of the Senior
Laparoscopic

"We have to abort the fetus for the safety of Mother Adelia," said Lita doctor while looking at Adi, Adelia and Ms. Hasna alternately.

"What, Doc? Aborted?" exclaimed Adelia who was surprised to hear the words of doctor Lita.

"Is there no alternative, Doc? Given a booster or other drug to keep our child?" ask Adi who was also no less surprised.

"I'm sorry, I can't, sir. Because it is not in the right place in the uterus, the fetus cannot develop because it does not get enough intake. Especially in the oviduct, it's a very small place. I'm sorry, did Mr Adi ever see when Adelia's mother was in pain?"

"Yes, Doc. On the way here, my wife felt pain. I couldn't bear to see him in such pain."

"Sir Adi, don't have the heart, right? If forced it will get worse the pain, sir. There will be bleeding inside. It could be that the egg ruptured and caused an infection. If too long the bleeding is left, your hemoglobin also becomes low and requires a blood transfusion. It would be very dangerous for Ms. Adelia's life" explained Dr. Lita.

"I know it's very hard for Mr. Adi and Ms. Adelia. Moreover, this pregnancy is very much awaited. However, we can't fight destiny, sir, ma'am. Currently it is best to abort the fetus. Because in addition to the fetus can not survive outside the uterus, it is also dangerous for Bu Adelia," continued Dr. Lita.

Adelia cried in silence after hearing Lita's explanation. Adi who was sitting next to him, tightly grasped his hand. They strengthen each other. Adi also could not hold back his tears. However, he tried to stay strong for the sake of his wife.

"Dok, is this the same as what people say pregnant wine is?" ask Hasna's mother.

"It's very different, ma'am. Pregnant wine or hydatid moles, occur when a fertilized egg that is supposed to grow into a fetus, grows into abnormal cells. The cells then develop into white bubbles filled with fluid that resembles wine in the uterus. If the USG can look like wine," replied Lita.

"If the ectopic pregnancy or KET (read ka e te), the fertilized egg or fetus is not in the uterus, but elsewhere. It could be in the ovaries, oviducts, cervix or abdominal cavity. So, the fetus does not stick to where it should be. When we ultrasound, the uterus is empty, it does not appear to be the fetal pouch," added Dr. Lita.

Hasna's mother is unemployed to hear Lita's doctor's explanation. She also felt shocked and sad when she found out about the condition of her daughter-in-law as well as pity, because Adelia was very fond of children born from her own womb. She was willing to do whatever people suggested in order to get pregnant.

"Dok, is Adel's sister going to be locked up?" ask Hasna's mother again.

Doctor Lita smiled before answering Ms. Hasna's question. "Not caged, ma'am, but through the operation process."

"Operation, Doc?" ask Adi to make sure.

"Yes, Sir. For Ms. Adelia's case, I will perform a laparoscopic procedure (*). Because I see it not so bad. Two days of bleeding" replied Dr. Lita.

"Well-what was it, Doc?" Adi's forehead shriveled.

"Laparoscopy, sir." Doctor Lita smiled at Adi.

"Laparoscopy is how it works, Doc?"

"Later will be made several small incisions in the abdominal wall to insert a device equipped with a camera and light at the end. So, I can see Ms. Adelia's internal organs. I do not dissect the stomach as in a caesarean section. This operation is faster to recover. If there are no problems, the day after the operation can go home," explained Lita.

"Then, will our son also be expelled through there?"

"Yes, Sir. I will check the condition of the uterus, ovaries, and fallopian tubes on the right. If there are cysts, myoma can be cleaned. So, the condition of the reproductive organs is clean to be able to get pregnant again."

"What does that mean I'll only have one fallopian tube, Doc?" ask Adelia.

"I can't be sure, Mom. Because I do not know the condition of the fallopian tube on the left can still be repaired or not. I still do not know where the fetus is at the end, middle or base of the fallopian tube. If it can be repaired, you can still have two fallopian tubes. However, if it has broken and damaged we have to cut and take it," replied Lita doctor.

"That means I can still get pregnant, Doc?" ask Adelia again.

Doctor Lita was silent for a moment. "God willing can do it with God's permission. Even if later it turns out that the right fallopian tube is also problematic, Pak Adi and Bu Adelia can still follow the baby tube program. However, don't be too pessimistic Ms. Adelia. Many who have only one fallopian tube can have many children" explains Dr. Lita.

"When will the operation be planned, Doc?" ask Adi.

"I try it immediately. Most likely tomorrow morning. After this later, Adelia's mother will pass the examination process in preparation for the operation. Because tomorrow the operation is completely sedated, later tonight Adelia's mother has to fast."

"What time does it start, Doc?"

"Later to be told by the nurse when to start fasting yes, sir."

"Good, Doc. Then when should I take care of the administration, Doc?"

"I make the introduction first, after this Mr. Adi can directly take care of the administration."

"Can I get insurance from the office, Doc?"

"Later try to be asked to the administration, sir. Sorry about that I don't really understand" said Dr. Lita.

"All right, Doc."

"Is there anything else you want to ask?" ask doctor Lita.

"How many days does my wife have to stay here, Doc?"

"If everything goes well for only two days, tonight and tomorrow. The day after tomorrow we can go home" explained doctor Lita with a smile.

"There again?"

"It looks like it's already, Doc."

"good. Here's a cover letter to administer it, sir." Doctor Lita submitted the file to Adi.

"While waiting for the administrative process and entering the room, Ms. Adelia can rest in the next room. May be accompanied by mother-in-law. Later while being examined by a nurse yes, Mom," Lita told Adelia.

Adelia nudges. "All right, Doc."

Adi then leaves the doctor's office after saying goodbye to Adelia and her mother. He went to the administration to take care of room reservations and the implementation of checks and operating procedures that must be carried out by Adelia. While waiting for the administrative process, he contacted his mother-in-law, informing her how Adelia was doing. Of course Sarah's mother was surprised to hear the news. He promised to go straight to the hospital after coming home from the office.

Adi also contacted his only puppet sister. He asked to bring a change of clothes for him and Adelia after explaining the circumstances of his wife. All of you will later pick up your mother when you take her clothes. Dita is no less surprised to hear the condition of Adelia. Just this time she heard about the pregnancy outside the womb, all she knew all along was pregnant wine.

Adelia went through various kinds of examinations, such as checking medical history, diseases, allergies, and complaints and symptoms felt. There are also urine tests and blood tests. Adelia also did a chest X-ray and heart record. All the results of the examination will be a reference in determining further actions that need to be taken. In addition, it also determines whether the condition of the body is safe for surgery.

Sarah's mother called Adi after she and her husband arrived at the hospital. He asked where Adelia was. Fortunately, Adelia had a room, so Sarah's mother and Mr. Lukman went straight to their daughter's hospital room.

Sarah's mother immediately hugged her eldest daughter as soon as she entered the hospital room. Adelia cried sobbing in her mother's arms.

"Ma, I lost my future son. I haven't been able to give Mama and Papa a grandchild" Adelia said in tears.

"But, I don't know if I can get pregnant again or not, Ma."

"Sshhh, Ma'am, don't say that. Don't be pessimistic, be optimistic. We cannot go before God's destiny. Now the most important thing is to be healthy again. That's just my mom's wish for me."

"Sir, now focus on health. Don't think about anything else, especially strange. We will always be there to accompany and pray, Ma'am."

Sarah's mother unravels her embrace. She wiped Adelia's tears with her fingers. He smiled at his eldest daughter.

"Mama is very proud of the same, Ma'am, because Mbak is a patient and strong woman. Mama, papa, Mas Adi, Arsen, Ibu Hasna, and everyone loves Ma'am."

"Good thanks, Ma." Adelia returned the smile of the woman who had given birth to her.

"Where's this beautiful papa's son?" Mr. Lukman approached Adelia's bed with a cheerful smile.

Adelia looked at the father. "Papaa." He stretched out his arms, wanting to hug his beloved papa.

Lukman hugged Adelia. They hugged tightly for a while.

"The son of a beautiful and strong father is spoiled now, even though he already has a husband," always Mr. Lukman so that the atmosphere does not return sad.

"Absolutely I can't be spoiled anymore with Papa?" Adelia pursed her lips after breaking their embrace.

"Mad will always be a beautiful and strong little daughter of papa. So it can be spoiled until anytime." Mr. Lukman pulled the tip of Adelia's nose.

"Father of habit," sewed Adelia.

"If you are healthy, we go for a family trip. We haven't had a holiday together in a long time" Lukman said.

"Really, Pa?" asked Adelia who started to look cheerful.

Mr. Lukman is unemployed. "It just so happens that papa yesterday was able to get a family vacation voucher. We can use it."

"Mas Adi, want a vacation?" Adelia suddenly turned to her husband.

"Origin can make Ai happy, I want to" Adi said.

"Yeay, fun. Crowded vacation." Adelia clapped her hands like a child.

"Makanya Mbak fast healthy, so we can get a quick vacation," said Mr. Lukman.

"Ready, Pa." Adelia saluted her papa.

The originally sad atmosphere turned cheerful again. The two large families gathered, except for Mr. Wijaya who could not come because of circumstances. Arsenio arrived shortly after her parents arrived. While Dita, Rendra and Ale until after Magrib.

When they were joking, Adelia suddenly felt pain in her stomach again.

"Mas, sick," Adelia complained to her husband. His stomach had been smeared with eucalyptus oil by the in-laws who took care of him like a child himself.

"I'm elus-elus, let his stomach hurt." Adi started stroking Adelia's stomach.

But not less and less it becomes more painful.

"Udah, Mom. Don't be petted, it hurts."

Adi pulled his hand. "Ai, what do I want to do to relieve the pain?" He looked at his wife worriedly.

"Let me set my breath to the same remembrance. Adi's just here, don't go." Adelia held her husband's hand.

"Yes, Ai. I'm right here. I'm not going anywhere." Adi just looked at his wife without being able to do anything, other than pray that the pain that Adelia felt soon disappeared.

Everyone who was there was worried and pityed Adelia. However, just like Adi, they can only pray for Adelia.

About ten minutes later, the pain in Adelia's stomach was gone. He smiled at everyone with a pale and weak face. He then closed his eyes. Perhaps exhausted by the series of examinations she underwent, Adelia fell asleep.

Tonight, Sarah's mother will be keeping watch with Adi in the hospital. Adi had actually banned her in-laws, but Sarah's mother insisted on continuing to accompany her daughter. As long as Adelia bedrest, she couldn't take care of her and look after her, so this time she wanted to do it. He had applied for a work permit until Adelia was discharged from the hospital.

The nurse told Adelia to start fasting after 10:00 p.m., as the surgery was planned for 08:00 a.m. Tonight, Adelia couldn't sleep well because her stomach hurt a few times.

Early in the morning, after dawn, Adelia was bathed by Sarah's mother after the nurse told her to clean up. After that the infusion began to be installed in his hands. Adelia also changed clothes provided by the hospital. Light blue clothing, which is how to wear like a bathrobe by being turned. However, Adelia wore it with the exposed part laid out at the back.

Adelia was not allowed to wear anything while wearing the patient's clothes for the operation, including a bra and loincloth. All of Adelia's jewelry was also removed. She is also not allowed to wear fragrances and dress up. Totally plain as it is.

Today, Sarah's mother, Adi and Hasna's mother will await Adelia's surgery. Mr. Lukman could not work because there was an important meeting of leaders that had been scheduled before. Arsenio and Dita go to college. While Rendra's at the boutique with Ale. There was no way he would wait in the hospital while carrying Ale. Young children should not be in the hospital too long, because there are many sources of disease there.

Before entering the operating room, Adelia apologized to everyone. He asked for prayers that his operation go smoothly, without any obstacles. He kissed the hands and hugged the three people he loved so much. After saying goodbye, Adelia was taken by a nurse to the operating room.

Entering the operating room, Adelia's chest was fitted with a device to measure her heartbeat. The fingers are also placed on an oximeter. The anesthesiologist then explained back the anesthesia procedure that he was going to do. After the anesthesiologist said she would start sedating him, Adelia read a prayer in her heart. The last thing he remembers is the doctor putting something in his pouch. Then he lost his consciousness.

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Jogja, 031221 01.05

Note :

Laparoscopy or keyhole surgery is a minimally invasive surgical procedure performed by making a small incision in the abdominal wall. Laparoscopy is performed with the help of a thin tube-shaped instrument called a laparoscope. It is equipped with a camera and light at the end.

Laparoscopic procedures are performed for diagnosis or treatment. Through this method, the doctor will be able to see a number of abnormalities, such as infections, cysts, fibroids, and adhesions, inside the abdominal or pelvic organs. In addition, this procedure can also be applied for the purposes of tissue sampling in biopsy examination.

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