Halal Love of the Senior
D-Day
Three days before the wedding, Adelia went home to Mr. Lukman. Just as Dita and Rendra used to be, Adi and Adelia were also pinched before the implementation of the marriage contract. During Adelia's time at her parents' house, Dita and Rendra accompany Adi at her house.
Although feeling homesick, but Adi can hold himself back. He is not like Rendra, who almost every time contact Dita by message or phone. Adi busied himself with work to brush off his longing. He also made a list of the jobs his assistants had to do during his one-week leave.
On Friday morning, Mr. Wijaya and Ms. Hasna arrived at Adi's house. Later in the afternoon asar, they will hold a lecture there. The purpose of the study event is to ask for prayers so that the procession of akad and reception runs smoothly, and pray for the two brides to be able to form a family that is sakinah ma waddah wa rahmah.
Meanwhile at Mr. Lukman's house, in the morning they held a lecture. Then the afternoon was held by the show of Adelia flush. Mr. Lukman and his family want Javanese customs in the procession and wedding reception Adelia and Adi. Even so, Mr. Wijaya does not want a flush event for Adi, so the flush event is only for Adelia only.
The flush ritual aims to clean the bride and groom by birth and mind. In addition to the parents of the bride-to-be, there are several elders who bathe the bride-to-be, including her grandmother. There were seven people bathing. Meaning seven or pitu (in Javanese) means the person who gives help (pitulungan).
The tools and equipment used for the flush procession are provided by the famous makeup artist, who used to also decorate the family of the number one person in the country. The water used in this watering procession comes from 7 clear and clean springs. The water is placed in a pennon (a container used to hold water) that is sprinkled with roses, jasmine and ylang.
Before the flush event began, Adelia did a hunchback on her parents to ask for blessing. After that Adelia was escorted to the flush place. He was sitting on a bench with pandan mats. The first watering from the oldest relatives (old), from the papa and his mother. After the new elders Mr. Lukman and Mother Sarah, then the last of the bridesmaids.
(illustration of the flush event, photo credit as shown in the photo)
After the ceremony, Adelia was taken to the bridal room with papa and her mother to dry the body. Furthermore, Adelia through a procession of scraped (removed) fine hair on the forehead with a special tool. After being bullied Adelia was brought back to the front of the guests to ask for blessing.
Along with the flush procession, there is a dawet selling event. Both of Adelia's parents wore Javanese customary clothing. Mr. Lukman wearing beskap landhing, udheng (blangkon), sideways (batik fabric imitated for subordinates). Sarah's mother wears kebaya, sideways. In this event, Sarah's mother as a seller, while Mr. Lukman helped by covering his wife. The guests then swarmed to buy dawet. Payment equipment to buy dawet in the form of money made from crews (coins made of clay) is round and flat. This procession symbolizes that the sustenance of the two brides will be much like dawet.
The night after the flush held midodareni event. The word midodareni comes from the Javanese language ‘widodari’ which means angel. It is said that tonight, the angels from heaven will come down to earth and visit the residence of the bride-to-be. The angels will give a revelation that can perfect and beautify the bride.
Adi's family came to visit Adelia's house to tighten the friendship rope. They delivered a surrender to Adelia. Tonight Adi wore a kasatrian outfit that is a surjan dress, blangkon, a necklace of cufflinks, and wore a keris when it comes to Adelia's house.
Adelia wore a plain kebaya and was forbidden to wear any jewelry except rings during the application. Adelia is only allowed inside the bridal room and all she can see are sisters and female guests. In fact, Adi was forbidden to see it.
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Adelia woke up before dawn and took a shower. After the Fajr prayer later, he will be directly prepared by the makeup artist. The marriage contract will be held at 09.00 am at the UGM Campus Mosque therefore, at 08.00 am he must be ready.
Adelia wore a knee-length white brocade kebaya designed by Mother Goddess and made in her boutique. Her hair was clad in a white hijab with a long white veil and jasmine ornaments and several other accessories.
(illustration of kebaya and Adelia's makeup at the time of agreement, photo credit as written in the photo)
Adi wears a white beskap designed and made by a partner of Mother Goddess in making wedding clothes. The subordinate cloth that Adi and Adelia wore was equally motiveless.
Before leaving for the marriage contract, Adi diramas and dressed in custom clothes by a team of makeup artists who also went to his house last night.
After Adelia arrived at the location, she was placed in an area that Adi could not see. Shortly afterwards Adi's extended family came to be welcomed by Adelia's extended family. Both parents of the bride and groom wear traditional clothes of the same color and motif. While other close relatives wear uniforms with the same pattern and color.
It should be Orange and Dita who took Adelia out after the marriage contract procession later. But because this morning he felt nauseous and somewhat dizzy, finally Shasha who replaced Dita. Rendra and the others did not allow Dita to move much.
The Emperor and Bara also came. The emperor took two days off to attend his best friend's wedding. He will follow the procession and also the recipe. Actually, he wanted to invite Tirta, but his sister turned out to have another event. Later at the reception, Tirta promised to accompany him so he would not come alone.
At the reception later Bara and her band became homeband. It was a gift for his happy friend and moved on from Restu. He is happy because his two best friends are happy with their respective partners.
After the event was opened, Rendra chanted the holy verse of the Qur'an with a sweet voice. Dita listened to her husband solemnly. Sometimes he rubbed his stomach, inviting his future son to listen to his father read the scriptures. Although every day Rendra never forget to teach in front of his stomach.
A welcome event from both families. Then continued with the marriage sermon by Ustaz Wijayanto. This marriage sermon as a provision and a reminder for the bride-to-be to maintain the integrity of the marriage.
The next event is the procession ijab kabul. After the ruler confirms the data of the bride and groom, parents and witnesses, and dowry, the ruler tells Adi to read Ar-Rahman's letter as dowry at Adelia's request.
Adi took the microphone. He took a deep breath, then started reading Ar-Rahman's letter.
"A'udzubillah himinas syaiton nirojim Bismilbornrahmanirrahim. Ar-ra. 'Allamal-qur`. Khalaqal-insat. 'Allamahul-bayan ... Fa bi`ayyi al`i rabbikuma tukaishiban. Tabarakasmu rabbika izl-jalali wal-ikram."
Adi sighed in relief after finishing reading it. Although he memorized but he still carried a small Qur'an, just in case he forgot.
Lukman sat down in front of Adi. Their hands shake each other.
"Bismilbornrahmanirrahim. Adindra Kusuma bin Wijaya Kusuma."
"I am" replied Adi.
“I received the marriage and marriage of Papa's daughter, Adelia Putri Permana bint Lukman Permana with dowry of Ar-Rahman's letter and the sum of ten million eight hundred thousand rupiah paid in cash.”
"Well," said the witnesses and everyone there. Although this is only a remarriage, but the atmosphere still makes haru. Hasna's mother and Sarah's mother were seen several times rubbing the corner of her eye with a tissue.
"Barakallahu lakuma wa baa raka ‘alaika wa jama’a bainakumaa fii khoir," Ustaz Wijayanto prayer that everyone is familiar with.
(That means: May Allah grant you barokah, and may He bestow barokah upon you, and may He gather you both in good.)
Adelia then walked over to her husband in a pair of orange and Shasha who wore a kebaya in matching colors. Adi rose to greet his wife. Before sitting back down, she helps Adelia to sit down.
Their event was held on the first floor. A place commonly held for prayer of male pilgrims. So anyone who is there can come to witness and pray for the bride and groom.
"You're so pretty, Ai. I miss you like crazy" Adi whispered as they just sat side by side.
Adelia responded with a blushed face and an embarrassed smile without saying anything.
Penghulu then began the process of signing various wedding documents. After signing, the penghulu gave the marriage book to Adi only then Adelia.
Adi then gives his dowry to Adelia. They also put a ring on the right ring finger of their partner. After that, Adelia kissed the back of her husband's hand. Adi then kissed the forehead and then the head of his wife. After that he held his wife's crown while praying.
"Allahumma inni as’aluka min khoirihaa wa khoirimaa jabaltaha ‘alaih. Wa a’udzubika min syarriha wa syarrimaa jabaltaha ‘alaih."
(That is: O God, I ask You for the good of him and the good that You have set upon him. And I take refuge in Thee from his ugliness and the ugliness which Thou hast set upon him)
Adi then invites Adelia to bow down in gratitude. They are grateful to finally be able to get married officially. They are grateful that the blessing problem has passed. They are also grateful to be given health, sustenance and long life. They also pray that their families will be happy and immediately enlivened by the presence of their children.
After the bride and groom made a prostration of gratitude, Ustaz Wijayanto gave marriage advice. Fill in marriage advice about rights and obligations as husband and wife. On this occasion the bride and groom will get advice on what can and should not be done as a married couple.
The next event was sungkeman on both their parents. Adi and Adelia asked for prayers so that they could wade through the household well and biss passed all the household exams. They also asked for prayers to be quickly given godly and godly descendants.
After sungkeman, the event was then closed by the show's readers. Guests are then welcome to congratulate the bride and groom and afterward enjoy the dishes provided on the outside of the mosque.
After congratulating, and praying and taking pictures with the bride, Shasha headed to the buffet.
"Sha, wait for me," called someone who was behind her.
Shasha then stopped her steps and turned around. He smiled when he saw the person calling him.
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Jogja, 070821 00.15
Hi, how are you?
Hope good friends and healthy too. For those who are sick may soon be given a cure and recover as usual.
Today there is a new one, does anyone know what?
Yes, the new "Senior's Halal Love" cover. This morning I got a notification that Noveltoon made a new cover. And, thank God, the cover is in accordance with the theme of the story.
"Are the two people on the cover Adi and Adelia?" Yeah, just think of it. Honestly, I also don't know who they are 😂😂😂
And, because I am the type who does not like visuals, so please visualize their own characters according to the imagination of friends.
Wow, that's the length of the talk. The point is I thank all my friends who have taken the time to read this story from the beginning and also who are willing to marathon in order to catch up with the chapter.
Thank you for all the support in any form. I cannot repay all the kindness of my friends, God willing, there is a God who will repay them.
Okay, that was the bribe. Don't forget to take care of your health, take vitamins, stay away from the crowd. It is better to stay home if there are no immediate interests. Keep your heart and mind happy yes 😉😉😉
Greetings to Friends of Heart 🤗🤗🤗