HELLO SUNSHINE
Hello 175, Point of view
Tonight there is a schedule to watch free tancep screen, facilities from Jaya Resort every Friday Saturday night, but Izza chose to rest in the room because the air is too cold tonight, worried that the allergies recur, so he decided to relax in the room.
Other couples are already enthusiastic to watch, to wear a thick jacket to ward off the cold.
Rama has permission to Izza to get out to see the atmosphere and if you can meet Candra, want to chat casually just get to know each other.
Rama came out of the room wearing a long-sleeved shirt and long pants equipped with flip-flops he bought when he wanted to pray Friday.
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"Mas Rama is alone, what wife?" ask Candra from behind Rama.
Rama turned his body.
"Call Rama Mas . I still seem to be the same as his wife Mas Candra. My wife rests in the room" replied Rama.
"Ohh.. Have you eaten Ram's drink?" ask Candra.
"Already Mas.the concept is very unique, this resort, must learn a lot about me" said Rama.
"My brother who has an idea like this, the history of when he wanted to propose, using a tancep screen continues to be used as a routine agenda in order to have a characteristic" explained Candra.
"The competition is getting tighter in the world of lodging and entertainment business . at a glance I see also there are several resorts here, yes if the natural facilities are definitely the same, then the same, so there must be a plus point that becomes an attraction. Tancep screen is very rarely encountered, so when there must be an interesting thing. I was curious, this is the first time watching the screen tancep" said Rama.
"Yes, for marketing strategy my brother-in-law is quite good, if I am more into engineering because I am a child of civil engineering, so less understanding of economics" said Candra.
"So enter the business of being attracted directly to the dong in-laws huh?" kanda Rama's.
"That's a big deal.more precisely, there's no other choice. So the in-laws have three daughters, everyone does not want to handle the company of his father. The first one has enjoyed this resort, even do not want to return to live in Jakarta, the second can be the husband of a famous pediatrician in Jakarta, Jakarta, so the time is a lot spent to take care of children because her husband often out of town to be a speaker even has a very solid practice schedule, let alone our sister, wong with his wife to meet night doang. Well the youngest is my wife, more comfortable as a housewife, occasionally check her business in some places, have a rental business and computer service on three campuses" said Candra.
"A fun fit, Mas. If I don't want to, there's no choice. Perhaps it is the destiny of the second generation like me to continue the struggle of Papi. You could say we are almost similar, I was forced by Papi to continue the Abrisam Group flag while Mas Candra was combined with in-laws. My first brother is gone, the second is also engrossed in his own business. After all, my brother had a great accident, so it can not be too push to hold the Abrisam Group which requires extra energy and mind" said Rama.
"It's different from children who hold a parent company with a daughter-in-law like me. Although Father-in-law does not distinguish between children and daughters-in-law, it is still different, of course" said Candra.
"Yes depends also yes Mas. instead more delicious actually son-in-law, so more professional. If between the child and the Father, although trying professionally there are still slices of feeling that we can not pat. Sometimes it is difficult to let go of the frills of his son who in every step we also move" replied Rama.
"Agreed, hopefully my son can have other options besides being a businessman like his extended family" hope Candra.
"Difficult Mas. I have experienced from the start of Grandpa continue Papi and now I" said Rama.
"Witness is still young you are Ram.. still twenty-five times yes?" ask Candra.
"Yes... How young is he?" said Rama.
"When marriage is not twenty-five years, huh?" continued Candra.
"Ya Mas. graduated college and returned here after a year of advanced marriage work. Eight months ago, his marriage. If Izza just graduated after marriage, take D3, I ask to continue his lecture but still not. Want to focus first on taking care of my pregnancy program he said" Rama's story.
"I'm sorry, not kepo, usually conglomerates like your family usually marry her even late, this is even earlier. Can't stand it?" ledek Candra's.
For some reason, talking to Rama, Candra felt immediately close like an old friend.
"Everything outside of Mas's plan.The condition that finally made me decide to get married. Not forced, but it feels like the heart has to choose him. There is no harm in knowing a partner after marriage, but it is not desperate yes, a little understanding of his knowledge" replied Rama.
"I also counted young marriage, work there has not been two years of continuing marriage. Honestly, if I had really stuck with my wife. It can't be far. Instead of being attracted by other men, I mending brush first" said Candra.
"The date is short" said Rama.
"Official dating is short, but the mode is quite long .. hehehe" said Rama.
"Eleventh Rama must be mode first? I can't believe it" said Candra.
"I'm a bit difficult to click with women, so it's fitting there is a click yes must be modusin first" answered Rama casually.
"Yes. yeah.. yeah.." said Candra.
Lexa joins in, Boy watches the tancep screen accompanied by his nanny. Boy likes to watch like this because he can while running around and eat dishes that are not usual there. This time the dish is a unique way to cook putu cake, plus there is a voice that has never been heard by Boy. He stood near the cake cart because he was very happy to hear the sound and there was smoke, like an old train.
Lexa brought me a plate of putu cake and some paper plates and spoons. Then put it on the table.
Lexa sits on the sofa next to Candra.
"Was the moon Mba?" ask Rama.
"It's only been seven months" Lexa replied.
"Cape really yes Mba so pregnant women, take the stomach everywhere, activity so limited. I've seen the cape, especially the ones that ngalamin ya" said Rama.
"Dengerin Ram. the result of husband and wife love .. fun ga tuh dengernya" said Candra.
"You younger couples must have a different explosion of love with us. I see Mas Rama is his type of using direct action, different from my husband who is full of rage. But how dare to kiss his wife in the middle of the rich sea was Mas Rama did to Izza" said Lexa.
"Hahaha.nyindir nih story. ojo compared-bandingke" said Candra.
"I do not follow ya Mas. emang I like to show love to the wife, spontaneous without planning, maybe because I do not pinter string the word praise so directly sosor aja.. hahaha" rama said low.
"Ga Ram's problem is important as a husband is his responsibility to the family" continued Candra.
"Here I also see many young couples who are drunk with romance as well. Either they are legal partners or not" Rama said.
"This indeed seems like it is not taboo to make out in public, but we guarantee that the people staying here are legitimate couples, when booking is asked, right? or yesterday when Rama was followed here, Izza must have been confirmed" said Candra.
"Yes" answered Rama.
"Try Mas Rama, can not hear his opinion about marriage at a young age, now it is rife. Enough love capital to decide to live together forever" asked Lexa.
"Love is not easily achieved haphazardly, this is according to my personal experience. The careless one suddenly mentioned that the reason for marriage is to avoid adultery, now the reason is a lot like that. That is, since the beginning it has been nawaitu to blow up the turmoil of desire that is owned when the ijab kabul. We can not close our eyes if in fact what the men initially saw was a beautiful face and charming, a good body and a decent personality. It will be a plus if you have a good social status" explained Rama.
"Well, what about the purpose of marriage to achieve inner peace, love, and affection? Is the young couple mature enough and ready for it all?" continue Lexa.
"Enough or not relative anyway Mba, whose age is mature is also not necessarily ready. So I often give advice to women, do not be upset and drunkenly if you get a terrible crush from men who have not tasted the bitter sweetness of life. Because usually the men do not actually understand what he said, like to rush and act a bit careless. If it is wrong, they will say .. understand the turmoil of young people. The present era is generally highlighted more is the impulse of lust, emotion and hard self-ego. Ideally every couple should prepare for maturity and the ability to be thoughtful. After all, in religion we are advised to forge ourselves and practice sincerely, until in time we are really ready and able. The Prophet himself was actually married at a fairly mature age. He, at his first marriage, with Sayyidah Khadijah was guided. At that time, the age of the Prophet was younger than the age of his wife who was much more mature. That is, both as husband and wife, fill each other, so that life becomes more perfect. In this context, marriage is considered to be a half-religious or religious consummator. The pressing point of the Prophet's life history and his advice on marriage was his psychic maturity, strong positive mentality and superior personality. All three are capital to cultivate wisdom. Wisdom, is the path to mutual understanding, the best communication from heart to heart and ultimately, makes life more balanced, calm and peaceful. Very different from the young people today" continued Rama.
"Knowledge is okay" said Lexa.
Candra nudged Lexa's arm. Lexa just smiled at Candra who looked a little jealous.
"That's why marriage is more than zina, don't you agree?" ask Lexa.
"This is not a matter of agreeing or not yes Mba, actually zina does not know the status of whether someone has been married or not. Zina can happen to those who are married or unmarried. Zina in this case, is more related to the problem of persistence of self-restraint how a person to stop any urge of orgasm. For young people who feel they have readiness, you should first mature the preparation they have. This will create better conditions. There is no need to insist that a hasty marriage is better than adultery. Young marriage is a shield of adultery. When in the next marriage, Rasullullah has a more mature readiness. He has a higher wisdom because he is no longer young, but fit. Therefore, the Prophet was not only a husband to Aisha, but also a wise guide. A more concrete preparation that must be owned by young people is to have maturity of soul, wisdom, have a job that secures financial needs and will be a plus if it has a shelter (home). Thank goodness if you have a high level of education, so the insight is broad and deep. That way, it will help in establishing household communication. I am sure, the prospective in-laws prefer young people or young women who are mature, well-established and have household knitting readiness. The point is if you have not been able to better fast" explained Rama.
"Mas Rama is suitable if you become a mentor among young people, the exposure is simple but fitting" said Lexa.
"Not until so also Mba. my life experiences are varied, befriended with various social layers and ages, so a little know how the mindset of people out there. Mas Candra is precisely what looks more suitable as a mentor of young people, communication skills are relaxed, if I am still stiff" said Rama.
"As the highest leadership shoots should be able to slightly lemes tikit Ram. don't be too rigid, ga engrossed later the working atmosphere. The important thing is to be assertive and respect the work of others" Candra advises.
"Thank you I be his student Pa guru .. Ma'am teacher.." joked Rama.
"It could be a lowly one." said Lexa.
"Low down to go higher Mba. hahaha." said Rama.
"Who would have thought yes Ms. Rama's young child is more mature than us" said Candra.
"Mature is not judged by the age of Lung. as long as what comes out of him is good we appreciate" said Lexa.
"Sounds there's a call dear yes.. Langurs.. Ms. funny. All this time what I heard was love, love, love, honey" said Rama.
"The call of love that needs to be a lot of Ram. as a distinguishing identity, even more friendly. Rich us nih . I was called Alung. stands for eldest brother, but not firstborn. but at that time my mindset was rich older brother. If Acik is a niggling child, understand he used to be spoiled, his name is also the youngest" explained Candra.
"Unique..if I what about? never thought so. From the beginning my wife called me Brother. until now the same. Finally after marriage yes I call him Ade... very standard huh?" shoot Rama.
"The comfort is Ram. don't have to be unique. If Ade's sister is already friendly why should look for a new call again" Candra opinion.
"That means a stiff partner yes, Izza seems to be also slab-only" said Lexa.
"The experience of his life that makes him unable to indulge, so his looks are rather stiff. But if it is comfortable, you can make melting. Are every woman like that, Mba? we have to go fishing first, hehehe" said Rama.
"Where's Lung?" ask Lexa.
"Well even nanya .. This is the context of talking about women, later if Alung is responsible from a male point of view even different perceptions" replied Candra.
"The bottom line is that women really need to be considered, pampered and given trust. Believe me deh. if the men have given it all. surely will be auto-clepek deh" said Lexa.
"Ohhh..so enough attention, pampered and trust. So Mas Candra, our savings are safe, salaries can also be intact plus benefits can make having fun by themselves. women do not need it. hahaha" joked Rama.
"Akurr Broooo" said Candra while tossing hands with Rama.
Lexa bengong for giving the wrong answer to two men whose IQ is above average.