Owner of Beautiful Eyes
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"thinking is the hope of accepting a better situation "maybe this is a strand of Candy's inner acceptance to live life.

At Daddy's House

This afternoon Candy ga everywhere just sit back in front of the TV, Mas Dimas and Rahma there is a need to go outside.

The father who came from the kitchen brought snacks to accompany watching TV.

"Dad...Can..can ask for the time "Candy hugged Daddy's hand spoiled.

Dad only replied with a nod of his head.

Candy told me from the beginning to meet with Rendra until now and wanted to propose her directly to her father.

"By Dad..kasih enter ..Beautiful" Dad steady eyes beautiful Candy.

Candy just smiled indicating she agreed to what her father said.

"the good man, not wanting to play the feelings of the person he loves, he will dare to do something to go to halal because as a proof of his seriousness both in front of his parents and in front of his god.

"But...Can..fear he will play Can, after he has "Candy hugged Dad more.

"Beauty ..has God involved in this?"said Father.

"Had.."Dad rubbed Candy.

"What a beauty feels" Dad faced Candy.

"It feels good to be with him, there's a shadow of his smile, but...Candy used to be alone when not with him" Candy replied casually.

"The sense of comfort that already represents that Beautiful.sure will be with her, About the sense of love as time goes along together will exist and grow, see Mas Mu same Mba Rahma, that's the real picture" Dad explained to make Ga afraid to step up.

"Can.later the same father "Candy more tightly hold the hand of his father.

"Father will be sad if Beautiful is still alone at an age that is enough for a family "Dad explained.

"dad...would he be like Daddy loving Mom?"Candy wishes Rendra was like her father.

"Everyone has their own picture of love, so we can't equate it, 'Beauty" Dad explained.

"Why Dad forbid dating, because the language of love is not for conversation, but more than the language of love" Ayah explained.

"Touch, tenderness, attention, smiles, jokes, seduction it will all be the value of worship in halal status" Dad made Candy understand.

"Let him see Dad, the sooner the better, Dad doesn't want Daddy's son just in the game "say Dad firmly.

"Beauty.ga try to fear marriage is worship, in will many rewards, tranquility and comfort of life, eliminate your fears beautiful, rest assured your partner mirror yourself "Dad understand inner Candy.

"May you share your experience in your marriage" Dad told Candy.

**♡♡**In marriage there will be phases - phases that each couple will not equal♡♡

★ Phase recognize partner ★***

In this phase be yourself tampa must be perfect, for example, Beautiful couples like to put the original items, leave once twice to three times, let once, next action is reminded to put in place when there is no change give an example tampa complain with no limit when he will change.

★Phase understand ★

our partner has shortcomings as well, for example, Beautiful wants to convey something that will cause her to be angry, do not let us convey it when our partner just returned home or the emotional condition is no longer comfortable. the solution let him take a shower or rest first if you just come home from work, if the emotions are no longer in the mood let the emotions stabilize first, then, so the problems that we convey to our partner are realized without causing new problems and there is always a way out of each problem, because we try to understand the couple in all conditions.

★Fase trust ★

our partner does not have us alone, when at home can be called our own, but outside the house he still belongs to his family and belongs to his co-workers. Let give him the freedom to interact with the outside world Give trust, our partner will be the same to give trust as well.Jealousness may be a sign but do not be blind.

★ Phase forgive ★

pairs we are not always right beings, there will be mistakes both small, big, and in the same age or not, realized or uncertain in this phase all must have been experienced, he said, all new couples or old couples, what is the solution of this phase of learning to forgive, maybe when new to forgive it there is a wound left but there is another side that will be healing the wound.

★Phase to learn ★

Learning does not mean that the school alone in pairs also has a lot to learn, want problems from us and our partners, or learn from the problems of other couples.Our partner makes mistakes and we do not like the mistakes made by our partner, he said, when the mistake has been corrected or we have forgiven him we learn from the problem not to do the mistake that has been done our partner.

"There are actually many other Phases of Beauty going through it only in large part, which I emphasize Accept Your Spouse as it is with all its advantages and disadvantages "Dad hugged Candy with affection.

"Get your husband's good name and honor, because he is from your soulmate, I would be even more proud if my daughter was the best wife in the eyes of her husband and family " I hugged tighter.

~ A successful father not only provides a good education, keep it until reunited with his partner later, educate to be a good wife also find a good husband candidate for him ~

"Well, too heavy is Dad's job" said Candy with eyes starting to water.

"No...Beautiful.only need cooperation..Beautiful and Daddy to keep this trust "Dad smiles.

"Thank you.yah.has become a father who means a lot to Candy "Candy rubbing gently Dad's hand.

Dad just smiled to understand Candy's anxiety that will enter the marriage period unlike girls his age who already know first with whom, whose child, whose friend, family how, what work, what work, even just a joke or what's the name already has what, to know all that is not necessarily his soul mate.Yang more hurt him again as # Person Matchkeeper #

But believe me the introduction of a partner in halal status will be more comfortable and there are no restrictions that prohibit it, even most people will judge the understanding because it is halal process"Maklum newlyweds, understand already halal, kosher, understand it's her right, or understand her husband/wife" it's reality in our society.

Toward becoming halal is not an easy process, readiness, confidence of both partners in priority is not financial which makes the necessity only a few percent of which are supporters, he said, family cooperation is also needed, especially a father who will be his guardian, because not a few fathers refuse a proposal from a man who is only financially armed and armed with confidence will be responsible to his son to live together and accompany him forever.

It seems that happiness can only be measured by the amount of finance that in July asks not how much she is responsible for her happiness as her husband later after she separated from her parents.