Wedding Agreements
121 Eps 121

Rian who gets the gaze of his three best friends can goosebumps kudhuknya fur. He's like a suspect caught in the case of embezzlement of funds only. Like going into an all-out interrogation and then being persecuted.

"Dian!" they said along with a murderous eye.

Rian scrutinized one by one his best friends until he opened his voice.

"Why are you looking at me like that? What does this have to do with me" Rian said. "You need to know she's open my typeku, a super cold sloppy chick like she doesn't deserve to be my escort. If Kevin likes to take it," said Rian in a cute style.

"Elo listen up! If Rian does not have a relationship with Diana, then you must introduce me to him," concluded Kevin pleaded with Ega.

"OK, I'll introduce you tomorrow. I'll invite you to the grave by noon, I'll take my wife let her bring her best friend."

"That's a good idea, let's double date. This will definitely be an exciting event for our friendship" said Rizki.

Rian was silent as to what he was thinking.

"Ga, actually, what are we doing sich?" ask Rizki again.

"Many ask elo, I invite you guys to hang out together to coffee is wrong. Have enjoyed tonight for fun, we also have a long time to gather, mumpung Kevin here."

"Where's elo's wife? Usually can not you separate aja ama bini elo, really strange today? Though elo will meet two days emang ngak kangen want kikku," ledek Kevin.

If kangen yes kangenlah, where else long ngak get ration eh home from outside the city his intention would play how many rounds failed but still help a lot. Friends are also important in the inner Ega.

"In elo's brain there are only perverted thoughts, is there nothing else?" hardik Ega's.

"There are others, when I meet a beautiful soul mate like your partner" said Kevin.

"Pray, surely a mate will come in time," said Ega.

"When it's when I wait to be a weathered bujang," said Kevin.

Among the four of them who are older is Kevin yanv is already 31 different from Rian, Ega, Rizki who are only at odds with the moon.

"Gue ngak said, elo already ngaku himself," ledek Rizki. "It could be elo bird so rusty no longer function," he said again with a laugh.

"Enak aja elo, from nyerocos aja your mouth. Ga, know me ama dong girl, elo many girl friends who santri. I want to get married, ", Kevin said lethargic.

Ega immediately spoke in the style of ustad who was dividing his knowledge at length with his proposition.

The soul mate is one of the secrets of Allah SWT which is a big question for humans. The soul mate is a provision that has been set by Allah SWT written in the Mahfuz and is destined for its causes. The sentence that "mature is not going anywhere" seems to be true. The soul mate becomes a reflection of self and will not be far from who we are today.

الْأَرْوَاحُ جُنُودٌ مُجَنَّدَةٌ فَمَا تَعَارَفَ مِنْهَا ائْتَلَفَ وَمَا تَنَاكَرَ مِنْهَا اخْتَلَفَ

Meaning:

“The spirits are likened to soldiers who are in pairs, who know each other before will unite and who deny each other will quarrel.” (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim)

This is also corroborated by one of the verses in the Qur'an, namely the letter of An Nur verse 26.

اَلْخـَبِيـْثــاَتُ لِلْخَبِيْثـِيْنَ وَ اْلخَبِيْثُــوْنَ لِلْخَبِيْثاَتِ وَ الطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِيْنَ وَ الطَّيِّبُوْنَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ.

Meaning:

“Women who are not good for men who are not good, and men who are not good are for women who are not good anyway. Good women for good men and good men for good women”. (QS. From Nur:26)

As part of the destiny of Allah SWT, the soul mate becomes a decree that has been written even 50,000 years before man was born on earth.

كَتَبَ اللَّهُ مَقَادِيرَ الْخَلاَئِقِ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَخْلُقَ السَّمَوَاتِ وَالأَرْضَ بِخَمْسِينَ أَلْفَ سَنَةٍ

Meaning:

"God records the destiny of every being 50,000 years before the creation of heaven and earth.” (CHR. Muslim)

Advice on choosing a mate according to Rasulullah SWA

A woman or man who is good in his religion

The recommendation to choose a good partner candidate for his religion is recorded in the following hadith.

تنكح المرأة لأربع: لمالها ولحسبها وجمالها ولدينها، فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك

Meaning:

“Women are usually married for four things: because of her property, because of her position, because of her face and because of her religion. So you must choose because of his religion (his Islam), because otherwise you will lose.” (CHR. Bukhari-Muslim)

A loving and fertile woman

The Prophet encouraged to choose a loving and fertile wife candidate.

تزوجوا الودود الولود فاني مكاثر بكم الأمم

Meaning:

“Married a loving and fertile woman! Because I'm proud of how many people I have.” (CHR. An Nasa’I and Abu Dawud)

Knowing both religion and its ethics if someone proposes

عن أبي هريرة قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم : إذا أتاكم من ترضون خلقه و دينه فانكحوه إلا تفعلوا تكن فتنة في الأرض وفساد عريض . رواه الحاكم وقال هذا حديث صحيح الإسناد و لم يخرجاه

Meaning:

The best decoration for a man is a sholihah woman

الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِ الدُّنْيَاالْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَة

“The world is a decoration, and the best decoration of the world is women Sholehah.” (H.R Muslims)

Marry a free woman

مَنْ أَرَادَ أَنْ يَلْقَى اللَّهَ طَاهِرًا مُطَهَّرًا فَلْيَتَزَوَّجْ الْحَرَائِرَ

“Whosoever wills Allah to be holy and sanctified, let him marry a free woman." (CHR. Imam ibn Majah)

Running a sunnah is getting married

من أحب فطرتي فليستن بسنتي ومن سنتي النكاح . رواه أبو يعلى قال حسين سليم أسد : رجاله ثقات

From Ubaid bin Sa’ad, Rasulullah SAW said: “Who likes my talisman he sibunnahku with sunnahku, and including sunnahku is married.”

Do not ask for a woman who has been betrothed by another man

أَنْ يَبِيعَ بَعْضُكُمْ عَلَى بَيْعِ بَعْضٍ وَلَا يَخْطُبَ الرَّجُلُ عَلَى خِطْبَةِ أَخِيهِ حَتَّى يَتْرُكَ الْخَاطِبُ قَبْلَهُ أَوْ يَأْذَنَ لَهُ الْخَاطِبُ

Meaning:

“Sesama mukmin is a brother, so for him it is not lawful to bid for goods that have been bid (bought) by his brother and not halal to ask for women who have been betrothed by his brother, unless his brother has canceled the proposal.” (Al Hadith Bukhari and Muslim History)

The good fortune of a Muslim is to get a woman to pray

مَا اسْتَفَادَ الْمُؤْمِنُ بَعْدَ تَقْوَى اللَّهِ خَيْرًا لَهُ مِنْ زَوْجَةٍ صَالِحَةٍ إِنْ أَمَرَهَا أَطَاعَتْهُ وَإِنْ نَظَرَ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْهُ وَإِنْ أَقْسَمَ عَلَيْهَا أَبَرَّتْهُ وَإِنْ غَابَ عَنْهَا نَصَحَتْهُ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِه

Meaning:

”There is no good fortune for a believer after having feared Allah except to have a wife who is Sholih. Which when told, according and when viewed pleasingly, and when the promise is kept, and when left to go can take care of herself and her husband's property.” (CHR. Ibn Majah)

"This cafe is not a mosque bro, the lecture is endless" said Rizki.

"Let's just say, that's been Ega's trademark. I don't think you know Ega," said Kevin.

The ega that was talked about was just grinning to show a row of white teeth.

Rizki, Rian is busy joking while Ega immediately takes a photo of himself and sends him via whatsapp message for his wife.

He added the writing I am here dear with added emotion love.

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Elsewhere Asha gets a whatsapp message notification from her husband immediately opens her phone with vigor.

Seeing a photo of her husband with a smile Sumigrah immediately reply to his message quickly.

My husband :

Where are you, Mas? 😡😡

My wife :

At the cafe, go

My husband :

Whahuh?

My wife :

Find a new mood

My husband :

Same who? Any girls?

My wife :

Ada😘😘😘

Asha who read the last message of her husband put down her phone in annoyance.

"Sha, why is your face pouting so much?" ask Diana.

"It's okay, let's just watch a new movie," Asha asked and then turned off her phone.

Seriate..