Wedding Agreements
23 Season 2
After sending a message to her son she approached her husband who was sitting busy reading the newspaper.
"Well, what were you talking about?" search Asha to her husband who talked variously to his first son.
"Speak what?! I'm talking business" replied Ega. It was true that he and his best friend were talking about nothing else's business.
"Mama, what did you say to Adelio?" Asha's touch to her husband.
So people are very suspicious, the reward is that his son has hung up his phone before I say a word. Complain Ega.
"Where did he talk to her. Papa received the phone mama had disconnected his phone, already do not suspect so. If you talk to Lio it's also a natural thing," said Asha who did not want to make his wife worried.
"How is it!" ask Asha her forehead creaking. "Papa always scolded him, making Adelio leave the house. Papa was always excessive, not wanting to think about Adelio's feelings," Asha said frankly to her husband who hoped her husband would change his attitude.
"Papa wants our son's life on the right path. It's gonna be our burden, Mah. Later on we are asked to answer for our mistakes that are not able to educate children to be sholeh. Mama also knows how your son lives there free, free association. What's wrong if papa is assertive, straighten his attitude to be better again," Ega erans with an emphasis on the word free.
"In a hadith, the Prophet said: 'You are leaders and you will be asked about your leadership. The man (husband) is the leader in his family and will be asked about his leadership. The wife is the leader in her husband's household and will be asked about his leadership.'(HR. Bukhari juz 1, p. 215)," explained Ega hadith to his wife.
"Teaching children to imitate the Quran is the duty of parents. Hadith of the Prophet SAW narrated by Ali radiyallahu 'anhu, said:
'Teach your children three things: love your prophet, love his family, and read the Quran. For the leaders of the Qur'an are under the auspices of Allah's Throne on a day where there is no shade but His shade, with His prophets and chosen ones. And, both parents who pay attention to the teaching of the Qur’an to their children, both get a great reward'," explained Ega again.
"Mas ...," said Asha in a soft voice. "Adelio is an adult, he also understands which good is bad. Papa has always educated well all this time, not so. Mama explained, My son is not as bad as the gossip on the outside. He is not married now does not mean he is gay, maybe he has not met his soul mate" said Asha.
"Papa did carry out papa's duty, in order to get heaven later. But, papa must remember. Papa must seek his truth before scolding your son, so as not to arise slander which results in division in our family. Now begin to get closer to Adelio, close your ears to others who say negative, not your ears to hear all the explanations from your son" said Asha.