Wedding Agreements
80.The most hated deed of Allah

"Mother, Mas Ega has actually lied to you. He doesn't actually work as an ob. But Mommy promised to help explain this matter to Papa so that he does not get angry, Asha please. Asha could not be far from Mas Ega," said Asha by holding the hand of the Mother.

"Mother promises will help you as long as you are happy."

"Actually Mas Ega is a successful young entrepreneur he is also a psychiatrist and psychologist. Mommy must know about Albram? It all belongs to Mas Ega, my husband, Mother's daughter-in-law. Is your mom angry?" asha said to look at Aira waiting for the mother's answer how she responded when she found out the true identity of her daughter-in-law.

Asha who saw her Mother speechless did not answer her words immediately shook her arms slowly.

"Mother, why silence?! The mother promised to help me" said Asha, who was worried about the anger of her mother. "I love Mas Ega very much, but Mas Ega also loved me very much. Mother do not separate us, Asha please!" renuk Asha with a weakened face.

Aira immediately pinched Asha's arm as she was irritated by her short thoughts. Asha grimaced with the pain of her arm while rubbing to relieve her pain.

"Sorry, it hurts, yes" said Aira. "So Mother is upset with you, it's thought why can think so strange? Mother never in the slightest there is an intention to separate you, Mother wants your children to only marry once and live happily with her partner," explained Aira.

Asha just silently tried to digest her mother's words.

"That means Mother is not angry because Mas Ega has lied to you?"

"What makes you angry, if you lie only that kind of Mother can forgive him. Maybe he did it for some reason, but if he lied with other problems Mother could not necessarily forgive him," explained Aira.

"Mas Ega only hid his identity and nothing else. I've also threatened him, if he still keeps the lie again I'll part with him, I said that I hate being lied to better we live divorced," ketus Asha.

Aira immediately clamped on the forehead of her daughter who had not since when her mind became arrogant even though she was classified as an intelligent child.

"You know what Allah hates most is divorce. Islam does not prohibit divorce. But Allah SWT does not like divorce. Thus, Islam encourages married couples to find another way out. Divorce can also be used as the last way to solve problems. In Al-Baqarah verse 227 it says, 'And if they are determined to divorce, then surely, Allah is All-Hearing, All-Knowing'. Mother hope you do not get a divorce," said Aira.

"Listen carefully to this. In fact, the wife may sue the husband for divorce. However, there must be a clear reason first. If there is no clear reason, then suing for divorce is illegal for the wife. As mentioned in the following hadith of Rasulullah SAW: “Whoever is a woman who asks (demands) divorce to her husband without a justified reason then forbidden the smell of heaven on the woman.” (CHR. Abu Dawud, Al-Tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah. Shahih Shaykh Al-Albani in Shahih Abi Dawud). Do you still want to leave your husband just for trivial reasons?" asked Aira looking at Asha.

"No, I'm just trying to threaten him not to lie to me anymore."

"Darling, you should be able to solve problems in your household wisely, not just because you are trivial with young words separate. Marriage is not only the fulfillment of physical needs, but worship,” said Aira.

Aira who saw her daughter sleeping on her lap immediately took advantage of her time to give a little understanding about marriage, she immediately rubbed the shoots of Asha's hair.

"Darling, can Mother tell a little story," Aira's permission.

"May Mother, Asha also long did not hear the story of Mother," kekeh Asha while playing the hijab sya'i worn by Aira.

Aira who had obtained the approval of her daughter immediately shared the experience she got.

"Honey, a marriage is the gate of the formation of a family. The family is a divine system, a guide to the prophet and human morality. Marriage is the essence of God as well as the beginning of a test of human life when paired with his soul mate. Starting from life shortly after the kabul pledge, the husband or wife will begin to be tested with his partner and the family of the couple. Attitude and adaptability to the behavior and satisfaction of couples in the early years of marriage will be the starting point of a married couple in living their domestic life. Not a few households are shaken in the early years of marriage because it is caused by the adaptability of a husband or wife who is less capable."

"Even small problems can make a household like a tempest. Living in a household seems to be narrow and heart burning. So too at the next stage of household life. The stage when the wife is pregnant, giving birth and breastfeeding, of course, it will bring a huge change for married couples, and so on until it comes to the stage of overcoming the loss of a partner or adapting to aging. The Promise of Allah in the Qur'an of Al Baqarah verse 155, “And I will certainly give you a trial, with a little fear, hunger, lack of wealth, soul and fruit. And give glad tidings to those who are patient.” So, the test in the household is an inevitability," said Aira.

"As well as some types of exams that can hit the household there are many things from mild to severe one day you will definitely experience it.

A test that hits the household is not something to be avoided or ignored. The test of life is one of God's ways of improving the position or position of a servant by His side. So, face and complete these tests until he deserves to be in the closest position to God. The rules of the test of God as in His words in the letter Al Baqarah verse 286, “Allah will not burden (test) a person but in accordance with the limits of his ability.”

Asha only heard every word after word that came out from her lips to digest the insertion into her memory.

Asha immediately confirmed the position until now he sat beside the mother.

"Mother out yuk! Let's see what Papa and Mas Ega are doing? Please help us yes" please Asha.

"Don't worry! Mommy will talk to your dad! You just take it easy, believe in Mother."

When Aira and Asha entered the living room to see the tension on the faces of two men who faced each other with glaring eyes it also made the mood of Asha more anxious and felt the atmosphere getting hotter like an aura of anger enveloped the two equally powerful men in his territory.

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