Special Maid For Om Duda
Friends Flavors Sodara
This is my first dinner with my new family.
"Have you told your family Lyd that anyone is ready to marry you?" ask Sony, my papih-in-law.
I raised my face, and retorted with a faint head-belt. "I haven't been able to tell you yet, maybe tomorrow. I'm afraid that this is all uncertain, but since the results of our meeting tonight went well, I will immediately tell Mr. Mas Aarav's good intentions" I replied politely.
My heart is still pumping blood very hard. This was an unprecedented moment in my life, eating with my future in-laws and husband, and what made me tense was that I was alone like a lost traveler.
"Well, it must be as soon as possible so that we can also prepare for your marriage, remember another month of fasting and fasting before your fasting is legal husband and wife so that the mind of parents is calm," reply to my papih-in-law candidate again.
Deg!! I gasped in shock, it was true what my future-in-law said, soon fasting, and usually if fasting, it was a sign that this good intention must be synchronized.
"The betul is Lyd, tell your father if you can marry you and our child if you can before fasting so you can worship together later" added Mamih Misel. I replied again with a nod. While Aarav my future husband has been quieter since, I don't know he might be the same gerogi as me.
After eating with us, we talked together, especially with our marriage. "Would your marriage be celebrated or not?" mamih Misel asked, and I hurriedly shook my head.
"I'm not comfortable Pih, Mih, Mas," I replied honestly I also told the condition of me who had failed to marry and also my future husband was actually married to my own sister, which is my husband, not even my age is not young anymore it feels embarrassed when many pairs of eyes watch us together in the guarantee.
"But it's not shame because your future husband is a widower, right?" chirps Aarav who makes the atmosphere instantly quiet.
"For God's sake it's not a problem. I'd rather marry a widower, but by no means do I belong to anyone than I marry a virgin, but there is still an unfinished relationship with someone else," obviously I was speaking with a fairly cautious tone.
I'm afraid of offending because it's a sensitive subject. I wanted to leave with honesty and trust so that we already knew each other, and were more open.
Tonight Aarav and I slept in Mamih Misel's house, it was all because the rain from the afternoon did not stop. And as usual I prefer to rest in the maid's room with my three professional friends, even though I've been asked to rest in Amora's room, my future sister-in-law is currently living abroad.
Before I rest, my friends and I tell each other, especially with the love of marriage. Well, they are people who have been married and fared less well so as to force them to keep working in Jakarta, or even the same with Bi Latri, a widow without children.
I learned a lot from their experience, so as not to happen in my family problems later. It's nice to have friends I just met, but it's very nice, and never to be so down as to drop. They are not examples of sodara can be more attentive than my own brother.