The Best Trio Characters
Chapter 22 third character: The World of Asa.

Do you know the difference between possessive and protective?

According to Gracia Ivonika, M. Psi. Psychologists, the thing that distinguishes possessive and protective is the purpose and level.

"If possessiveness is impressed for the good of others (one party). Different goals with protective, where more ensure safety and comfort based on the agreement of both parties," explained Gracia.

"Occessiveness is oriented to yourself and put forward the ego,” said Gracia.

"Because, possessiveness assumes that he's mine. So, anything that I don't think is good, means it can't be done. Anything that makes me uncomfortable must be avoided" he added.

Protecting is a form of love.

According to him, when in love with others, you will pay attention to how safe it is. You will also try your best to protect the person.

Although good, protective attitude is still not recommended to be done excessively. As mentioned earlier, overprotective can lead to possessiveness.

Right now our two favorite pairs are on the night market, after riding the ring and trying other games, such as catching fish and throwing cans.

Akira sits on the garden bench with Asa.

"about..."

Suddenly Asa's voice broke the silence there.

By the way the girl hugged the Teddy bear doll that Akira got after winning the can throw as a prize.

"Why Asa?Asa want to buy some snacks?"

"Don't smile at others I don't like." Asa said in a cold tone, she looked into those blue eyes full of love and strong possessiveness.

While the sapphire blue young man only opened his eyes tangent, he only smiled at the kitten who was eating on the side of the road.

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What is Bucin and Codependent Relationship?

Codependent relationships are relationships that make you dependent on your partner's approval of all decisions made.

The definition is similar to the signs of a bucin, right? Thus, it can be said that a bucin is usually trapped in a codependent relationship.

However, this interdependent relationship does not only occur in lovers or married people. Codependent relationships can also occur between friends/friends or family members.

Scott Wetzler, a psychologist at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine, says codependent relationships fall into the category of unhealthy relationships. Because one of the people involved has no standing.

The above definition can describe Asa's attitude to Akira.

As of this moment, I suddenly came to Asa's room after asking her aunt for permission.

The boy was still in his sleeping pajamas, and their house was close because of the neighbors so Akira was very happy to go to Asa's house.

"Some, let's go get some food outside!"said Akira seeing Asa who seemed busy working on his script.

Though it's nighttime, but due to a television commercial that broadcasts pizza and spaghetti Akira is interested in buying the food outside.

Hearing the voice of his girlfriend Asa then closed his laptop and looked at Akira who was sitting in his bed.

"OK." In short, then get ready to go with her boyfriend out.

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Love and obsession?

What difference?

Oxford Learner’s Dictionary defines love (love) as feelings of love, affection, and strong attention to someone or something, especially to family or friends.

While obsession (obsession) is a condition where a person's mind continues to be filled by something or people he likes and this is not normal.

Love can be said to come from a pure and deep heart and feelings. In love there is also a willingness to sacrifice, to love, and to pay attention.

Conversely, obsessions stem from feelings that tend to be possessive and uncontrolled. A person who is obsessed with others will continue to think about it almost endlessly, often in inappropriate ways.

From the above definition, it is clear that love is positive while obsession is negative. However, love can also develop into an obsession when it is not controlled.

"You love me, don't you?"asa asked to see Akira eating ice cream and cake, by the way they were both outside the campus and Asa invited Akira to buy lunch at a new store.

Akira just nodded, his cheeks still bloated because it was full of food.

"That's mine..."

"Huh?"

So until here we can conclude that the center of Asa's world is Akira.

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Kampused.

"Why do you like me?I mean, we're kids, but why do you like me?"akira asked curiously as he sat on his stool.

He tangents as well, is it true that when he was a child he was that handsome until Asa liked him or fell in love at first sight?just thinking about it made Akira smile to herself while little Asa chuckled at it.

Her boyfriend is so funny, she thought.

"I like you ah no I like you a lot by." said Asa by pressing the last word.

"That's not Asa's answer, let me ask her why..."

"My only reason is that you are mine Akira!"

Akira tilted his head, why did Asa like to say 'I belong to him anyway?we are indeed dating.'

Yes his name is Akira..

He is insensitive.

"Would I ask for a break up, would you not?"akira said seeing Asa's gaze turn sharp.

"Never say it by, or you'll know the consequences." Asa said flatly.

"I was just kidding.haha..."

Somehow Akira was feeling very nervous and scared right now, Aura Asa turned to wearing nothing as she asked that.

He knew he liked the girl too, but he felt uneasy around Asa and she was okay too.

Asa silently clenched her hands under the table.

She dislikes it when Akira says she will break up with him, even though they have a relationship but Asa is really serious about loving the blue-eyed young man.

And even if Akira is not his girlfriend, he will still want the young man to be by his side.

Always was...

Just thinking...

Just smile at him...

Just kissed....

And his forever.

"Asa..."

"You are mine..stay mine and forever will be.Whatever I want is absolute by you understand?"

Akira nodded.

Asa is creepy now.

Suddenly Asa kissed him rudely made Akira surprised because they were still in the class that there were still some people.

Haru's...

He saw and heard all that.

"God they both really have no veins of shame?Akira I'm sorry yes, I don't want to interfere if it's Asa." murmured Haru hid his head in the folds of his hand on the table.

Ignoring the two friends and the screams from his classmates, honestly he was very sleepy after staying up for menopause with Hana.

His name is Haru.

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