Aksara For Arsyilla
Home Environment Growing Flower

Thanks to the sudden presence of Arshaka, now the new parents can sit in the back seat with Arsyilla holding Baby Ara in her arms. While Arshaka seemed to occasionally see his Big Brother and Sister-in-law from his middle spy.

“Kak, sick not giving birth Kak?” asked Arshaka suddenly.

“Saklah .. only you will not experience it later, Shaka,” reply Arsyilla to his sister.

There was laughter surrounding the entire car. Until Arshaka laughed after hearing the answer given by his brother.

“Ya, especially Kak .. just have to be ready to accompany the wife tomorrow,” reply Arshaka with laughter.

“Emang already has a candidate?” ask Aksara suddenly.

Arshaka quickly shook his head, “Not yet Mas .. nothing sreg in the heart,” said.

“Oh, I think there are candidates who have been wondering about labor,” reply Aksara again.

“Hehehe, it's just the name, Mas .. later it will also go through a time like this. Papa used to tell stories and give advice to be a tough man and always responsible. When I see the wife in pain of childbirth, even though the heart is like Hello Kitty, crying, but must remain as strong as Captain America in front of the wife,” reply Arshaka.

Well, apparently Arshaka has a great sense of humor. Until Arsyilla laughed at the answers and stories from her sister.

“Papa never said that. Where could Papa we say Hello Kitty everything. You are better, Shaka,” said Arsyilla with a grumbling voice.

“Handering, Kak .. only Papa always tell you that Papa always accompanied Mama when she was in labor. Accompanying Mama while giving birth to Brother and me,” reply Arshaka.

“Iya .. true. Papa really Best Daddy in my world,” reply Arsyilla with so pride.

Arsyilla was born and raised in a family that loved her, accepting her existence as a unique and personal child that must be nurtured and taught daily. In addition, the love water tanks of her parents are so abundant that she grows up in a healthy and cooperative family environment.

Until not felt, now they have arrived at the residence of Aksara and Arsyilla. Arshaka helps push the suitcase out of the trunk of the car, while Aksara by embracing his wife's waist helps him walk.

“Can climb stairs not Honey?” ask Aksara to his wife.

“Could Kak ... Slowly can,” replied Arsyilla.

However, Aksara seemed to hold his wife. “Sini, Baby Ara same Dad .. wait here first Honey, do not climb the stairs alone,” said Aksara.

Apparently Aksara brought Baby Ara and carried her first. The man laid Baby Ara in the crate. After that Aksara came down again and this time he intended to carry his wife.

“Sini, I just carry ... considering the stitches you received already like a thread blow, must be painful to climb the stairs,” reply Aksara.

Arshaka who stood not far from the two, held back a laugh at the behavior of his Sister-in-law. 

“Superb really Mas .. Definitely Kak Syilla is more in love with Mas,” chapped Arshaka suddenly.

Both of them forgot that there was still Arshaka in their house. However, Aksara casually carried Arsyilla ala bridal style and took his wife slowly to her room on the second floor. After that, Aksara went back down and met Arshaka.

“You drink Shaka?” he offered it to his sister-in-law.

“No, I ordered a taxi online. This Abis I say yes Mas, next time I play again want to play with Ara,” reply Arshaka.

“Not bother Mas ... fellow family do not feel bothered, Mas .. if you need help just say it, Mas. I must help you,” reply Arshaka.

Until not how long the sound of the horn was heard twice in front of the gate of the house of Aksara, so Arshaka also say goodbye to his Sister-in-law.

“Ya already, it's come cab. Pamit ya Mas .. said Sister,” said Arshaka.

“Yes, be careful, Shaka,” replies Aksara while delivering her sister-in-law to the gate.

After Arshaka's return, Aksara climbed the second floor and saw his wife there.

“Rest Honey?” ask Aksara.

“Eh, Brother ... not. Just lying down, tired,” reply Arsyilla.

“If you are tired of rest. I can take care of Baby Ara,” Reply Aksara.

“Yeah, just got Baby Ara for two days, you've become a pro father like this anyway. Incredibly awesome,” reply Arsyilla.

“I'm still learning, Honey ... last night while looking on Youtube it's how to hold a baby and so on. Yeah, even though I'm not an expert, at least I want to be involved in Baby Ara's upbringing. I want to help her grow. Also, make this house as a growing environment for Baby Ara yes Honey,” Aksara said at such length.

“Iya Kak .. Your words look like Mama deh,” said Arsyilla.

Laughter was published on the face of Aksara, “Iya, last night I read the parenting material brought by Mama, it was uploaded on the parenting site right. It's amazing. So I was reminded to be actively involved in Ara's growth and development. Growing and growing children need both parents. Not just one. It's what Mama calls Family University. The child is the student, the parent is the teacher, and the learning process lasts throughout life. I want to apply that,” reply Aksara.

Hearing the words of Aksara, Arsyilla woke up and immediately embraced her husband.

“Makasih Kak .. thanks for filling yourself with this much knowledge. I hope, we can both be the parents that are worth it for Baby Ara,” Arsyilla replied.

His heart was so moved, apparently Aksara had also filled himself with various parenting materials written by Mama herself. It feels like Aksara is happy to have prepared herself thoroughly to become a father.

“Iya Honey .. we make our home as the main growing environment and the first for Baby Ara well,” said Aksara.

The goal is to have this house so that his little daughter grows well and in every stage (milestone) optimal development. With Arsyilla and herself as both parents and primary teachers for Ara, they define every science, experience, value, and norm for Baby Ara.

“Yes Dad, I am so happy to have you as my husband and have Baby Ara as my baby,” Arsyilla replied.

There are three joys that Arsyilla is grateful for now, namely Aksara who stands as her husband, Ara who is her little daughter, and her extended family as part of the support system that is always there and supports her. Really, Arsyilla is so grateful for all of that.

“Sama-sama Honey, now we focus on our little family. Growing love and compassion in this growing environment. Being home as the safest and most peaceful place for Ara. A place where you get love from both parents. A place where he was fully accepted without having to be anyone else. That is the true meaning of home,” replied Aksara.

“Agree Kak .. house where Ara need not be afraid of the world, the house that became Ara is accepted whole and full, as well, get the love and everything she needs to face the world. He need not be afraid, for there is a Father and a Mother who will open her arms to embrace him, teaching him everything he needs in this world. Ah, I am so grateful .. we will start a new chapter in our household life together with Ara. Hopefully, what we discussed together we can do well too,” reply Arsyilla.

That is the meaning of home for a child. A place that is not only safe and comfortable. However, it is also a house where children will be accepted completely and completely, not compared to other children out there. Loved with genuine affection, and equipped with various things that will make it tough to socialize in his world later.

The child is recognized as a person, accepted his shortcomings and advantages, and parents will be a figure who becomes an example and provides provisions to make the child resilience (tough) in the future.