Aksara For Arsyilla
Choose Your Battle!
After Rangga said goodbye to go home, there Aksara and Arsyilla were still standing at the door and waiting until the car driven by Rangga disappeared from his view. Arsyilla slowly, linking her fingers between her husband's fingers. The woman looked at her husband with a smile on her face.
“Your choice is a very appropriate choice today,” said Arsyilla.
Yes, in the eyes of Arsyilla her husband managed to do ‘Choose your battle!’ Choose the right one. The script is confronted with idealism as a brother and as a man. However, on the other hand Aksara was faced with his sister who was apologizing to him. If you just want to do ‘battle’, of course, there will be many things that Aksara contested when Rangga came and apologized. However, Aksara was able to restrain herself and ended up forgiving her sister.
“Hmm, what do you mean Honey?” ask Aksara to his wife.
“To the room first yuk, later I explained,” reply Arsyilla who took her husband's hand.
“Wah, noon taught to the room. Want dong,” reply Aksara with so absurd.
“Ishs, must have thought that was naughty. Inget, I can not be touched, Brother .. Your fast is still long,” reply Arsyilla.
Aksara sighed and then looked at his wife's face, “Yeah, this is Honey's toughest ordeal .. Ramadan fast alone 30 days, if this fast can be up to 40 days,” his reply.
Arsyilla just laughed, and continued to pull the hand of her husband to follow him back into the room. The main reason why Arsyilla took her husband back to the room was because there was Baby Ara who was still sleeping in the room. At least they can chat together while waiting for Baby Ara, so that if the baby wakes up, Arsyilla can hear it and immediately give breast milk for the baby.
“By talking Kak?” ask Arsyilla now to her husband.
“Bby dong ... what to say? Here, chat here with Brother,” Goda Aksara so that Arsyilla also laughed at the babbling from her husband.
“Abang what the hell is Brother? So strange deh,” reply Arsyilla who felt the call of Brother was not suitable for her husband.
“Sini, what would you like to chat .. I will definitely listen to your chat,” Aksara reply sitting in the corner of the sofa with his wife.
Aksara sighed, and then she leaned her back on the back of the sofa. “Yes, I admit that I'm an idealist, maybe like a Bhishma Father. It's just that, what you say is true that families are those who can live together, be with each other, accept their shortcomings. I am in the phase of accepting Rangga's shortcomings. After all, no one is perfect. The same with me that apparently takes a lot of time to understand my own sister,” Aksara story this time.
The same is what the script says that no human being is perfect. Aksara also admitted that it took him a long time to understand his own brother. Even more than four years, Aksara felt unable to understand Rangga with various mistakes made by his sister.
"You've forgiven each other so please continue to have a good relationship. I know, there's still an ice wall separating the two of you. It's just that with the communications built it can melt the ice wall," Arsyilla now told her husband.
Slowly the character nodded his head. In the heart of Aksara also admitted that it is still difficult to get back to familiar with his own sister. The script still takes time. Only, Aksara promised herself that she would try and keep trying.
“I just thought that if I was constantly fighting I would be tired myself anyway, Honey. If it's constantly noisy, yes forever we'll never get along. There are principled things that I hold and that I will not violate. I admit, your act of setting you up one night was actually wrong. I've done the craziest way to get you. However, there is one thing that I firmly hold in my heart that I will not fuck you, and take your crown by force. Even after the wedding, I was waiting for you. As much time as you need I will wait for you because my love wants to get you my way. Do not want to leave a noctah that I will forever regret,” Aksara story in the end to his wife.
Really, the story of this time Aksara makes Arsyilla's heart feel so warm. Her husband held firmly to one thing so principled in his heart, and Arsyilla had already felt and seen for herself how the Aksara, who was willing to wait, was willing to struggle in its own way. The fruit of her struggle and waiting, Arsyilla was willing to open her heart and accept the Scriptures completely.
A smile also appeared on the corner of Arsyilla's lips, “That's because I'm sure ..no one else loves me as much as you,” Arsyilla replied.
Hearing Arsyilla's words, Aksara nodded his head, moved his hand and held his wife's hand.
“Yes, I love you so much, Honey. Merely, I am the Aksara that has filled my heart for many years with your name and yours. If for a dozen hours pass, I can wait, then I will not tarnish my long wait by leaving a dirty trail in our relationship. I want our relationship to be both pure and the relationship that is established occurs naturally,” Aksara reply.
“Iya Kak .. thank you for doing all good for me. I can feel it that you always do the best for me, and I am grateful for all of that,” Arsyilla replied.
Just like a relationship, marriage and husband and wife are faced with choosing which one will agree and live together. The choice of your battle in marriage is natural. Husband and wife will be faced with various realities that are always there every day. At the beginning of the marriage, the couple will be faced with the differences that they make noise. Sparks of fire that could make the two fight even a fight. After having children, couples will be faced with parenting patterns for children, various household needs that increase, and in old age they will also be faced with various realities facing old age.
For everything it is very necessary to wisely make a choice. Accepting the strengths and weaknesses of each other, embracing the extended family by not forgetting our role as children, and being a parent who keeps trying to be a good figure for the child.