Aksara For Arsyilla
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“Kak, how can you be so close to Thania?” arsyilla asked her husband this time.

Indeed it was a question that Arsyilla wanted to ask long ago, but only now did Arsyilla ask Aksara.

“Iya Honey .. how out, first Rangga to Melbourne for college, and Thania from the same small Father and Mother, so yes we can be close. In the past it was even some acquaintance of the Mother who thought I was Daddy Thania,” Aksara story this time to Arsyilla.

Time brought the two close. Especially with the position that Rangga used to study in Melbourne, Australia so it is Aksarah who interacts more with Thania. Not even infrequently, people thought that Thania was the daughter of Aksara.

“Oh, so .. means the same as I used to dong .. I thought you were Single Daddy. You know, when I met you and Thania at the bookstore, Thania called you Daddy,” Arsyilla replied.

“Most people will think like that anyway, Honey. Only now have I truly become a father to Ara. I'll do my best for Ara,” reply Aksara.

It was as if Aksara was so happy to have Ara in her life. Reflecting on the figure of the Father of Bhishma who became a father who was so kind and patient, Aksara also wanted to be the figure of a Father like that for Ara. More than that, Aksara also wants to be close to her heart and emotional with her daughter.

“Daddy’s Daughter,” muttered Arsyilla while laughing.

“Iya, Daddy’s daughter Ara,” Reply Aksara. “Look at you who are close to Papa Radit, I also want to be the figure of a father like this. Yes, I will take every good thing from Father Bhishma and from Papa Radit. A patient, kind, and friendly Bhishma Father. While Papa Radit can be friends with his son. Combining nature and good deeds both,” reply Aksara.

“True Kak .. Bhishma's father was the idol of the Mothers in the Hospital well he said?” ask Arsyilla this time to Aksara.

“Hmm, whose idol Mothers How's Honey?” ask Aksara.

“Said Mama, it used to be Mothers were on ngefans the same Father of Bisma he said The doctor was handsome, friendly, and very patient. Never angry with patients,” Arsyilla story.

“And there is a professional ethic that requires the Doctor to be so, Honey .. There are special courses that teach a Doctor in talking to patients, there is an ethic,” explained Aksara.

Of course Aksara knew, because he had also tried to study Medicine. After feeling uncomfortable, Aksara chose to major in Architectural Engineering.

Just as they talked for a while, discussing their respective families, came Baby Ara's cry. Aksara quickly stood up and immediately held her daughter.

“My Lil daughter ... cry well, Baby Ara want to drink? Da? Want to drink some more breast milk? Cup cup cup, Unfortunately Dad,” said Aksara who seemed to try to calm the baby's cry.

Arsyilla who observes her husband's behavior with Ara laughs, a funny sight, but at the same time Arsyilla likes Aksara who is swift to be a father.

“This Bunda .. Ara wants to drink ASI again,” Aksara said while handing Ara to her Mother's team and getting ASI from the source.

Arsyilla nodded her head, and then started giving ASI to Ara. “Sini .. ten, cry. Small-small, crying very fast anyway,” said Arsyilla.

However, Ara's strong cry immediately subsided when getting the source of her ASI, sucking it, and getting ASI directly.

“Tadi nangisnya very fast, after being able to ASI directly diem ya Honey,” said Aksara while laughing to see his daughter.

“Iya Kak, already got what he wants .. so go directly onem,” said Arsyilla.

Babies feel that soft-spoken, attentive mothers, shady eyes, and strokes are a form of love language they can understand. While Mother will channel her affection by ASI-hi and do her activities with baby.

“If drinking breast milk his face is very shady anyway,” said Aksara who apparently also observed Ara who was so shady and calm sucking ASI.

“Funny yes Kak .. I was very moved every time I gave ASI to Ara. In the past, I could only wipe it on my stomach that was getting moon-poking. Now, I can touch her directly, give ASI to her, and also hum for her. My feelings are very moved,” I am Arsyilla this time.

When you have a baby, it feels full. Things that before we had never done, can now be done for the baby. Although it must be a lot of learning, but Arsyilla really likes to hi and nurture Ara with her own hands.

“Iya Honey. In the past, if I spoke to Ara, it had to sound in your stomach. If you want to kiss, usually kiss your stomach. Now he can speak directly, hold his tiny hand, and kiss it. I love so much Ara,” reply Aksara.

A confession of affection came out of his mouth that he loved Ara very much. The presence of Ara not only complements the life of the Aksara, but also changes its life. Because, indeed the presence of a child will indeed change and complete the lives of both parents. Now, that's what Aksara and Arsyilla feel.

“Ara, that's the source of his ASI pinjem Ara two years only well... until Ara passed S2. After that, return it to Dad again well,” Aksara said so absurdly.

As a result, the Aksara's speech received a pinch on his waist from Arsyilla. So that the man complained while holding his waist.

“Aduh, sick, Honeh,” lamented with still rubbing his waist.

“After, you talk like that. Sebel deh,” reply Arsyilla.

“Hink, Honey .. am I right .. Everything in you is yours. Full rights on my behalf, I just loaned it to Ara alone,” replied.

Oh my God, Arsyilla felt really troubled to hear the absurd words of her husband. Aksara can clearly say that.

“Ishs, before .. anyway now belongs to Ara. Can not be bothered,” reply Arsyilla by squinting both eyes.

“Iya-iya, Honey .. make Ara first. Dad will give up. What the hell is not for this beloved Dad. Let Ara grow healthy and strong, more and more joyous yes dear,” Aksara said by grasping Ara's hand, linking her index finger in her grip.

“Iya Father .. so, do not nakalin Mommy first well,” sahut Arsyilla by imitating the voice of the baby.

Both laughter exploded. It was only the three of them at home, but it felt like there was so much happiness they could bring together. Because happiness is so simple. As simple as we want to share a laugh, we care, we listen. From every small act that finally brings happiness for the sake of happiness in family life.

“Kak, I hope you become a good Dad for Ara. Peace its growth. A child needs not only his mother, but also his father. Our portion in Ara's heart and life is the same, parallel. So, we foster and take care of Ara together well,” said Arsyilla.

Aksara nodded her head, “Iya Honey .. I am also still in the learning stage. There are also a lot of weaknesses and less here and there. It's just, I want to learn. I want to be a good father to Ara, a friend to her. We do it together. Filling his love glass with the water tank of our love so full and abundant. If she had already gained a lot of love and affection inside the house, she would not be looking around out there. Right?” ask Aksara.

“True Dad .. We fill Ara's love glass every day. Ara, Mother's daughter .. listen to Daddy and Mommy well. You grow up to be a great princess, who dares to face what is in front of you. Don't be afraid, don't lose heart. Father and Mother always give our hands for you to hold. The world, sometimes as beautiful as you imagine it to be as an adult. However, believe the affection of Daddy and Mommy is always intact and full for you,” said Arsyilla to her little daughter who still drank the ASI.

Yes, the world is sometimes not as beautiful as children. When they grow up, there are a lot of things that they will face. However, Arsyilla and Aksara want to say that they will always be there and give full and complete affection to Ara.