Aksara For Arsyilla
Filling the Glass of Love
The love water tank is a basic picture of one's emotional fulfillment. In a family there are two main love water tanks, namely the Daddy love water tank and the Mother love water tank. The two main love tanks are the source of children's love tanks. Well, in a household the wife's love tank is filled from the husband and vice versa. Do not leave the love tank empty. Fill your partner's love tank in a proper, full way so they feel happy.
"Know about the love water tank?" asked Arsyilla on the sidelines asI-hi her little daughter.
"Recite the Honey, just forget," replied Aksara.
"That's an illustration, brother. A picture to satisfy one's emotions. The main source of the love tank is Father and Mother," Arsyilla replies.
Aksara also listened to what his wife had just said. Until finally, Aksara also responded to his wife's words.
“I once read in a slideshare owned by Mama deh, Honey,” reply Aksara while remembering again.
The love water tank is probably not something foreign to Aksara. It was even as if this expression was so fixed in his ears. Several times Arsyilla also said about the love water tank to him.
“How to fill the love water tank Honey?” ask Aksara now to his wife.
"By supporting each other, expressing love every day through physical touch, building quality time, giving surprises, and providing compassionate service." Arsyilla answered while looking at her husband's face.
Aksara seemed to sigh, then the man brought his index finger to enter and the grasp of his little daughter who was still drinking the source of his life.
“Being a parent, the preparation is a lot yes Honey ... not just physical, mental, and financial. There are a few things that we have to prepare as well, such as this love water tank,” Aksara reply.
Arsyilla nodded her head, in the form that she strongly agreed with her husband's remark that being a parent requires a lot of preparation.
“So, what do you think, Brother, have our love water tanks both filled up?” arsyilla asked her husband.
Silent characters, of course now he was thinking. Has the water tank of love she had with Arsyilla been fully filled? Finally, Aksara answered his wife's question.
“Hmm, in my opinion .. the water tank of our love is both, fully filled, Honey. If you fill it with physical touch, build quality time, surprise, and provide service based on love. I guess we both have done it together, and will always do it,” replied Aksara.
Not just an answer, but Aksara is sure that all that he has done together with Arsyilla. Everything she did for Arsyilla was based on love, as was Arsyilla who carried out her role as a wife, a companion of heart also based on love.
Arsyilla nodded her head slowly, “Iya sih Kak .. We have and will continue to do it together. If we can, our love water tank is abundant so we can fill Baby Ara's love glass. The glass is empty, and we must fill it with physical touch that is a testament to our nurturing, building quality time with Baby Ara, giving surprises, and our service based on love. From childhood, he learned all these things from his parents. That way, the glass will contain and based on love,” said Arsyilla.
Aksara sees his wife with full attention. On several occasions the two discussed together. Realizing that they are both still equally lay about parenting. Fortunately, they want to take the time to read parenting materials (child care) owned by Mama Khaira.
“Sama Kak .. only sometimes I'm not sure about myself. I was afraid if I could take good care of her, if I could be a good mother to her. Sometimes, such thoughts come to my mind. However, I am sure that by both learning and wanting to try it can definitely,” said Arsyilla.
“True Honey .. we definitely can. Yes, although the practice will not be perfect, it does not matter. The important thing is that we have tried our maximum,” reply Aksara.
After that, both of them were both silent and now they looked towards Baby Ara who was asleep and still in Arsyilla's team.
“Funny yes Honey .. similar to you when you were a kid. Even you are this small, I have seen you and remembered you,” Aksara said at the time to Arsyilla.
“Ya is not this small Kak .. said Mama, we first met when I was 40 days,” reply Arsyilla.
“Know not Honey, after meeting you first, I do not want to have a sister. I even told Mommy, if it could be her brother, because for me, it's just you. Seeing you I don't think of another little sister,” Aksara story this time to Arsyilla.
A smile rose on Arsyilla's face. The woman was happy, even when she was so small, her husband still remembers her today.
“Serious Brother?” ask Arsyilla.
“Iya .. seriously. For me, the figure of a little sister is just you. Therefore, I try to remember you no matter how. With my confidence in my feelings, I will try to fill her love glass. Father and Mother will both learn to fill the glass of love. One drop after another, until the glass is fully filled, even to the brim,” Aksara reply.
“Amin .. hopefully Baby Ara's love glass can be filled and even full,” said Arsyilla guaranteed hope from her husband.
Arsyilla then reached out her hand and linked her fingers between her husband's fingers.
“I am very fond of Kak, you care about child parenting problems, you also learn many things about parenting,” said Arsyilla this time.
Aksara nodded her head, “Sama-sama Honey .. kan Baby Ara the result of our masterpiece, we make it together, so we take care together, we foster together, we foster together, and fill his love glass together,” he replied.
Hearing Aksara's absurd answer, Arsyilla gave me a punch in her husband's hand. How can Aksara equate the fruit of his love like a work of crafts. Aksara may seem absurd at times, but how Aksara is a man who provides concrete evidence.
“Absurb really .. don't tell me the result of the dong masterpiece. He will come from the union of the two of us, from the affection and from the love of his parents. Furthermore, of course, there is God's decree that applies in it, so we are both believed to be parents to Baby Ara,” said Arsyilla seriously.
Aksara laughs, he is a figure who likes to joke, while Arsyilla is a serious figure. Both are different individuals, but this is clear evidence that differences are not a big problem. Differences are beautiful things and must be knitted together so that they can fill each other's love water tank and meet the glass of love water belonging to his little daughter.