Aksara For Arsyilla
Marriage is Not a Collapsed World
After a few days passed, apparently Ravendra actually visited Jaya Corp, and the place he went to now was Aksara's office. However, visiting as a guest at the company pioneered by his own Opanya namely Opa Jaya Wardhana, Ravendra was really amazed by the Jaya Corps that stood for decades. Being one of the leading reconstruction companies in the whole country.
Ravendra meets the receptionist, and says that she wants to meet with Aksara. Ravendra is welcome to wait, and Aksara himself will come down and meet him. Ravendra was waiting in the Lobby, a few minutes passed, after ten minutes Aksara came down and patted the young man on the shoulder.
“Hey, been a long time?” ask Aksara.
“Lumayan, ten minutes. Busy well?” ask Ravendra to Aksara.
Seen Aksara nods his head faintly, “Lumayan, there are several jobs so a photographer,” reply.
“So, I'm not disturbing? Want a little chat,” reply Ravendra.
“Neg. Just relax. The important thing is not to disturb the time in the afternoon. You have to go home, already heavy same wife and baby,” replied Aksara.
Hearing Aksara's reply, Ravendra laughed. “Lo love dead well same Arsyilla?” tanyakanya.
Before replying, Aksara turned to the right and to the left. “It seems to be chatting at the Coffee Shop in front of the company aja deh,” said Aksara.
“Ya already, can,” reply Ravendra.
Aksara and Ravendra also walked to the Coffee Shop which stood in front of the Jaya Corps. “Order, I pay,” says Aksara.
“Gue payin lo also no problem,” reply Ravendra.
“Got to refuse. Just pesen,” sahut Aksara this time.
Until both of them ordered Es Americano. The two chatted casually in the company of Es Americano.
“Yes, I admit with me the same dead love my wife. From my small already dear Syilla,” I Aksara honestly.
Maybe Ravendra didn't know and thought he took Arsyilla from Ravendra first. However, Aksara has actually seen and known Arsyilla even since Arsyilla was a baby. A bit of Aksara also tells of his childhood with Ravendra.
“Indeed never fall in love with another girl?” ask Ravendra this time to Aksara.
“Never,” reply Aksara this time with confidence.
“Now it's your turn. Why did you come here?” ask Aksara. Because, Aksara is very sure Ravendra met him to talk about a purpose.
Turns out Ravendra was silent, the man pulled the cup containing his Americano, stirred with his pipette, then stopped the worthless activity.
“Gue wants marriage, only I'm afraid of marriage. In my mind marriage is a crumbling and chaotic world. Because, you ask yourself .. I grew up without a father figure. Full custody to Mama, and besides that my family portrait is far from harmonious,” said Ravendra.
Finally Ravendra can tell a story, as if confiding with Aksara. Honestly Ravendra admitted that he wanted to get married, his age has come. Economically, he is also mature. However, the shadow of the failure of the Mama Sandra and Papa Darren household formed its own perception in Ravendra's mind that marriage is a crumbling and chaotic world.
“Wedding is not that scary. Every home has its own story. My household, the household of Father and Mother, even the household of Mama and Papa-in-law. Everyone has their own story. Sad and happy, bitter and sweet everything goes hand in hand. However, as long as there is a sense of understanding, acceptance from husband and wife, there is a sense of acceptance of the shortcomings of the couple, married life is pleasant. Trust me,” said Aksara this time.
“Lo really .. only sometimes there is a fear of its own. Damaged portraits of my family often intimidate me,” I am Ravendra.
“Try the people around you. Sometimes households have a dispute, there can not accept a partner, there is economic distress, there is pressure that each is different. The key is to survive. Because, the household is not just lo play lego and arrange it. However, you have to fight for the building you build until the end of your life. If, we are willing to go through, filling our love's water tank, marriage is not a crumbling, chaotic world. However, marriage is a beautiful world where two people of different backgrounds can live together, uniting their vision and mission, sharing their hopes and stories, and sharing their, and struggling to maintain the household amid the ups and downs that occur,” explained Aksara at length.
Ravendra responded by nodding at the Aksara's words. Really, Ravendra felt that taking Aksara chatting was the right choice. It felt like at another time Ravendra had to invite Aksara to chat again.
“Lo already has a candidate?” tanya Aksara later.
This time Ravendra's face showed a variety of expressions that are difficult to guess by Aksara who occasionally observed his facial water.
“Gue will be betrothed anyway,” I am Ravendra honestly.
Aksara listened well to Ravendra's confession, without sneering at him. If others will assume that arranged marriages are no longer an age in such a sophisticated age. In fact, there are still marriages that occur because of arranged marriages.
“Lo receive it?” ask Aksara.
“Not yet, I still have to think .. because yes it is, I think that marriage is a collapsing world. Back to the problem of Mama and Papa, it feels like I lost faith in a harmonious household,” replied Ravendra this time.
Slowly Aksara nodded her head, “Give her time to think, do not be rash. If you accept it survive to fight for it until the end,” said Aksara.
Because, if it continues to be beset with dark portraits of our own family, it will actually be a frightening shadow. Strive to escape the snare of the past, and realize the harmonious married life of our version, not their version.
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