Aksara For Arsyilla
Mutual Support
"Well Ms. Arsyilla, so far the condition of pregnancy is good. No problems, just dizzy. So, later I will prescribe a blood enhancer for Mom. In addition, the same previous pregnancy yes Ma'am. In early pregnancy, avoid intense husband and wife relationships because prostaglandin hormones released by men can make the fetus dizzy and contraction occurs. So, it's best if it is related to just take it outside" explained Dr. Rinta.
Arsyilla and Aksara both nodded their heads, the message that Doctor Rinta gave her still Arsyilla remembered until now. After all, if she is pregnant, her husband is the patient type, so Arsyilla can undergo pregnancy quite casually.
"The next examination is next month, ma'am," said Dr. Rinta again.
Then the three of them say goodbye. Completing the administration pays the cost of check ups and consultations, as well as queuing up at the pharmacy to take the medication.
"Ara seems almost drowsy, Dad," said Arsyilla.
Aksara also carried her daughter and rubbed her head gently, "Pity of her daughter Father .. Temenin Mommy see the baby's grandpa well," said Aksara.
"Small Ara wants to be Big Brother" replied Arsyilla.
"It's okay Honey .. You're tired of it. After that will not ask for more children," said Aksara in earnest.
"Promise?" ask Arsyilla.
"Promise, just two kids," she replied.
"If it turns out this baby girl again, will not ask for a boy right?" ask Arsyilla.
Usually, the husband will ask the wife. Even giving a special request to get a boy or girl as they want. For this reason, Arsyilla responded to her husband's words.
Aksara then nodded her head, "Promise, don't ask for another baby. Having two girls at home is no problem. Want a girl or a guy no problem" he replied.
"Okay, deal well .. be careful if you ask for more children, I don't want to," said Arsyilla tightly.
"Promise Honey .. two only. We are both big and nurturing together. The kids are old and grown, we are young. Kayak Mama Khaira and Papa Radit who are young even though they are old, and already have grandchildren," replied Aksara.
Apparently Aksara wants like Mama Khaira and Papa Radit. Although half a century old, both are young, still strong and can take care of their grandchildren. Aksara probably wants the same thing.
"Sure, Mama Khaira still looks young. I want it to be like that tomorrow. I am still strong, and have a long time to see my son grow up and have grandchildren" Aksara replied.
After waiting in line at the pharmacy, the three now headed into the car and returned to their home. Moreover, a long time ago, Ara had also looked sleepy, and now Aksara was driving her car towards their house.
When she got home, Ara fell asleep, so Arsyilla carefully put her daughter to sleep. Afterwards, she chose to join her husband seeing glimpses of football matches through their smart television.
"So, it's relieved and ready to go through the pregnancy right?" ask Aksara to his wife.
"Yes, so positive must be ready anyway Brother," he replied.
When he found out he was positive, Arsyilla had decided to prepare. Although many thoughts, and also objected to remembering Ara who was still a child. But Arsyilla was ready. She will fully undergo the pregnancy well, taking care of it completely, until the time comes for delivery later.
"You're great, Honey .. I even knew when a woman weaned her child it would make her chest hurt and swollen, but you didn't complain. You wipe the source of your ASI with warm water. Never complained, even though I was. Don't hold your own. Share with me. Even if I can't do much, I can be a good listener. We will support and strengthen each other" he said.
Aksara said all that because a few days ago, she saw Arsyilla who was secretly wiping her chest with warm water and a small towel. Fully Aksara knows for sure the area of his wife's mother will swell because it stops giving ASI directly to Ara. However, Arsyilla did not share all that with him.
"I don't want to add to your mind, Brother .. You're tired of working, tired of helping me at home too" he replied.
Arsyilla put herself as a wife, that her husband was certainly tired. Working eight hours a day, sometimes at night there are still drawing projects that she has to work on, besides her husband also often helps her to several houses and is directly involved in Ara's upbringing. Given all that, Arsyilla did choose silence and did not share with her husband.
"For you, I don't feel tired, Honey .. I'm glad I could do something for you" she replied in earnest.
Arsyilla also put a smile on her face and then nodded her head faintly, “Udah is fine. It's not swollen. If it is swollen, then I compress using warm water, and then I pump a little and I throw away the ASIP, so not so sick and swollen, Brother,” replied.
"If you need my help just say it, don't feel shy. In our married life, we do it together. Your nature as a woman is only three Honey .. menstruation, childbirth, and breastfeeding. Don't confuse yourself with others. I can count on you. Sharing homework and babysitting Ara, I have no problem," Aksara replies.
Oh my God, hearing what her husband just said made Arsyilla's heart really warm. She is very grateful and lucky to have a husband like Aksara. It felt like God was so good that he gave him a partner who could understand, understand, and not hesitate to offer help to him.
Home is to make and unite differences. Unite the mind, raise your hands and even roll your shoulders to do everything together. By doing everything based on love, and mutual respect and support for each other, surely everything can be lived well.