Test Loyalty
Encouraging Yourself

Dhena opened the back door of the kitchen to remove the garbage that had filled the garbage basket located in the kitchen. His heart was filled when both netraannya catches a cat is cool eating a few pieces of fish that was cooked by him. It turned out that when Dhena was in the bathroom, Bu Aida deliberately threw away all the cooking of her daughter-in-law.

Rinai rain in the morning mingled with the clear drops that came back from every corner of the poor woman's netra. Tears that never dried up flowed down both of his cheeks. The sound of rain gulped down his sobs that began to stumble behind the door. To whom would he be able to share the burden of his life's suffering that he now feels?

The shrill voice of Bu Aida from within shocked Dhena who was still enjoying the bitter taste in her heart all by herself. In a hurry he rubbed his two eyes that were still wet.

Hurry up to the mother-in-law who has called her name several times.

"Why are you doing that from now on? The kitchen is still messed up like this instead of quickly cleaned and machined even left behind. Like my weird same thought of you. It's old too, yeah, it's like a kid in elementary school. Must be appointed one-on-one housework," said Ms. Aida regardless of her daughter-in-law's feelings.

'Liver ... Be patient, ' whispered Dhena stroking his chest. Strengthening his soul in order to remain sane even in these circumstances.

Dhena's memory goes back to the times of a few years ago, when she was a teenager she had a conversation with her two best friends.

"Dhen, if you later have a husband who wants to have no mother so we do not have in-laws what parents complete?" ask Fatma, her best friend.

Fatma herself expressed her hope to get a husband who no longer has a mother. Because he said the figure of the mother-in-law who mostly could not accept the son-in-law and always looking for mistakes became a frightening shadow in his mind. Despite the fact that now Fatma has a very good mother-in-law and accepts her with understanding.

While Dhena who at that time wanted to have a good and sincere mother-in-law was faced with the reality that she had to live because she was given a test through the mother of her own husband.

After completing his task Dhena re-entered the room. While Fathan was not at home because invited by Bu Aida somewhere. Dhena tried to express her feelings by writing down all her heart.

Fitrah Husband Wife

My wife works with the kitchen to prepare breakfast, my husband to wash dirty clothes.

Wife who hangs clothes and does dishes, husband bathes children.

Wife sweeping and ironing clothes, husband mopping the floor.

Isn't that the dream of all married couples? Then why when there is something like that even become a matter of question for the second, third, and umpteenth parties? As if something like that was a disgrace. Because it's not common. So it is considered strange.

Though being a wife as well as concurrently as a mother for her children it takes a fresh body soul. To be able to live his days always happy without burden. Because the mother's figure must be happy. By being guarded by his heart and feelings to stay stable. Do not be made down and crushed by a boneless tongue that seems to have no empathy.

There is a wife busy taking care of children, cooking, nyuci, nyapu, mopping. Eh, the husband casually watching television shows, playing online games, nongkorong with reng-rengan. Under the pretext of it all, right, the duty of the wife. The job of the husband is to earn a living working outside. Fix it! You are not a good husband!

But God is fair. When his wife is a snail macem, paired with an understanding and sprightly husband.

Imagine, if the wife who said the keumbeuy people, let alone be able to install a gas tube hose, lift gallons, actually a broken water pump, let alone be able to install a gas cylinder hose, open the lid of the bottle of mineral water should also ask the husband to be paired with a man who is insensitive and stupid. Ambyar all ....

Plus have a history of allergic sinusitis and rhinitis. Which when in contact with triggers such as dust, smoke, cold weather, and which smells of chemicals directly sneezing does not stop, runny nose, red face makes the body condition carefree and uncomfortable. Qodarullah husband can understand and understand so do not bother too much. Gladly rolled up his sleeves without being asked by his wife.

Jan Salah is a wife who looks strong. Able to juggle his own homework, mangosteen grain to rice mill, climbing coconut trees to make coconut milk (saking mandirinya times) Behind it all there is a depressed wife's heart. He poured all the burdens of his heart out to others. Because when complaining to your own husband is not the way out, even add runyam circumstances.

End depression. Unable to control feelings, so many found cases of mothers killing children. Naudzubillahimindzalik. May we all be kept away from the terrible.

Because it all starts from people around and closest to him who are selfish. There is never any sympathy and respect.

"If the housework must be helped by the husband, the wife can not be rewarded, dong?"

Though the reward will not be reduced by just because the couple took part in easing the duties of the wife. Quite the contrary. Because it is not just a wife's job but a joint task.

But usually things that are considered unusual are always the material of sharp spotlight of people around who feel very true. The key, just throw all toxic comments that harm ourselves by closing our ears tightly.

Because happiness is what we create ourselves, not by obeying what people want.

The deepest happiness of the wife retjeh with the attitude of the husband who is able to glorify the wife, then the wife will reciprocate to respect her partner with a qona'ah attitude of accepting what her man gives. Not demanding gold jewels, magnificent houses, luxury vehicles.

Lessons for all of us. If one day we are given the opportunity to become an in-law, brother-in-law, or another. We should be able to keep the feelings of people who are just entering our extended family. We should embrace them, raise his heart so as not to feel depressed by the attitude and speech of our boneless tongue.

Ttd.

Makemak has a catfish title

Deliberately Dhena posted her writing this time on the forum where she wrote opinions online to encourage herself and other wives out there who happened to be the same fate as her.