
Joe smiled at Diko's reply.
"Have you tried to talk to your parents if you don't have a candidate yet?" ask Joe.
"Udah, actually my parents have asked me for a year to get married. Only you know, our work this year is really draining of time and mind. I'm not perfect for acquaintances here and there" replied Diko while playing the ballpoint in his hand.
"How will your parents respond after knowing you don't have a candidate?" ask Joe again.
"They wanted me to be a mate" Diko replied honestly.
"Well, there's a solution. How the hell are you!" exclaim Joe excited.
"Stay it can't be that fast, bro, I know he's only been a week. Further communication is belom sempet. Yes, I was sure that he was right for me. I don't want a rich wedding to buy a sack dalem cat" he replied with a little annoyance. He thought because Joe was married and had a wife, so Joe did not understand his current position.
Joe laughed out loud. He shook his head to see his friend.
Diko looked more and more at Joe who laughed as if what he was experiencing now was a joke.
"Diko Diko" said Joe while shaking his head.
"When you think he's not necessarily right for you, should you think you're about right for him? Don't want you to be perfect bro if you yourself are not trying to perfect yourself" Joe said.
Diko felt overwhelmed by Joe's words to her just now. He wanted to be angry, but Joe was right. He also has to improve himself if he wants to get a good woman.
"And how do you want to know how he is if you don't get him to communicate?" ask Joe.
"Gue hasn't been perfect yet" Diko replied accordingly.
"Just try if you consider it a priority, want to be busy must also you spit-up" continued Joe.
"Are you ga sreg, huh? Ga pretty? Not your type?" lick Joe.
Diko fell silent while thinking. He thought Joe had a point. If he did not try to know Riana further, how could he know each other.
"Not that, beautiful and a bonus for me. The important thing is click, connect, keep me comfortable. But it just so happens that I think he's good looking actually if not fierce" he replied full of honesty.
"But the first impression I met him was very fierce, jutek too" he continued.
"Sir, women are many types. The attitude of women to men is determined from your attitude to him. What is your attitude like him? Are you sure you are polite? You sure you're soft?" joe asked again while continuing to open the mind of his dead-end friend.
Once again Diko felt struck by Joe's words. He was still acting jutek to Riana because of prestige and tension after the wrong room scene at that time. It was also his own fault, why his sense of prestige was so great that he was so jutek to Riana, he thought.
"How should I be Joe?" ask hopeless.
"Sik, did you want me to be the same how on campus? I'm like a cat with a mouse, fighting mulu ga no get along. I'm so damn good at it people, really bad. There's no softness. Until I finally realized, my attitude towards him was also the same. I keep trying to be quieter and slower when I talk to him. At first he may be surprised, but really bro, immediately lost ferociously. Until I graduated from college I never fought with him again. After working together, when reunited again, I even became like him. At that time I only realized, if the girl's courage was actually to protect herself, and if she could be nice, she would also be good. Try to fix your attitude to him" said Joe at length.
Diko nodded confirming Joe's words. He was one of the witnesses that Joe and Disa, his wife never get along in the early days of college. But now after the wedding, it's really friendly.
"Now you try to prioritize for good communication with him. If you don't fit and you're not comfortable, you've tried and tried bro" said Joe gave advice.
"Gue's sure your parents must have chosen a good woman for you. They may not choose women. I'm sure!" continued Joe with a fiery.
Diko again nodded confirming Joe's words. He felt confused with the right person. Joe managed to open his mind at this moment.