GHIFARI ~ RADITE ~ GHIBRAN
MITONI
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“Indeed why have such intentions?” adit asked when Dinda said she wanted to make a 7-month review of her second pregnancy this time. Usually MITONI or seven monthly events are only done in the first pregnancy.
“Kan first when pregnant Fari and Iban recitation event was not implemented Mas, especially to make a custom event. Because I knew I was in a coma in the hospital and when I realized I had given birth.” Dinda revealed her reason for wanting to make a custom event mitoni in pregnancy this time.
“I really want to do mitoni event,” said Dinda Her gestational age is now in 5 months. In this pregnancy cravings Adit not as bad as during pregnancy the twins. While Dinda is like the first pregnancy, a hobby of eating.
Office affairs and all sorts of things went smoothly without any obstacles as well as Dinda's personal business affairs.
During her pregnancy Adit forbade Dinda from going shopping abroad directly, so she only shop online that was the order continued to flood. Thank God his efforts are growing very forward.
Puspa also has a large enough income just hold the phone. People think Puspa's work is just playing mobile phone. Didn't know that was the work of the mother of two children.
Puspa also has an official divorce with Rizaldy and Rizaldy's parents do not blame Puspa who is very disappointed because he has been duaed. Rizaldy's parents knew that Puspa was divorced not because Rizaldy had been slumped but because he realized that he had only been doormat by Rizaldy, because Rizaldy was more often foya-foya with other women. The result of his corruption is not the focus for Puspa and the children. Which is for Puspa full of his halal salary.
“Iya we make the event if indeed Mother wants. Is there a ban for Mother to make the event?” adit asked while rubbing his wife's stomach. They have agreed this pregnancy is not known gender. So they are still groping the fetus conceived by Dinda this time a man or woman. But it is certain that there is only one baby. Now after the big one, not two like when Ghibran and Ghifari were in the stomach.
Eddy also did not prohibit if there will be a monthly event complete with dodol dawet and all sorts. Eddy didn't ban it because it was culture. In addition, there will also be a study so that religion and culture continue to run in harmony.
Of course Dinda was happy when her in-laws agreed when she and Adit asked for permission to do the event.
“Do you wish this girl?” ask Eddy.
“I hope so, but Mas Adit wants a Pa. Let's see it later at the time of birth. We are grateful to be given the trust added momongan,” said Dinda with a sweet smile.
“Yesterday when the doctor's control said I was safe menggahirin normal Pa. Because the children are two years old. For those who have a cesarean section it is recommended not to give birth if the baby is not yet 2 years old, because it is worried when straining to give birth can harm the old stitches.”
“I have been able to give birth normally and so far there are no obstacles so I hope to feel the birth normally instead of caesar.”
“Alhamdulillah,” replied Eddy.
Dinda noticed her two children in the back yard, they should not be felt because many workers are putting up tents for the seventh monthly event that will be done tomorrow morning until noon.
Mitoni or seven months is this tradition done to pray for the safety of pregnant women and fetuses in the womb. Cultural diversity in Indonesia makes each region has its own traditions in celebrating the presence of babies in the womb.
One of them is like the tradition done by the Javanese people. Javanese culture indeed instills in the community the principle of golek slamething dhiri (pursuing safety in life and the safety of souls in the afterlife), so that all forms of thanksgiving aim for the safety of self, family and society.
The mitoni event begins with a ritual of kenduri, which is a ritual of gathering with relatives or neighbors to eat and pray according to belief. Dinda and Adit knew there would be a meal together at the sagging ritual, but they could only eat formality. That's why they tried to have the right breakfast first.
Eddy invited environmental conservation businesses to guide the mitoni event. Because you can't use WO or wedding organization, right? The event led the mother organizer who was proficient and understood all the meaning in the event mitoni. The mother sat cross-legged on the alu (passenger ) wood commonly used for pounding rice. It symbolizes the elimination of evil and impending disaster.
Food served in the form of traditional food, even has their own meaning. White red rice pudding symbolizes physical strength, then two coconuts with the famous couple figures of Arjuna and Sumbadra.
The figure of this couple reflects the expectations for parents of the appearance and nature of the baby who will be born in the future. If men are expected to be handsome and polite like Arjuna, then if women will be beautiful and loyal like Sumbadra.
After the ritual of kenduri is completed with the guidance of the mother of the ritual leader, then now will be done sungkeman ritual.
Dinda cried when the show was about to start. She can't sit tight with both her parents and her mother Adit. In this ritual, Dinda as a mother-to-be must greet parents with devotion and politeness. He had to give a silence or ngabekti in front of his parents who only live Eddy a. Because his grandparents and Adit's grandparents were not all there.
“Pa, I apologize for the mistakes that have been made and I ask for Papa's blessing so that I can give birth safely and the baby is healthy yes Pa,” Dinda said when she was silent to Eddy.
Adit also sungkem, apologizing and asking Eddy to give his blessing to his wife.
After sungkeman then the event continued with the ritual flush. Siraman is derived from the word flush which means bath. This sacred bathing ritual is done to purify pregnant women and babies in the womb.
As usual in a matter of Javanese custom Dinda was watered by seven parents, which she took from relatives of mama Ina and also relatives of papa Eddy.
After the event Dinda immediately put on clothes. This show did not change seven times. The driver immediately put Dinda back in custom clothes. Not too long and exhausting.
The event that still exists is the brojolan ritual. In this process, two young coconuts carved with images of Lord Kamajaya and Dewi Ratih have been prepared. Without looking at the coconut, the prospective Papa will choose the coconut and cut it with a knife.
If the coconut splits in half, the guests will say this girl, but if from the coconut comes a shower like coconut milk, then the guests will comment this boy.
And this time Adit turned out to get a baby comment that Dinda was a boy. Whether true or not wrong, it's just a symbol.
The event was followed by the ritual of angrem. In Javanese, angrem means egg hatching. Prospective parents sit on a pile of batik cloth as if sitting on an egg, this symbolizes the birth of a baby who survived at the right time.
Finally arrived at the end of the event, namely Dinda and Adit selling rujak and dawet or cendol. Rujak symbolizes the spirit of life and dawet describes the birth of a smooth and safe baby.
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