GHIFARI ~ RADITE ~ GHIBRAN
THERE IS NO INNER BOND
This morning Santi's first guest was Dinda because Dinda was scheduled to visit the first morning at 10:00. Later at 01.00 there is Ajeng with Shindu of course and at 05.00 there is Wika.
So the schedule that Ajeng set so that everyone visited until the third day Santi returned from the hospital. For the next time at home all are free to come.
“I can not buy anything yes, just this,” said Adit handed the donker blue stroller.
Santi and Ajat have not bought such equipment because they know for sure it will be a lot and eventually wasted if they provide it first.
Yesterday the gift for babies was made a list not about the expensive but the use of it so that no one can be double if for expensive items, for expensive items, because later it will be wasted even Sondang because of confusion buy a baby walker that will be used later when the baby is 7 or 8 months old.
The important thing is not the same as the others and it's actually no one has thought of buying it because baby born does not necessarily need a baby walker.
If the gift of clothes or shoes and cutlery does not need to report the list because it will certainly be used without fear of double-double because it is used daily. The good thing is Velove, he buys pants and diapers a lot because it is definitely used for baby born.
So the gift is not about expensive or cheap but usefulness for the baby.
“Congratulations yes,” said Adit on Ajat.
“Thank you for praying Bang, hopefully we can carry this trust. I just realized I was so wrong all this time. Even since I was pregnant I didn't care about Mischa and Farouq.
“It was due to wife factor. Although the child was born not because of desire, but your wife should also involve you so that there is a love between the child and father since the womb,” said Dinda.
“How will they involve Ajat, if they themselves are not in love with their child? Monica hsmil because forced so that she does not love Mischa since in the stomach is Wiwik was indeed forcing himself pregnant in order to bind Ajat so that he can take his property,” words Santi approved by all including Ajat.
“Betul,” Reply Dinda.
“True Bu. If you do not remember the burden of the mandate is heavy, I feel like I want to be given 10 more children. But because I have to carry the mandate, then I have said the same Ajat, we will only add one more. Either another man or an important woman is enough for us. Because we have to educate them and give them moral education as well as food and all sorts of things. That's what we need to think about. Not only have children.”
“I'm the same as that. If you do not think the mandate it feels like I want to add 10 more,” replied Dinda.
“But we think six, people already think we are crazy when only three pregnancies,” said Dinda.
“And the pregnancy of the youngest triplets is also beyond our predictions. We never even thought we'd add a baby after we had three. Neither of us had ever targeted having to have a baby girl. It turns out that there is a Biyya between Ghazanfar and Ghaylan.
“True Ma, yesterday Santi also said he did not want to target women for the next baby because he was afraid of it like that. We hope disappointed, then hope again continuously unfinished.” said Ajat. Both Santi and Ajat call Dinda still with the call of Mom. Whereas in Adit, Ajat mentions Bang.
“What is important is that we strive for them to be useful and responsible. That's what we have to take. That's what we have to do,” Adit said.
“Even I don't believe I'll ever have children. Since long ago I was crazy about my sister, so once I was tricked that Shalimah was pregnant with my child, of course I was happy. But strangely since she was pregnant I did not want to be involved in her pregnancy at all, I never drove her to check or even wanted to hold her stomach,” Adit said.
“That's how I felt during Mischa and Farouq Bang's pregnancy. I never wanted to know at all,” said Ajat honestly.
Dinda so remember when Adit stunned to hear the heartbeat of the baby when she was first pregnant and when Adit stunned to feel the motion of babu in his stomach when Adit a one-year-old father.
“But during Blue's pregnancy, I was already willing I wanted to fulfill all the wishes when Santi cravings and I knew I even just knew the baby's heartbeat and I was holding her time in the stomach, really different sensation when I had two children earlier than the others,” said Ajat.
“That is, because we have no inner attachments. I am not my real son at all. When I was born, I was happy to see a baby. Who is not happy to see a baby? But yes, it is just love for the baby. Not to his mother,” Adit said next.
Santi and Dinda just listen, they both do not love women who give birth to children who say their children.